{"id":20243,"date":"2020-10-27T17:22:38","date_gmt":"2020-10-27T17:22:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20243"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:55:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:55:41","slug":"7-motivi-per-cui-non-dovreste-preoccuparvi-di-rimanere-amici-del-vostro-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-non-dovreste-preoccuparvi-di-rimanere-amici-del-vostro-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui non dovreste preoccuparvi di rimanere amici del vostro ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

No matter how tough you’re pretending to be, break-ups are painful for all of us.<\/p>\n

I mean, it’s a person we love and hold very dear leaving our life and probably never coming back as a romantic partner.<\/p>\n

That’s why we tend to hold on to those people tightly, thinking that having them in our life, even as friends, would be a good idea.<\/p>\n

But believe me, it’s not. There are some things that simply don’t allow you two to stay friends without one of you (or both) getting more broken.<\/p>\n

So listen to me, you can’t stay amici del tuo ex<\/a> per i seguenti motivi:<\/p>\n

1. It isn’t healthy<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Just imagine, he’s finding a new girlfriend, they’re having an amazing time together and he introduces the two of you.<\/p>\n

Tenendo conto del fatto che provavate (e forse provate ancora) dei sentimenti per lui, sar\u00e0 impossibile per voi per non provare gelosia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You will envy her for no other reason than the fact that she has him and that he’s not holding you in his arms.<\/p>\n

Whenever she tells you about something he did for her, it’ll remind you of your past with him and it will only hurt you more.<\/p>\n

Don’t do this to yourself. You will end up caught in memories and the horrible feeling of envy.<\/p>\n

2. You won’t be able to move on<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Anche se incontrate un nuovo ragazzo, sarete legati al vostro ex.<\/p>\n

Tornerete sempre da lui perch\u00e9 vi conosce meglio e, se rimarrete amici, vi consulter\u00e0 sul vostro nuovo partner.<\/p>\n

You will compare them and all you are going to do with this is turn down an opportunity for a whole new beginning with someone who hasn’t done anything per farvi del male.<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Finirete a letto insieme<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Pensi davvero di poter rimanere amico di qualcuno che ti ha visto nudo?<\/p>\n

E credi davvero che voi due possiate uscire, ubriacarvi e poi non finire nello stesso letto insieme?<\/p>\n

Lui sa dove vuoi essere toccata e tu sai cosa lo fa impazzire per il tuo corpo. Voi due siete un disastro in attesa di accadere.<\/p>\n

4. Il vostro nuovo partner avr\u00e0 dei problemi<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

Even if you do get the chance to move on and you find a new boyfriend, do you really think that he’s going to be OK with you two sitting at the same table as your ex?<\/p>\n

Of course not. It’s disrespectful and you shouldn’t even bother to try and make them become friends.<\/p>\n

That’s just asking for trouble. Respect your partner and discard your ex.<\/p>\n

5. Uno di voi finir\u00e0 per avere il cuore spezzato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non che la rottura in s\u00e9 sia stata terribile, ma il fatto che voi due decidiate di rimanere amici garantisce che uno di voi due avr\u00e0 di nuovo il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n

Uno dei due continuer\u00e0 a fraintendere i segnali che l'altro gli sta inviando, oppure uno dei due trover\u00e0 un motivo per cercare di far ripartire la vostra relazione, ma l'altro se la rider\u00e0 di gusto.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 mai vorresti vivere una situazione del genere?<\/p>\n

6. La fine di una relazione deve essere finalizzata alla crescita personale<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

When you end a relationship, no matter whether you were the one hurt or the one who hurt someone else, you should always look at a break-up as a new beginning, like you’re starting your life anew and there is nothing to stop you.<\/p>\n

This is the right time to try all those things you weren’t able to do while in a relationship\u2014go out, be sexy, get drunk and so on.<\/p>\n

Allora, perch\u00e9 dovete proprio avere un ricordo al vostro fianco delle vostre esperienze passate, del vostro cuore spezzato e cos\u00ec via?<\/p>\n

7. It’s not necessary<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci sono cos\u00ec tante persone meravigliose l\u00e0 fuori che muoiono dalla voglia di diventare tuoi amici. Quindi, perch\u00e9 non provarci?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 rimanere amici di un ex<\/a> who probably doesn’t appreciate you enough to be there for you when you need him anyways?<\/p>\n

Of course, I’m not saying to be sworn enemies, saying ‘Hi!’ while passing each other is OK.<\/p>\n

Ma stare insieme e far finta che non sia mai successo nulla \u00e8 davvero un errore.<\/p>\n

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