{"id":20099,"date":"2020-10-22T09:00:05","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T09:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20099"},"modified":"2022-09-26T12:21:34","modified_gmt":"2022-09-26T12:21:34","slug":"7-motivi-per-cui-molti-uomini-soffrono-di-problemi-di-impegno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-molti-uomini-soffrono-di-problemi-di-impegno\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui molti uomini soffrono di problemi di impegno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se avete una relazione e le cose non sembrano mai andare avanti, vi starete chiedendo il perch\u00e9 di questa situazione.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably thinking it\u2019s all your fault because you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s true but maybe it\u2019s not you at all. I know it\u2019s not fair to blame it on men all the time but in this case, if you\u2019re clean and not guilty for your relationship fallout, then it must be him.<\/p>\n

E questa volta \u00e8 cos\u00ec. Ha paura di impegnarsi<\/a> a voi e non solo a voi, ma praticamente a chiunque.<\/p>\n

Questo, tuttavia, pu\u00f2 essere risolto, ma solo se si sa qual \u00e8 il vero problema e perch\u00e9 lui ha paura di investire nella vostra relazione e di darle una possibilit\u00e0 di diventare eterna.<\/p>\n

E se volete scoprire qual \u00e8 il vero problema, dovete offrirvi di aiutarlo, per cercare di risolverlo.<\/p>\n

Il suo problema risale al passato. Ha paura di impegnarsi perch\u00e9 probabilmente ha avuto problemi in amore, con un familiare o con un amico.<\/p>\n

Once you find the cause, you\u2019ll be able to find the solution, too. But only if he wants to cooperate and if he is honest with you.<\/p>\n

I motivi per cui molti uomini hanno paura di impegnarsi possono essere:<\/p>\n

Paura del rifiuto<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Molti uomini hanno semplicemente paura di amare qualcuno perch\u00e9 hanno avuto una brutta esperienza d'amore nel loro passato.<\/p>\n

They may have loved someone but that person walked out on them or didn\u2019t love them back, which caused them to never trust anyone again.<\/p>\n

Sono stati feriti e ora hanno bisogno di tempo per aprirsi e fidarsi di nuovo di qualcuno.<\/p>\n

Paura di fallire<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Some men are scared they are not going to fulfill the other person\u2019s expectations.<\/p>\n

They are scared that their relationship is not going to work and since they want everything to be perfect and this relationship potentially won\u2019t be, they will avoid it to avoid failure.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 sempre una scelta<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Some men are just cowards. Instead of fighting and trying to work out problems, it\u2019s easier for them to just break up and find someone who won\u2019t object to their demands and someone who will do whatever they say.<\/p>\n

So they won\u2019t commit because it\u2019s easier to find someone else who will do as they say. In this case, don\u2019t waste your time trying to \u2018fix\u2019 him because it\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

Paura dell'abbandono<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Questa paura si sviluppa a causa di una relazione passata dell'uomo. Si \u00e8 innamorato prima di voi e forse ha pensato che fosse finita l\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Maybe he thought that he had found the right one and that \u2018right one\u2019 dumped him on his birthday, let\u2019s say.<\/p>\n

Whatever she has done to him, it has caused him to be scared of abandonment. That\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t affezionarsi cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ha paura che se lo fa, la persona con cui sta lo lascer\u00e0 e dovr\u00e0 affrontare di nuovo il processo di guarigione.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to lose their independence<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Some men think that dating will take away their independence. They don\u2019t understand that dating is basically sharing and mutual helping. It\u2019s not about who obeys whom.<\/p>\n

They have these independence issues because they don\u2019t want to depend on anyone, especially a woman.<\/p>\n

What they don\u2019t understand is that they don\u2019t depend on a woman but they are in a relationship where both of them are equal.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t let go of the past<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

If a man who is in a relationship has commitment issues, it\u2019s possible that he suffers from it because he is already committed to someone else.<\/p>\n

Maybe he fell in love long time ago and that relationship failed and although it failed he can\u2019t let go of the past. He can\u2019t force himself to stop loving whoever broke his heart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he can\u2019t commit to you. His heart belongs to someone else who sadly rejected him.<\/p>\n

Se vi imbattete in una situazione del genere, la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 andarvene perch\u00e9 siete voi a finire con il cuore spezzato se restate.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t like you enough to commit<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to hear it but sometimes it\u2019s true. Sometimes, it\u2019s as simple as that\u2014he doesn\u2019t like you enough to commit.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change that and you can\u2019t talk about this to him because you won\u2019t be able to change his mind.<\/p>\n

He likes you, he thinks you\u2019re fun, your relationship is cute but it isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to admit it to yourself and deal with it in your mind so you can move on, than to suffer and torture yourself by staying in a relationship with a man who will never love you.<\/p>\n

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If you are in a relationship and things never seem to move forward, you\u2019re probably wondering why that is happening. You\u2019re probably thinking it\u2019s all your fault because you\u2019re doing something wrong. Maybe that\u2019s true but maybe it\u2019s not you at all. I know it\u2019s not fair to blame it on men all the time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124526,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Reasons-Why-So-Many-Men-Suffer-From-Commitment-Issues-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20099"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20099\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}