{"id":20290,"date":"2018-06-28T12:32:48","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T12:32:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20290"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:39:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:39:42","slug":"il-mio-amore-per-te-puo-offuscare-molte-cose-ma-il-mio-valore-non-e-una-di-queste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-amore-per-te-puo-offuscare-molte-cose-ma-il-mio-valore-non-e-una-di-queste\/","title":{"rendered":"Il mio amore per te pu\u00f2 offuscare molte cose ma il mio valore non \u00e8 una di queste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Credevo di averti visto al bar ieri sera.<\/em>
\nHid in the bathroom, I just couldn\u2019t say hi<\/em><\/p>\n

Cause I took so much time to reset my life but with just one look, I\u2019m back.<\/em>
\nDimentica che potrei avere chiunque mi piaccia,<\/em>
\nMa ora ricordo solo quello che avevamo.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nessuno, nessuno, nessuno \u00e8 paragonabile a voi.<\/em><\/p>\n

–Nessuno \u00e8 paragonabile a te<\/em> da Gryffin<\/p>\n

La sera in cui vi ho visti insieme, la mia pi\u00f9 grande paura ha preso vita. Ho sentito il mio cuore toccare il suolo freddo e duro, le risate e le conversazioni al fuoco si sono spente e il nodo in gola ha raggiunto il massimo storico! La voce nella mia testa mi urlava di scappare. Poi i nostri occhi si sono incontrati. E in qualche modo mi sono sentita al sicuro. Mi sono sempre sentita al sicuro con te.<\/p>\n

Even while your hands were intertwined with hers, I felt safe. I know we parted on good terms and at one point in time you were my best friend and the least I could have done was say hello. But please understand, I still can\u2019t look at you without my heart crumbling to my feet. I\u2019m fixed, I promise! But when you see the person who was supposed to be your forever and you don\u2019t even know anything about them anymore, it\u2019s a real kick in the ass! I will never stop loving you. And if you\u2019ve never really felt your soul be torn apart, you\u2019ve never really loved someone with all your heart.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a good man and if I showed any emotions, I know you would still be the first person by my side. But the girl who\u2019s by your side doesn\u2019t deserve that. I can\u2019t take a look at you without wishing things would have worked between us. She doesn\u2019t deserve that! I don\u2019t want to be just another one of your exes like I had to deal with when I was with you. I knew they still loved you because they hated me with every fiber of their being and to this day, they still do. I\u2019m not like them.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know her so why should I hate her? Women should build each other up, not tear each other down. I know you. And that means she must be pretty great; I mean, after all, you did date me! And I\u2019m pretty great! She doesn\u2019t deserve to pick up on the fact that our closure is not complete. It\u2019s not complete for me and it\u2019s evident by your text message the following day that you don\u2019t have complete closure either.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sure if we ever will have closure, to be honest. We both wanted it to work! We didn\u2019t envision our future this way. It is what it is. I just couldn\u2019t bring myself to say hi. She would have immediately felt the vibes that we are finished but yet have unfinished business. And even though seeing you with her hurts, I still want you to be happy! This is why I chose not to say hi.<\/p>\n

No one compares to you and I will always remember what we had. However, I haven\u2019t fallen in love with anyone like I did you. I waited a long time for you and I will wait a long time for the next one because I know if I do, it will be worth it. This time though, he\u2019s going to be able to love me in all the ways that you couldn\u2019t. I believe in that. Which is why I know we\u2019re better off without each other. I used to get so salty, like oh great, now she gets to have the man I saw in him from the start. But now, I\u2019m proud to say: I\u2019m the one who was sent to him, to teach him that yes, I do love you, but I\u2019m leaving because I deserve more.<\/p>\n

I always said to myself that the woman who gets the man in you who lives to his full potential, she will be one lucky girl! Unfortunately, he\u2019s not the guy for me and I\u2019m not that girl. If he was, he would have given me his all when he had me. I know you loved me with all that you had but it wasn\u2019t enough because I knew in my heart, deep down, that I still wasn\u2019t receiving all of you!<\/p>\n

La mamma diceva sempre che se si ama veramente qualcosa, la si lascia andare<\/a>, and if it\u2019s meant to be yours, it will always find its way back to you. I let you go, I believe you needed to get out there and figure out who you wanted to be for yourself because if you don\u2019t know how to be a man for yourself, you can\u2019t be that man for another woman.<\/p>\n

You cut my soul more times than loving it, like it deserved. My love for you can blur many things but my worth will never be one of them. I may get lonely, scared, and empty without you at times but I always fill that void with love for myself. I never needed you, babe, I wanted you. I don\u2019t know how life will play out.<\/p>\n

We could have just been stepping stones and lessons to each other before real love encounters us. Or our paths could lead us back to each other and hopefully, in the very distant future, I can trust you with my heart again. I honestly don\u2019t know but what I do know is that nobody compares to you because I haven\u2019t been able to connect enough with someone else to let my guard down.<\/p>\n

But I have hope for my future that I made the right decision to walk away from the man who couldn\u2019t give me his full potential. I want you to be happy even if it\u2019s not with me, so please, forgive me when I don\u2019t say hi.<\/p>\n

Di Charley Nicole<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Thought I saw you at the bar last night Hid in the bathroom, I just couldn\u2019t say hi Cause I took so much time to reset my life but with just one look, I\u2019m back. Forget that I could have anyone I like, But now all I remember is what we had. Nobody, nobody, nobody…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20291,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/matt-sclarandis-159838-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20290"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20290\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20291"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}