{"id":19968,"date":"2020-06-20T08:04:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T08:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19968"},"modified":"2022-03-22T02:04:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T02:04:18","slug":"se-vuoi-essere-quello-che-linferno-non-dimentichera-mai-non-giocare-al-suo-gioco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-vuoi-essere-quello-che-linferno-non-dimentichera-mai-non-giocare-al-suo-gioco\/","title":{"rendered":"Se volete essere la persona che non dimenticher\u00e0 mai, non fate il suo gioco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It\u2019s filled with players and their manipulative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-psicologia-che-si-nasconde-dietro-il-gioco-degli-appuntamenti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">giochi caldi e freddi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, most women don\u2019t see much choice in the matter other than playing along.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec facendo, rimangono bloccati in questa rete di amore a met\u00e0 che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-giocatore-ti-manderebbe-un-messaggio-ogni-giorno\/\">i giocatori<\/a> costruito che non sar\u00e0 mai sufficiente a renderli felici.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see if some of these scenarios sound familiar: You receive a text message and then you wait a bit to text back; you do your best to make him jealous; you give him attention then you pull away and pretend like you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, you are giving him a taste of his own medicine. And while that works for a bit, it doesn\u2019t give you the result you need, it just keeps you in the game.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Correct me if I am wrong but inside of the game isn\u2019t somewhere you want to live. It\u2019s exhausting and tiring to always keep your guard up.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Volete una relazione normale e amorevole. Volete calore, rispetto e onest\u00e0 che siate in grado di restituire.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to think ahead and strategize your every move. You want love that flows, not one that is full of dams.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t play his game. You should have your own rules and do your own thing.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 bisogno che vi dedichiate a manipolazioni e giochi mentali e che vi abbassiate al suo livello.<\/p>\n<p>Dovrebbe essere al tuo livello e trattarti bene o lasciare la tua vita per sempre.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si guarda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t change your essence, stay true to yourself but by all means <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/stabilire-una-relazione-di-standard-con-qualcosa-di-obbligatorio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fissare alcuni standard<\/a>. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>L'unico modo per ottenere l'amore e il rispetto che meritate \u00e8 amare e rispettare prima di tutto voi stessi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Having standards means demanding that at all times. It means not putting up with somebody&#8217;s poor treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Significa amare se stessi a sufficienza per allontanarsi da situazioni che ci rendono infelici o che non ci fanno stare bene.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Be the one who isn\u2019t afraid to close her eyes, fall in love and hope for the best.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, la caduta potrebbe essere brutta e potreste farvi male. Ma si pu\u00f2 anche continuare a levitare se l'amore \u00e8 vero.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t pretend like you don\u2019t care or act like a bitch to make somebody like you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Siate quelli che si rifiutano con grazia di partecipare a qualcosa che non \u00e8 all'altezza.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>If he wants something laidback, casual, or no strings attached, tell him that\u2019s great for him but it doesn\u2019t quite work for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90215\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che parla mentre l&#039;uomo si sente offeso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wish him luck and send him on his way. Someone who will give you everything will come along but you won\u2019t be able to notice if you are playing games that will lead you nowhere.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sii colui che amer\u00e0 senza trattenersi.<\/strong> <\/em>Quella che dar\u00e0 tutto se stessa per far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\n<p>The one who doesn\u2019t give up easily but knows that sometimes enough is enough and it\u2019s time for her to go.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Sii quella che insegue solo se viene inseguita.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t go after somebody who doesn\u2019t go after you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be the girl waiting by the phone hoping to hear from him. Don\u2019t be the one who drops everything when he calls.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not playing games, it\u2019s not prioritizing somebody who never puts you first.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Siate colei che costruisce la propria vita. Sii la te stessa di cui sei orgogliosa.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Be someone who conquers her fears and thrives in spite of everything that\u2019s holding her back.<\/p>\n<p>Be the one who doesn\u2019t allow sadness to stay in her life for too long. Be the one who laughs from her soul and smiles with her heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90216\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Donna con camicia bianca casual all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Siate voi ad aspettarvi lo stesso rispetto, amore, onest\u00e0 e investimento che lei sta portando nella relazione.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for lame excuses. Don\u2019t buy into stories that players use to lure you in. Don\u2019t participate in the game\u2026 leave.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him treat you like a toy and you won\u2019t be remembered as one.<\/p>\n<p>Un giorno il giocatore a cui siete affezionati ora si stancher\u00e0 dei suoi giochi. Cambier\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/guardera-ogni-donna-promettendo-di-non-trovare-mai\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Vi cercher\u00e0<\/a> when you lose all interest in him. He will look for you when you find your home in somebody else&#8217;s arms. He will remember your warmth. He will miss your smile.<\/p>\n<p>Penser\u00e0 a tutte le cose che avrebbe potuto fare in modo diverso, cos\u00ec che forse ora saresti al suo fianco. Rimarrai criptata nella sua mente come quella che \u00e8 sfuggita.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Vedete, il problema dei giocatori \u00e8 che sanno quello che avevano solo quando l'hanno perso per sempre.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-90210 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se volete essere la persona che non dimenticher\u00e0 mai, non fate il suo gioco\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It\u2019s filled with players and their manipulative hot and cold games. Naturally, most women don\u2019t see much choice in the matter other than playing along. By doing that, they get stuck in this web of half-assed love that the players constructed that will never be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":90213,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19968","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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