{"id":19997,"date":"2018-06-20T11:57:20","date_gmt":"2018-06-20T11:57:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19997"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:47:10","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:47:10","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-si-e-allontanato-e-cosa-potete-fare-al-riguardo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-si-e-allontanato-e-cosa-potete-fare-al-riguardo\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui si \u00e8 allontanato (e cosa si pu\u00f2 fare)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perch\u00e9 gli uomini si allontanano? Se lui ha gi\u00e0 ha mostrato interesse per voi<\/a>, if he made an effort to win you over and make you his, why is he doing all of this right now? Why does he think that it is normal to just make that \u2019switch\u2019 in his head and start acting in a different way? This happens in almost every love relationship and it would be nice to know why men do that.<\/p>\n

It would be nice to know that it is just a phase in their life where they maybe don\u2019t feel good in their skin and they crave a change. And that\u2019s why I decided to make a list of the most common reasons why men pull away and what you can do about it. So stay tuned!<\/p>\n

1. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 voi siete pi\u00f9 forti di lui<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You probably never thought that your strong character would affect your love relationship but now you see that it really does. Maybe your man didn\u2019t mind that you were stronger than him at the beginning of your relationship but maybe he is in a bad life phase now and he wants to be the dominant one in the relationship. Maybe he doesn\u2019t want a woman who will tell him what to do but he wants one who will follow him.<\/p>\n

Cosa potete fare: Se sapete con certezza che lui allontanato<\/a> because of your strong character, you should talk to him about that. Maybe he has issues and maybe he doesn\u2019t like some of your behavior. I am not saying that you should change because of him but at least listen to all that he has to say and try to find out if you offended him with some of your actions. If he is willing to come back, he will listen to you and try to compromise but if he doesn\u2019t want to be with you, he will easily find una scusa per non incontrarti.<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 la comunicazione non \u00e8 buona<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Maybe the communication between the two of you is not so good and all that he wants to say simply can\u2019t come out of his mouth because you will criticize it. He just feels like you are pushing him away by telling him what to do and how to behave. No man loves that so your partner won\u2019t be an exception.<\/p>\n

What you can do about it: Change your perspective about him. He is not a little child so you don\u2019t need to tell him what to do or what to say. He is a grown man and he can make decisions by himself. Try to communicate in a different way. Try to listen to what he has to say and let him tell you about his ideas on how to handle things. I am sure he would be just fine on his own if you let him decide about the big things. Try to make a compromesso<\/a> where you will decide about something and he will decide about something else that\u2019s just as important as the first thing.<\/p>\n

3. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 ha una nuova persona nella sua vita.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Nella maggior parte dei casi, gli uomini si allontanano se non sono soddisfatti di una relazione e trovano una nuova persona che realizzi i loro sogni. Quindi, verificate se il vostro uomo ha un'altra persona nella sua vita che lo soddisfa completamente. Verificate se c'\u00e8 un'altra donna a cui si dedica e vi d\u00e0 solo le briciole dalla sua tavola.<\/p>\n

What you can do about it: If the main reason why he pulled away is someone new, ask him why he did that. Ask him what he needed in the relationship that he didn\u2019t get from you. Ask him why he didn\u2019t tell you all about it and why he pretended that everything was okay. If he says that he is sorry, just know that you shouldn\u2019t forgive him just like that. Just because you caught him in his lie doesn\u2019t mean that you should also give him a second chance. If he truly loved you he would have never done that to you. Tell him that he should have chosen another way of dealing with that problem and that you can\u2019t stay with a dishonest man like him.<\/p>\n

4. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 si sente a proprio agio nella relazione<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Se avete una relazione a lungo termine, \u00e8 possibile che lui vi dia per scontate, pensando che ci sarete sempre. Vuole divertirsi e godersi la vita, indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che avete da dire. Quindi ha smesso del tutto di inseguendoti<\/a>, thinking that he doesn\u2019t need to do that anymore. And day by day you feel like he is pulling away more and more and when you tell him about it he freaks out, telling you that it is the way things work in a relationship or marriage.<\/p>\n

What you can do about it: First of all, don\u2019t trust him when he says that things in a long-term relationship have to be like that because that isn\u2019t true. If you love someone, you will chase them even if they are already yours. If you truly care about your partner you will do anything to make them happy, you won\u2019t pull away if you don\u2019t have a damn good reason for that. So, be harsh on him and explain to him that he will lose you if he continues to behave like that.<\/p>\n

5. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 ha paura di un futuro con lei<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

One of the reasons why he pulled away can be that he was thinking about a future with you and he realized that being with you is not what he really wants. Maybe he was head over heels in love with you but all those years spent together and the problems that you had somewhere along the road made scars in your relationship. He doesn\u2019t see the same woman he fell in love with when he looks at you and he wants to change that.<\/p>\n

What you can do about it: If you feel that the two of you can make it no matter what happens, then fight for him. But if you feel that he doesn\u2019t love you the way he loved you before and that he is staying with you just because everything about you is familiar to him, then you should just leave. A man who stops loving you the way he loved you before will never give you the l'amore che desideri<\/a> cos\u00ec tanto. Non ti far\u00e0 mai sentire speciale e non ti far\u00e0 mai venire i brividi sulla pelle quando ti abbraccer\u00e0. E tesoro, tu meriti tutto questo. E niente di meno.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why do men pull away in the first place? If he already showed interest in you, if he made an effort to win you over and make you his, why is he doing all of this right now? Why does he think that it is normal to just make that \u2019switch\u2019 in his head and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":20002,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19997","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/chau-luong-673374-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19997","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19997"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19997\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20002"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19997"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19997"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19997"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}