{"id":20106,"date":"2020-05-22T10:29:47","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T10:29:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20106"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:14:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:14:22","slug":"7-segnali-dolorosi-che-non-vuole-che-tu-sia-la-sua-ragazza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segnali-dolorosi-che-non-vuole-che-tu-sia-la-sua-ragazza\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni dolorosi che non vuole che tu sia la sua ragazza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You want a boyfriend and you\u2019ve been searching for the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-adorable-signs-he-wants-you-to-be-his-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> segni che vuole che tu sia la sua ragazza<\/a>, too, but you can\u2019t seem to find any?<\/p>\n<p>Well, maybe he really doesn\u2019t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you.<\/p>\n<p>This happens all the time and you are not the only one who\u2019s faced with this problem.<\/p>\n<p>Molti ragazzi inviano segnali che indicano che sono interessati a voi, ma quando iniziate una relazione notate una mancanza di interesse e finisce che siete voi a occuparvi di tutto. Siete l'unica che cerca di far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la differenza tra gli uomini che sono interessati a uscire con voi e quelli che cercano solo di divertirsi non \u00e8 cos\u00ec grande. Spesso si possono confondere i segnali e interpretarli come meglio si crede.<\/p>\n<p>So, to escape a potential catastrophe and run away in time, read the signs he doesn\u2019t want you to be his girlfriend:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Voi due siete cos\u00ec diversi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94088\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di giovane donna e uomo all&#039;aperto in strada con problemi di relazione\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the reasons he doesn\u2019t want you to be his girlfriend can be that the two of you are very different.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste avere sistemi di credenze diversi, oppure voi siete vegetariani e lui no.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what is at stake, if it bothers him, he won\u2019t be able to let it go that easily. Maybe he is shy and you are outgoing, it really doesn\u2019t matter as long as it\u2019s different.<\/p>\n<p>Most people don\u2019t see these differences as things that can bring you together even closer, things that can teach you a thing or two; they look at them as things they won\u2019t be able to handle, things that will destroy a potential relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94089\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seria in piedi all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he refuses to define what kind of relationship you\u2019re in, then he definitely doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably just stringing you along because he doesn\u2019t have the courage to say to your face that it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<p>I ragazzi che vogliono stare con te te lo diranno e quelli che vogliono solo una cosa ti daranno anche indizi che non sei altro che un aggancio.<\/p>\n<p>Quelli che si rifiutano di mettere un'etichetta sono i pi\u00f9 pericolosi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t show interest in you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che ignora la sua ragazza e usa il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t mean sexual interest, I mean that he is not interested in what kind of a person you are.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t ask questions about your life and he is not interested in your past.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care whether you\u2019ve dated one guy or twenty. He doesn\u2019t care if you have a brother or sister and he really doesn\u2019t care about your hobbies.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who is into you will put the effort into trying to find out what you like and don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>Si impegner\u00e0 a fondo per scoprire qualcosa su di voi perch\u00e9 ci tiene davvero a voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non ti chiama mai<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94091\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna disperata che guarda il suo telefono in un bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He only texts you and that is a clear sign that he doesn\u2019t want to communicate with you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to make your relationship deeper, he wants to keep you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n<p>Texting someone only means you\u2019re trying to avoid communication with that person.<\/p>\n<p>And why is someone trying to avoid communication? He doesn\u2019t care enough to get involved so much.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to introduce you to his friends<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat.jpg\" alt=\"Donna in piedi accanto a uomo con cappello nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to involve you in his personal life. Friends are like family and if you don\u2019t mean that much to him, he won\u2019t introduce you to them.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want them to meet you because he is not planning on keeping you around that long, so why then bother introducing you to them?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t care about impressing you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda l&#039;uomo mentre si appoggia alla staccionata\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care about your opinions because he is not interested in a long-term relationship with you and that\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t even bother impressing you.<\/p>\n<p>He basically doesn\u2019t care about what you think about him because he is probably just keeping you as a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/11-dolorosi-segnali-che-non-sei-altro-che-il-suo-piano-di-riserva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">piano di backup<\/a>. He probably only wants you for sex and nothing else and he doesn\u2019t care about your opinions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He doesn\u2019t mention the future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di giovani insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is not specific any time you talk about the future, like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n<p>Is it to stay with you or to be with someone else? There are no future plans that involve you. That is the worst sign you can get from a man that you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n<p>Quando gli chiedete cosa ha intenzione di fare in futuro, vi d\u00e0 risposte vaghe.<\/p>\n<p>He does this because he doesn\u2019t want to include you in his plans, which means <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/6-segnali-strazianti-del-suo-disinteresse-per-te\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">non \u00e8 interessato a te<\/a> tanto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94086 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni dolorosi che non vuole che tu sia la sua ragazza\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You want a boyfriend and you\u2019ve been searching for the signs he wants you to be his girlfriend, too, but you can\u2019t seem to find any? Well, maybe he really doesn\u2019t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you. This happens all the time and you are not the only&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":94087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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