{"id":20261,"date":"2020-06-28T09:24:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T09:24:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20261"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:22:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:22:43","slug":"non-aspettatelo-non-ne-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-aspettatelo-non-ne-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Non aspettatelo, non ne vale la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re smart and if you respect and amare se stessi<\/a>, you won\u2019t wait for him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll give him one or two second chances, but those will be the last ones you\u2019ll give. You won\u2019t leave without a warning because you\u2019re not that kind of a girl.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll give him that one more chance to set things right, to make amends, but if he blows up once again, don\u2019t wait for him and just leave.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to change because he won\u2019t.<\/strong> People don\u2019t change that easily. Actually, I\u2019m not even sure if it\u2019s possible.<\/p>\n

Possono ingannarvi e fingere di aver voltato pagina, ma in realt\u00e0, nel profondo, le persone restano sempre le stesse.<\/p>\n

The only difference is that after they\u2019ve \u2018changed\u2019, they don\u2019t say the things they want to say out loud and they don\u2019t do the things they want to do because they want to fool you into thinking they are not their old selves.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t buy this crap. You can believe it, but not for long. So believe me, it\u2019s better to cut him loose right away than to wait and be disappointed after you find out that he was lying to you that whole time.<\/p>\n

Una relazione in cui dovete aspettare che lui cambi qualcosa nella sua vita, nel suo comportamento o, peggio ancora, nella sua personalit\u00e0, \u00e8 una relazione destinata a fallire fin dall'inizio. Non ha senso provarci.<\/p>\n

The only thing you\u2019re going to get out of it is you, alone and hurt.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to come to his senses.<\/strong> This could last for so long. And all that time, you\u2019re going to get even more hurt than you already are while you humor him and grant every wish he has.<\/p>\n

As long as you keep trying and acting like nothing is happening, he won\u2019t realize that his behavior is shit. He\u2019ll keep on neglecting you because he sees that you\u2019re okay with that.<\/p>\n

If you keep on waiting for him and letting him treat you the way you don\u2019t deserve, you\u2019ll let him wound your heart so hard that you\u2019re going to spend months trying to heal.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Who knows? Maybe he is not that someone you\u2019re supposed to be with. Maybe you\u2019re settling and you don\u2019t even know it. Maybe there is something so much better out there for you.<\/p>\n

You just have to cross the first obstacle. You have to be brave enough to pass the test. So, no, don\u2019t wait for him to come to his senses.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to treat you as a priority.<\/strong> You shouldn\u2019t come second. You should never be someone\u2019s piano di back up<\/a> and now it seems like you\u2019re his.<\/p>\n

When you fall in love, it\u2019s supposed to be the best experience of your life. Love is supposed to evoke feelings you don\u2019t want to end, emotions you want to fall asleep with and get up in the morning feeling.<\/p>\n

But if love makes you feel unwanted and makes you beg for attention, then it\u2019s not real love and he is not the man for you.<\/p>\n

He should always put you first. If he loves you, he should show it to you. Those three little words are surely nice to hear, but if they are not supported by actions, then they don\u2019t mean anything.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to show respect.<\/strong> You\u2019ve earned your respect and if he can\u2019t see that, he is not the man for you.<\/p>\n

Maybe he thinks it\u2019s normal to act that way, but a strong and independent woman such as yourself doesn\u2019t have to put up with it.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have any problems finding someone who will value you. You will find him in a heartbeat, while he\u2026he may have lost the only chance to be loved in his lifetime.<\/p>\n

You deserve a man who appreciates your hard work and how much time and effort you\u2019re investing in everything you\u2019re passionate about.<\/p>\n

Meritate un uomo che creda in voi e che sia al vostro fianco in tutto ci\u00f2 che fate.<\/p>\n

You deserve someone who\u2019ll see how hard you\u2019re trying, someone who will hug you at the end of the day and hold you to help you get your strength back.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to realize what a horrible mistake he has made.<\/strong> Un giorno si pentir\u00e0 di non essersi preso cura di voi in modo migliore.<\/p>\n

One day, he\u2019ll see you with another man, happy and smiling.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see a spark in your eyes he never saw before and then it will hit him. It will suddenly dawn on him what a complete idiot he was. But, then it will be too late. He\u2019ll try to win you back and he\u2019ll fail.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to rimpiangere di averti perso<\/a>. Don\u2019t stick around for so long. Go on and continue with your life without him in it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, meriti di meglio di lui.<\/p>\n

Fate la prima mossa e il resto verr\u00e0 da s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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