{"id":20007,"date":"2020-06-20T12:19:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T12:19:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20007"},"modified":"2022-04-01T11:14:33","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T11:14:33","slug":"8-dolorosi-segnali-che-e-arrivato-il-momento-di-rinunciare-a-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-dolorosi-segnali-che-e-arrivato-il-momento-di-rinunciare-a-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"8 dolorosi segnali che \u00e8 ora di rinunciare a lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Forse non pensavate che questo sarebbe mai accaduto, ma ora siete qui a pensare se restare con lui o trovare la vostra felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>And you think and think, but you can\u2019t think of anything smart. A part of you still loves him while the other part is hurt deeply by his behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Per aiutarvi a trovare la soluzione migliore, ecco alcuni esempi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/11-dolorosi-segnali-che-non-sei-altro-che-il-suo-piano-di-riserva\/\">segni dolorosi<\/a> che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/forse-e-il-momento-di-rinunciare-alle-citazioni\/\">\u00e8 tempo di arrendersi<\/a> su di lui.<\/p>\n<p>Spero che vi faccia aprire gli occhi quando vedrete che cose del genere vi accadono quotidianamente, ma vi siete rifiutati di vederle per tutto questo tempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ti fa dubitare di te stesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa che si mangia le unghie a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your partner doesn\u2019t accept you the way you are and you need to doubt your self-worth in your relationship, it is time to give up on him.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che vi ama veramente vi accetterebbe con tutti i vostri difetti e non vi chiederebbe mai di cambiare. Ma se vi sentite male e come se non foste abbastanza, qualcosa deve cambiare.<\/p>\n<p>Potete provare a parlargli dei vostri sentimenti, ma se poi persiste nella sua decisione, qualsiasi altra cosa sarebbe vana.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando sei con lui cammini su un guscio d'uovo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Una donna pensierosa appoggia la testa sulla schiena di un uomo mentre si trova all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you feel like you need to watch out what you say or do in front of your partner? Are you afraid that he will freak out if you do something that he doesn\u2019t like?<\/p>\n<p>If the answer is \u2018yes\u2019, then you should think about where you are now and if you want to be in the same place in a couple of years.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t put your life on hold just to satisfy him and you can\u2019t put him first all the time. What was the last time he did that for you?<\/p>\n<p>Mai, lo so. Allora, perch\u00e9 sacrificarsi<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-ragazza-della-lettera-si-e-impegnata-a-fondo-alluomo-non-importava-nulla\/\"> for the man who couldn\u2019t care less for you<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti sminuisce davanti a tutti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che mette in imbarazzo la sua ragazza in pubblico\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lui lo considera solo uno scherzo, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che a causa di quello scherzo lei si sente profondamente ferita.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, he always says something that you don\u2019t think is nice in front of the others and he never shows that he cares about you. By belittling you, he feels dominant and like someone who is the main part of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Devi dirgli che quello che fa non \u00e8 affatto bello e che deve darsi una regolata se vuole restare con te.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Niente di ci\u00f2 che fai \u00e8 buono per lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia seduta al tavolo del caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sapete come ci si sente a non essere mai abbastanza per l'uomo che \u00e8 tutto il vostro mondo? Qualsiasi cosa facciate non \u00e8 abbastanza per lui e vuole sempre qualcosa di meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it is time to sit down and think about your feelings toward him. Maybe you don\u2019t like his behavior as well, but you just don\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n<p>I am telling you\u2014it is better to be alone than in a bad and toxic relationship. I am sure that in the end, you will figure out what is the best for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn\u2019t interested in you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di giovane donna e giovane uomo all&#039;aperto per strada con problemi di relazione\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti sembra che gestisca la sua vita senza <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/you-shouldnt-be-the-only-one-putting-in-all-the-effort\/\">fare uno sforzo<\/a> per renderti parte di esso?<\/p>\n<p>Avete la sensazione che la vecchia scintilla sia scomparsa dalla vostra relazione e che lui abbia perso totalmente interesse per voi?<\/p>\n<p>If these are the things you think about, it is time to give up on him because he obviously doesn\u2019t give you what you crave.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you don\u2019t think that you will ever meet someone new, someone who will know to cherish you, you are not right.<\/p>\n<p>The man who thinks you are worthy will come along. But you know, good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Implorate il suo amore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96699\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna premurosa che abbraccia un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se dovete implorarlo per ottenere l'amore e l'affetto che sono una parte normale di ogni relazione, allora quella relazione non vale pi\u00f9 la pena di essere provata.<\/p>\n<p>Se sarete gli unici ad amare, a provarci e a fare uno sforzo, non ha senso continuare quel tipo di relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Se un uomo vede che avete bisogno di lui e si allontana, \u00e8 segno che qualcosa non va bene e che stareste meglio senza di lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Spera che cambier\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96700\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"Una donna pensierosa appoggia la testa sulla schiena di un uomo mentre si trova all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se soffrite in silenzio, sperando che lui cambi, allora non vale la pena lottare per quella relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, your man doesn\u2019t cherish you and he does things his way, not even thinking about what you will say about it.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, quando scopri tutte le cose che ha fatto per ferirti, lo perdoni perch\u00e9, cazzo, lo ami ancora, e preghi Dio che cambi.<\/p>\n<p>Darling, let me tell you something: He will never change. If you let him, he will lead you on and he won\u2019t even feel remorse about that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'istinto vi dice che qualcosa non va<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito bianco appoggiata sul ginocchio occhi chiusi\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know that small voice inside you telling you what is wrong and what isn\u2019t? What does it say right now?<\/p>\n<p>Niente di bello, vero? Probabilmente dice che non vale pi\u00f9 la pena di lottare e che dovreste lasciarlo e trovare qualcuno che vi renda davvero felici.<\/p>\n<p>Vi dice di rinunciare all'uomo che vi ha abbandonato molto tempo fa e di mettere finalmente voi stesse al primo posto. Se fossi in voi, lo ascolterei perch\u00e9 non sbaglia mai!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96703 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 dolorosi segnali che \u00e8 ora di rinunciare a lui\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t think that this will ever happen, but here you are now, thinking if you should stay with him or find your own happiness. And you think and think, but you can\u2019t think of anything smart. A part of you still loves him while the other part is hurt deeply by his behavior&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":96691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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