{"id":20173,"date":"2020-07-26T07:10:24","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T07:10:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20173"},"modified":"2022-02-15T00:14:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T00:14:11","slug":"ti-amo-ancora-ma-non-mi-piace-la-persona-che-sei-diventata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-amo-ancora-ma-non-mi-piace-la-persona-che-sei-diventata\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti amo ancora, solo non mi piace la persona che sei diventata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si dice che ogni vero amore debba essere incondizionato. Quando si ama una persona, la si ama interamente e completamente, senza fare domande.<\/p>\n

Li amate con tutti i loro difetti e imperfezioni. Li accettate per quello che sono e non cercate mai di cambiarne l'essenza.<\/p>\n

You love them the same through their best and through their worst. At least, that is how things should be, shouldn\u2019t they?<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 cos\u00ec che ti ho amato. Ti ho amato, a prescindere da tutto e nonostante tutto.<\/p>\n

E Ti amo ancora<\/a>, non c'\u00e8 dubbio. Ti amo<\/a> even though the truth is I don\u2019t want to love you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anche se combatto i miei sentimenti, in qualche modo ne escono sempre rafforzati e in qualche modo vincono sempre.<\/p>\n

In qualche modo il mio cuore vince sempre sulla ragione e apparentemente non posso farci nulla, per quanto mi sforzi.<\/p>\n

\"<\/p>\n

Voglio che tu sappia che, purtroppo per me, questo amore profondo ed enorme che provo per te ha poco o nulla a che fare con tutto ci\u00f2 che sto per dirti.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean I am not going to say it.<\/p>\n

The truth is that I don\u2019t like the person you\u2019ve become, even though Amo ancora quella persona<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

To be honest, I don\u2019t know how that is even possible. How can you love someone without liking them?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I myself don\u2019t know the answer but this is exactly how I feel. And it wasn\u2019t like that from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Mi sono innamorata di te per le tue qualit\u00e0 e per l'uomo che eri.<\/p>\n

Mi sono innamorata della sua onest\u00e0, della forza del suo carattere e della sua personalit\u00e0, tra le altre cose.<\/p>\n

Mi sono innamorata di te perch\u00e9 eri un uomo vero, che sapeva apprezzare i veri valori e che sapeva rispettarmi.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

When I first met you, I thought I\u2019d finally found everything I was looking for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Naturalmente, non sto cercando di affermare che lei sia stato questo uomo perfetto<\/a> perch\u00e9 lei aveva sicuramente i suoi difetti, come li avevo io.<\/p>\n

Ma essenzialmente sapevo che eri una persona buona, amorevole e premurosa.<\/p>\n

And with time, you\u2019ve changed and everything about you changed. And you\u2019ve become everything you swore you\u2019d never become.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I am scared to admit this to myself and to say it out loud but it seems to me that you\u2019ve become a bad guy, a bad person, and that is something I\u2019m struggling to accept.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what has happened to you and if your change of character had anything to do with me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if this was the real you all along and if you just pretended to be someone you were not until you saw you had me but the fact is that I don\u2019t like the man you\u2019ve turned out to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The fact is that I wouldn\u2019t like you to be my friend and that I wouldn\u2019t like you in my life if I didn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The fact is that I don\u2019t like this uomo egoista<\/a> che si prende cura solo di se stesso e che si mette sempre al primo posto.<\/p>\n

That I don\u2019t like how you\u2019ve become indifferent toward everyone else\u2019s emotions and the fact that you\u2019ve become immune to the pain you\u2019ve been causing me.<\/p>\n

That I don\u2019t like the fact that you\u2019ve started taking me for granted and that you\u2019ve stopped putting any effort into our relationship, like I have to stay by your side, no matter what.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like all of a sudden you\u2019ve become this toxic, negative and bitter man who enjoys manipulating and hurting others, without ever thinking of the consequences.<\/p>\n

But most of all\u2014I don\u2019t like the person you\u2019ve become because you keep acting like you\u2019ve lost all respect for me.<\/p>\n

It is more than obvious that you don\u2019t appreciate any of my sacrifices and the things I\u2019ve done for our relationship.<\/p>\n

It is like you deliberately keep finding ways to hurt me and to diminish my worth. It\u2019s like you enjoy breaking my heart.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is that I can\u2019t recognize you anymore. Because you are definitely not the man I fell in love with.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

\"Ti<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

They say every true love should be unconditional. When you love a person, you love them entirely and completely, no questions asked. You love them with all of their flaws and imperfections. You accept them for exactly who they are and you never try to change the essence of who they are. You love them…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120616,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/I-Still-Love-You-I-Just-Dont-Like-The-Person-Youve-Become-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20173\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}