{"id":20271,"date":"2018-06-28T09:59:20","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T09:59:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20271"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:32","slug":"non-accontentatevi-di-un-ragazzo-che-non-e-pronto-per-essere-un-uomo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-accontentatevi-di-un-ragazzo-che-non-e-pronto-per-essere-un-uomo\/","title":{"rendered":"Non accontentatevi di un ragazzo che non \u00e8 pronto per diventare uomo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve always been someone who\u2019s followed your heart, especially when it came to love and romantic relations. Even when your mind was telling you that something was a bad idea and when you clearly saw that a certain guy was not good for you, you would still let your emotions guide you and they were always stronger than your reason.<\/p>\n

But when you come to think of it and when you look at your life so far from this point of view, you see that you\u2019ve made some wrong choices.<\/p>\n

Ci sono stati momenti in cui il vostro cuore vi ha guidato verso decisioni e uomini sbagliati.<\/p>\n

La maggior parte di questi uomini erano emotivamente immaturo<\/a> and they didn\u2019t know what they wanted from life.<\/p>\n

Yes, at first, they were attractive and interesting. They were fun to be around and they made you feel good. They made you feel like there was no tomorrow and like you shouldn\u2019t have a care on your mind.<\/p>\n

Ma nessuno di questi ragazzi aveva quello che ci voleva davvero. Nessuno di loro era un vero fidanzato e nessuno di loro era pronto a costruire una vita con te. La maggior parte di loro viveva solo il momento, senza pensare al futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And although living your life day by day was fun at the time because you didn\u2019t burden yourself with future plans, when you come to think of it, this type of guy rarely brought you something good in the long run.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c8 chiaro che tutti questi ragazzi erano ragazzi e non uomini.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Essi weren\u2019t ready to commit<\/a> e raramente erano pronti ad assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie parole e azioni.<\/p>\n

Yes, you would fall in love in love with them hard but when those initial butterflies would fade away, you would immediately see that these boys couldn\u2019t offer you what you were looking for.
\nAvete visto che meritavate di pi\u00f9. E io sono qui per dirvi che avevate ragione.<\/p>\n

After all, you are not some immature girl who doesn\u2019t know what she wants. Instead, you are a grown ass, independent woman who has a clear vision of the future and who needs a real man to accompany her through life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a boy who needs you to save him and to lead him through life.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a mama\u2019s boy<\/a> che vuole che siate il suo genitore, un uomo che si sentir\u00e0 intimidito e minacciato a stare con voi.<\/p>\n

Invece, hai bisogno di un uomo che ti permetta di essere indipendente e che ti permetta di avere una vita tua.<\/strong> Someone who won\u2019t feel the need to complete you but who will want you two to be equals in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Avete bisogno di un uomo che faccia affidamento su di voi, ma anche di un uomo su cui possiate fare affidamento.<\/strong>\u2014a man who will be your equal partner through life and someone who will be your rock, your home and your safe haven. I am not telling you that you need to find someone who will secure you financially, but you don\u2019t need a lazy boy who never thinks of the future and who doesn\u2019t know what he wants to achieve in life.<\/p>\n

Avete sicuramente bisogno di un uomo ambizioso, che abbia degli obiettivi nella vita e che vi sostenga nei vostri successi.<\/strong> Avete bisogno di qualcuno che sappia cosa vuole e che non abbia paura di ottenerlo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a boy who is scared of commitment and of real relationship.<\/strong> You don\u2019t need someone who will back out on you when things get serious or someone who will run away the second things get rough and when you need him the most.<\/p>\n

Invece, you need a man who is ready to share his life with someone and who knows when it\u2019s time to take responsibility for some things.<\/strong> Hai bisogno di un uomo adulto che non abbia paura di tutto ci\u00f2 che la vita porta con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

E soprattutto, you need a man who won\u2019t be intimidated by your strength and power.<\/strong> You don\u2019t need someone to hold you back to make himself feel better and to make himself look like a bigger man because that is exactly what boys do. You don\u2019t need someone who will use you for his own insecurities and to boost his fragile ego.<\/p>\n

Avete invece bisogno di qualcuno che vi spinga sempre avanti senza cercare di cambiarvi. Avete bisogno di qualcuno che vi accetti nella vostra grandezza e che vi ispiri a essere ancora pi\u00f9 grandi e migliori, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 proprio questo che fa un vero uomo.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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