{"id":20142,"date":"2020-07-21T07:58:55","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T07:58:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20142"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:07:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:07:46","slug":"7-segni-che-sta-solo-approfittando-della-tua-gentilezza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-che-sta-solo-approfittando-della-tua-gentilezza\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni che si sta solo approfittando della vostra gentilezza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh, Dio. Quante volte ho ignorato i segnali che mi dicevano che si stava solo approfittando di me scambiando le sue azioni per amore.<\/p>\n<p>I guess that most of us have been there: thinking that we have hit the jackpot relationship, just to realize that we have made a huge mistake by giving ourself away too much to someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate us at all.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, queste persone esistono davvero, i diavoli che ci seducono con i loro occhi sognanti e ci fanno diventare una priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Per voi e per tutte le donne che hanno paura che gli uomini che amano si approfittino di loro, ecco alcuni segnali e bandiere rosse da tenere d'occhio:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Non ha problemi a chiedere favori<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91134\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-while-he-holding-her-arms-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda con sospetto l&#039;uomo mentre le tiene le braccia in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-while-he-holding-her-arms-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-while-he-holding-her-arms-in-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-while-he-holding-her-arms-in-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando ha bisogno di qualcosa, viene subito da voi sapendo che lo aiuterete.<\/p>\n<p>I do know that this is something you should do in a relationship but if he&#8217;s calling you for every little thing then I do not think that that&#8217;s love.<\/p>\n<p>Especially if he calls you to loan him money! To be honest, what are you giving him that he couldn&#8217;t be asking for somewhere else?<\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s always in your house searching for food and asking you to do the stupidest tasks for him, then he really is taking advantage of you.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ma lui non c'\u00e8 mai per te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones.jpg\" alt=\"Foto ravvicinata di una donna che ascolta musica triste con gli auricolari\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/close-up-photo-of-woman-listening-sad-music-with-earphones-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No matter whether it&#8217;s something small or something big, he is simply never there for you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t call you to see how you&#8217;re doing nor does he come to check on you when you&#8217;re sick.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, quello che succede \u00e8 che lui inventa tutte quelle stupide scuse solo per non starti vicino.<\/p>\n<p>He can&#8217;t even bother to help you move something heavy, he&#8217;d rather sit around and wait for you to do it yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Vuole sempre fare sesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Man-holding-condom-and-stands-in-front-of-a-girl.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo con preservativo in mano e in piedi davanti a una ragazza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Man-holding-condom-and-stands-in-front-of-a-girl.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Man-holding-condom-and-stands-in-front-of-a-girl-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Man-holding-condom-and-stands-in-front-of-a-girl-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I mean, what guy doesn&#8217;t? But if the first thing he does when he comes to your house is take your bra off then that&#8217;s not really something you should be happy about.<\/p>\n<p>You might be too hot to resist but there is a bigger chance that he is taking advantage of you and he simply can&#8217;t have a meaningful conversation first.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Scompare e cancella le date<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91137\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-in-black-quarter-sleeve-top-leaning-on-black-desk.jpg\" alt=\"Donna in top nero a un quarto di manica appoggiata a una scrivania nera\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-in-black-quarter-sleeve-top-leaning-on-black-desk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-in-black-quarter-sleeve-top-leaning-on-black-desk-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-in-black-quarter-sleeve-top-leaning-on-black-desk-768x516.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whenever you two go out with your friends, he simply disappears, telling you that he feels like he&#8217;s not fitting in with the crowd.<\/p>\n<p>He never stays the night at your house and he&#8217;s just never there.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he cancels your dates when he doesn&#8217;t feel like going out but when he calls you, he gets mad if you can&#8217;t go out. So, double standards much?<\/p>\n<h2>5. Non scende mai a compromessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria che parla con un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-1-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-1-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t really bother to compromise with you. It&#8217;s the way he wants it his way or no way at all.<\/p>\n<p>A volte \u00e8 frustrante perch\u00e9 \u00e8 troppo testardo perch\u00e9 possiate farlo ragionare.<\/p>\n<p>He is always the one making decisions and he doesn&#8217;t even bother to hear your opinion.<\/p>\n<p>Semplicemente non ti consulta mai quando si tratta di questioni che riguardano entrambi.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Sembra non essere emotivamente disponibile<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91139\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda l&#039;uomo mentre si appoggia alla staccionata\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whenever you listen to him talk it&#8217;s never about something important or emotional.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s always something funny or a joke, because he&#8217;s afraid to show his emotions.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t let you see who he really is and he never talks about his personal life.<\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s having trouble at work, he&#8217;d rather die than tell you what&#8217;s going on.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t even bother to show you any affection to make you feel special or needed.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Ti chiama solo quando vuole qualcosa da te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91140\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/closeup-photo-from-back-of-man-talking-on-phone-and-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata dal retro di un uomo che parla al telefono e guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/closeup-photo-from-back-of-man-talking-on-phone-and-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/closeup-photo-from-back-of-man-talking-on-phone-and-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/closeup-photo-from-back-of-man-talking-on-phone-and-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Well, this one hurts a lot. But if he only calls you when he needs something from you, not even bothering to ask if you&#8217;re in need of anything, it&#8217;s clear that all he wants is to take advantage of your kindness.<\/p>\n<p>If that&#8217;s really what&#8217;s happening in your relationship then you should get out of it as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn&#8217;t show gratitude and if he doesn&#8217;t even bother with you then there&#8217;s nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91132\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Taking-Advantage-Of-Your-Kindness-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni che si sta solo approfittando della vostra gentilezza\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Taking-Advantage-Of-Your-Kindness-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Taking-Advantage-Of-Your-Kindness-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ohh, God. How many times have I just ignored the signs that told me that he was just taking advantage of me mistaking his actions for love. I guess that most of us have been there: thinking that we have hit the jackpot relationship, just to realize that we have made a huge mistake by&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":91133,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Taking-Advantage-Of-Your-Kindness.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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