{"id":20004,"date":"2020-06-20T12:04:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T12:04:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20004"},"modified":"2022-02-27T11:01:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T11:01:27","slug":"perdonare-se-stessi-per-aver-amato-la-persona-sbagliata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perdonare-se-stessi-per-aver-amato-la-persona-sbagliata\/","title":{"rendered":"Perdonarsi per aver amato la persona sbagliata"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you don\u2019t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you\u2019re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can\u2019t you forgive yourself? You didn\u2019t know he was going to hurt you.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know he would take you for granted. You didn\u2019t know!<\/p>\n

Quindi, perdonate voi stessi per innamorarsi della persona sbagliata<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

No one will tell you that they\u2019re messed up when they meet you. No one will tell you all about their faults, flaws or demons when they meet you.<\/p>\n

And no one will tell you that their love is not the love for you. And there\u2019s no way knowing if you don\u2019t give it a chance.<\/p>\n

And I know that you hate yourself for giving the wrong people chances, I know you\u2019re angry with yourself for staying with the wrong people.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019re not a quitter and you never have been. When you love, you love wholeheartedly. And when you choose someone, you do it every single day with your entire being.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what makes you so special, that\u2019s what makes you so amazing.<\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Non lasciate mai che le persone sbagliate ve lo portino via, perch\u00e9 quelle giuste sono dietro l'angolo del vostro cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n

Perdonare se stessi per essersi fidati delle persone sbagliate.<\/b><\/p>\n

Non sai mai chi si giocher\u00e0 la tua fiducia e chi la terr\u00e0 al sicuro. Non sai mai chi ti rispetter\u00e0 per esserti fidato di loro e chi ti tratter\u00e0 come uno stupido.<\/p>\n

But imagine how sad and lonely your life would\u2019ve been if you had pushed everyone away and held it all inside yourself.<\/p>\n

Imagine how pressured you would have felt and how fed up you would\u2019ve been. Let it all go and let it all out.<\/p>\n

Ci saranno sempre persone che vi mostreranno che la fiducia \u00e8 difficile, ma ci saranno anche persone che vi mostreranno che they\u2019re worthy<\/a> della vostra fiducia.<\/p>\n

Perdonare se stessi per aver fatto entrare le persone sbagliate.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando si lascia entrare qualcuno, si confida che terr\u00e0 al sicuro il proprio cuore. Quando lasci entrare qualcuno, gli permetti di vedere le parti pi\u00f9 profonde e oscure di te.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

And sometimes it doesn\u2019t work out. Sometimes they don\u2019t know how to hold you, sometimes they don\u2019t know how to share silence with you. And sometimes they don\u2019t want to learn.<\/p>\n

Ma ci saranno persone che saranno onorate di tenerti in braccio di notte. Ci saranno persone che saranno onorate di amarti e di ascoltare il battito del tuo cuore.<\/p>\n

Ci sar\u00e0 qualcuno che vi bacer\u00e0 sulla fronte e vi sembrer\u00e0 che abbia baciato la vostra anima.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che vedr\u00e0 tutti i vostri difetti e li bacer\u00e0 comunque. Qualcuno che vi aiuter\u00e0 a raccogliere tutti i vostri pezzi rotti e a baciarli insieme. Perdonate voi stessi per aver lasciato entrare le persone sbagliate, in modo da poter dare una possibilit\u00e0 a quelle giuste.<\/p>\n

Perdonare se stessi per aver amato la persona sbagliata.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know it hurts, I know you feel stupid for loving someone so bad. I know you\u2019re angry for letting yourself fall for someone so shallow and mean. But you didn\u2019t know. And don\u2019t let him hurt you any longer.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let his toxic words poison you any longer. Let them go, let him go. Forgive yourself for loving an idiot, because it taught you something much more valuable.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It taught you that it\u2019s not love if it hurts. It taught you that there is a bunch of assholes out there who are only interested in playing with your emotions and heart.<\/p>\n

Vi ha insegnato che ci sono psicopatici<\/a>, fuckboys and shit-boys who don\u2019t know how to love. But just because they don\u2019t know how, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not worth it.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t deny yourself the chance of meeting someone who will be everything you ever needed and everything you never thought you needed, because you\u2019re still mad at yourself. <\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let all those idiots from your past chase away your happiness. <\/b><\/p>\n

Lasciateli al loro posto e date fuoco a tutto. Vi meritate di pi\u00f9 che rimanere bloccati nel passato con le persone sbagliate. <\/b><\/p>\n

Look to the future with the right ones. Even if you have to be the One for yourself, it\u2019s still better than lost in the past.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Perdonarsi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you don\u2019t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you\u2019re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can\u2019t you forgive yourself? You didn\u2019t know he was going to hurt you. You didn\u2019t know he would take you for granted. You didn\u2019t know! So, forgive…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":95812,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Forgive-Yourself-For-Loving-The-Wrong-Person.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}