{"id":20275,"date":"2018-06-28T10:29:21","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T10:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20275"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:43:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:43:26","slug":"la-verita-e-che-e-difficile-dimenticare-una-persona-con-la-quale-si-e-immaginato-di-passare-leternita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-e-che-e-difficile-dimenticare-una-persona-con-la-quale-si-e-immaginato-di-passare-leternita\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che \u00e8 difficile dimenticare una persona con la quale si \u00e8 immaginato di passare l'eternit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensavo che innamorandomi di te avremmo imparato a diventare la versione migliore di noi stessi. Eravamo la coppia di potere che tutti ammiravano. <strong>Eravamo due anime che si sono legate l'una all'altra.<\/strong> Every fiber of my being loved every beautiful imperfection in you. However, every fiber in you looked at me as if I wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If I\u2019m being honest with myself, it still burns that we didn\u2019t work out<\/strong>perch\u00e9 vedo ancora la nostra relazione attraverso degli occhiali rosa distorti.<strong> Penso ancora al nostro \"vissero per sempre felici e contenti\".<\/strong> Penso ancora ai bei tempi. Ci vedo ancora ridere in cucina. Ci vedo ancora lavorare insieme per sostituire la recinzione caduta durante la tempesta. Ho ancora l'immagine di quando mi prendevo cura di te quando eri malato. <strong>I still see all the wonderful moments we had, and what\u2019s pathetic is that I still see glimpses of our future.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>now you are just some ghost who haunts me when I\u2019m feeling weak.<\/strong> Now I have to learn to move on without you\u2014to live what feels like half a life without you. I have to learn to be OK with the stupid and selfish decision you have made. <strong>Devo imparare a convivere con il fatto che ci\u00f2 che per me era l'anima gemella, per me era un'anima gemella. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-tempo-sceglie-quasi-lamore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">quasi amore<\/a> per voi.<\/strong> Ora siamo solo estranei nella notte che si scambiano sguardi quando passano.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il cuore spezzato non \u00e8 mai facile.<\/strong> However, with you this was different. You told me pretty little lies of wanting to settle down, wanting to have children, and wanting to lead an honest life. However, it still stings to know I wasn\u2019t the one for you. I wasn\u2019t the one for you because at 35 you were nowhere near ready to settle down. While I was ready to accept the future, you decided to close the door. To close the door because you weren\u2019t ready. To close the door because you couldn\u2019t fathom the idea of being with one single woman for the rest of your life. <strong>Mi hai lasciato completamente spiazzato e il mio cuore \u00e8 andato in mille pezzi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pensavo che fossi la mia migliore amica e rendermi conto che non lo sei mai stata \u00e8 stato uno dei giorni peggiori della mia vita.<\/strong> Best friends don\u2019t lie to each other. Best friends are honest and sincere toward one another. Best friends are empathetic and understand the hardships you\u2019ll endure throughout life. <strong>Best friends are persistent and never give up on each other\u2026 but that\u2019s exactly what you did.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi chiedo spesso se il karma arriver\u00e0 mai a morderti il culo.<\/strong> Mi chiedo spesso se lei si senta in qualche modo colpevole per i danni che ha causato. E soprattutto, <strong>Mi chiedo spesso quando arriver\u00e0 il momento in cui potr\u00f2 perdonare me stessa per aver amato qualcuno molto pi\u00f9 di me.<\/strong> And, again, I often wonder if or when you\u2019ll realize that <strong>Una brava ragazza vale molto di pi\u00f9 di mille puttane.<\/strong> I often wonder when the day will come when I\u2019ll hear my phone vibrate and the apologies will start pouring in. <strong>Il giorno in cui ti renderai conto che avremmo dovuto stare insieme.<\/strong> I often wonder when I\u2019ll stop having these wretched fantasies.<\/p>\n<p>I understand that the ride is over. I understand this is for the best, because I deserve the absolute best. However, it still doesn\u2019t help the pain and hurt I feel. It still doesn\u2019t help knowing you gave up the best damn thing in your life for the choices and consequences you weren\u2019t ready to give up. And although we both got off of what was the best ride of our lives to walk in separate directions, my heart still turns around to follow you and your heart. <strong>La pesantezza del mio cuore sembra schiacciante.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Capisco che sono l'unico che pu\u00f2 risolvere il mio mal di cuore. Devo accettare le sue decisioni e il suo egoismo. So che devo crescere e guarire il mio cuore. So che, nonostante il dolore e gli errori che abbiamo commesso, tutto questo avr\u00e0 un esito positivo. <strong>L'aspetto positivo \u00e8 sapere che io <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/aspetta-che-lamore-ti-trovi-un-giorno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">trover\u00e0 il vero amore<\/a>.<\/strong> Ho una mentalit\u00e0 migliore per riconoscere cosa \u00e8 e cosa non \u00e8 amore. Trover\u00f2 il vero amore con qualcuno che riconoscer\u00e0 che sono una persona a s\u00e9 stante, che amer\u00e0 questo aspetto di me e che lavorer\u00e0 insieme a me per creare una relazione d'amore e di sostegno reciproco. <strong>Heartbreak is painful but it\u2019s only temporary. What\u2019s permanent is the happiness you learn to exhibit from within yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The truth is, it\u2019s hard to forget someone whom you\u2019ve imagined spending forever with.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I thought that when I fell in love with you we would learn to become the best version of ourselves. We were the power couple everyone looked up to. We were two souls who connected to each other. Every fiber of my being loved every beautiful imperfection in you. However, every fiber in you looked&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20276,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/rich-brown-219577-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20276"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}