{"id":20186,"date":"2019-06-26T07:39:49","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T07:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:10:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:10:53","slug":"so-che-innamorarsi-fa-paura-ma-con-luomo-giusto-ne-varra-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/so-che-innamorarsi-fa-paura-ma-con-luomo-giusto-ne-varra-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"So che innamorarsi fa paura, ma con l'uomo giusto ne varr\u00e0 la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non sei mai stato un codardo. Al contrario, avete sempre attraversato la vita con fierezza e senza paura. Siete sempre stati coraggiosi e forti.<\/p>\n

Tranne che per una cosa.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even il pensiero di innamorarsi \u00e8 diventato spaventoso<\/a> a voi.<\/p>\n

You justify yourself by saying that you can\u2019t force yourself to have faith in love when you\u2019ve been betrayed and hurt so many times because of it. You can\u2019t believe that love can be pure and that it can have a positive outcome on you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve even become sarcastic and pessimistic when love is in question. But if you are honest toward yourself, you\u2019ll see that you are only trying to mask your fear with this sarcasm and irony.<\/p>\n

But the way you see love is nothing unnatural, taking into consideration everything you\u2019ve been through in the past.<\/p>\n

Quando si guarda alla propria vita sentimentale e alla propria storia d'amore da questo punto di vista, non si vede nulla di positivo.<\/strong> S\u00ec, certo, avete dei ricordi affettuosi, ma quelli brutti prevalgono.<\/p>\n

Sadly, the pain and the sadness prevail in the rare moments of happiness you\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n

Era come se ogni uomo che entrava nella tua vita avesse un piano nascosto. Era come se tutti loro volessero solo usarti, ferirti e lasciarti a combattere da sola, mentre loro continuavano la loro vita.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve had different types of men in your life but somehow they all turned out to be wrong for you. Somehow, they\u2019ve all managed to hurt you in different ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E naturalmente tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 accaduto ha lasciato conseguenze sulla vostra personalit\u00e0. Ha cambiato il vostro punto di vista sulla vita e sull'amore e vi ha cambiato come persona.<\/p>\n

All of these men didn\u2019t just hurt you\u2014they\u2019ve made you believe that every person in this world will treat you the same. They\u2019ve made you think that you are obviously not worthy of someone loving you the right way and they\u2019ve convinced you that you shouldn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So naturally, you\u2019ve become scared and you\u2019ve promesso a te stesso di non amare pi\u00f9<\/a>. You\u2019ve become afraid of letting anyone in your life, of giving yourself to someone new and of giving men a chance.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve become petrified of trusting people and most of all, you\u2019ve become scared of falling in love, thinking it would only bring you suffering.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know you are scared and there is nothing wrong with that. I know you\u2019ve lost all faith in ever finding the man who would abbattere i muri<\/a> because you think he would destroy you. I know you\u2019ve lost all faith in ever loving someone and of ever being loved.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that the right guy will make all of these fears go away, as if they never existed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi dar\u00e0 tutto il suo amore e il suo sostegno e vi far\u00e0 capire che potete sempre contare su di lui, qualunque cosa accada. Si impegner\u00e0 a convincervi che \u00e8 una persona su cui potete contare.<\/p>\n

Far\u00e0 del suo meglio per dimostrarvi che non vi abbandoner\u00e0 mai e che rester\u00e0 con voi nella buona e nella cattiva sorte.<\/p>\n

Questo ragazzo non vi far\u00e0 mai dubitare della sua lealt\u00e0 o dell'amore che prova per voi. Non vi far\u00e0 mai mettere in dubbio il vostro valore e non vi far\u00e0 mai implorare il suo amore e le sue attenzioni.<\/p>\n

And most importantly\u2014he will always fulfill his promises. He will never back out on you nor will he leave you hanging.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, egli si manterr\u00e0 sempre fedele alle sue parole, dimostrandovi che potete fidarvi di lui.<\/p>\n

Non far\u00e0 mai nulla per ferirvi deliberatamente, perch\u00e9 terr\u00e0 sempre conto delle vostre emozioni.<\/p>\n

Infine, quest'uomo non vi abbandoner\u00e0 mai e cercher\u00e0 di dimostrarvi che \u00e8 diverso da tutti gli altri.<\/p>\n

I know you think a guy like this doesn\u2019t exist. And even if he does, that he won\u2019t happen to you.<\/p>\n

But trust me\u2014all of this is just in your head. Because this guy will come along when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

When he comes, he\u2019ll show you why it never worked out with all of these men from your past. And he\u2019ll make you understand that everything you went through was worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 ogni piccola cosa nella tua vita, ogni ragazzo sbagliato e ogni mossa sbagliata che hai fatto, ti ha portato a lui.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n

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You\u2019ve never been a coward. On the contrary, you\u2019ve always walked through life fiercely and fearlessly. You\u2019ve always been brave and strong. Except for one thing. With time, you\u2019ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even the thought of falling in love has become scary to you. You justify…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":20191,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/valerie-elash-623418-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20186\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}