{"id":20391,"date":"2020-05-02T08:26:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T08:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20391"},"modified":"2021-08-11T19:19:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T19:19:01","slug":"ecco-perche-bisogna-lottare-per-chi-si-ama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-bisogna-lottare-per-chi-si-ama\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 dovreste lottare per la persona che amate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fin da quando hai memoria, le persone ti hanno sempre detto che sei una donna e che sei una donna. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/you-deserve-to-be-chased\/\">meritava di essere inseguito<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That means you shouldn\u2019t be the one to take the first step and that you shouldn\u2019t be the one chasing your man.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve also been telling you that <b>Dovreste mantenere la vostra dignit\u00e0, a prescindere da tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And I couldn\u2019t agree with that more.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ma \u00e8 possibile che abbiamo interpretato male alcune cose e che, strada facendo, abbiamo perso di vista cosa sia davvero la dignit\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p><b>Seguire il proprio cuore e lottare per qualcuno che si ama significa davvero umiliarsi ed essere disperati?<\/b><b>Because I think it doesn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Of course, I am not advising you to beg for anyone\u2019s love or attention or to beg for someone to be with you because that is the last thing you should do. I am also not asking you not to chase someone who obviously doesn\u2019t want to be caught because that will surely bring you more harm than good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92609\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/asian-serious-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna asiatica seria seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/asian-serious-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/asian-serious-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/asian-serious-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Ma quando si pensa alle proprie relazioni precedenti e al proprio passato di frequentatori, <b>Quante volte avete perso l'opportunit\u00e0 di fare qualcosa che avrebbe potuto fare la differenza a causa del vostro orgoglio?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quante volte avete voluto approcciare un ragazzo ma temevate di apparire disperate se lo aveste fatto?<\/p>\n<p><b>Quante volte avete <\/b><b>lasciare andare qualcuno a cui non avreste mai immaginato di dire addio<\/b><b>, proprio cos\u00ec, anche se provava qualcosa per loro? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Quante volte avete lasciato che un uomo che amavate ancora vi scivolasse tra le mani senza opporre resistenza e senza cercare di fermarlo, anche se pensavate che voi due avreste potuto avere una possibilit\u00e0?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>How many relationships in your life were ruined because of you or your partner\u2019s ego and pride?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, se ci pensate da questo punto di vista, molte di queste relazioni probabilmente non valevano la pena di essere combattute e forse era meglio lasciarle andare.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92610\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Closeup-photo-of-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Foto ravvicinata di una donna con gli occhi chiusi all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Closeup-photo-of-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Closeup-photo-of-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Closeup-photo-of-woman-with-closed-eyes-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ma il vecchio te, il <i>voi <\/i>before you bought in to everything people kept telling you, didn\u2019t think like that.<\/p>\n<p><b>The old you couldn\u2019t forgive herself for not giving some things another try and for not following her heart. The old you couldn\u2019t forgive herself for at least not trying to fight and for allowing her ego and pride to stop her from doing so.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>So the next time you want to fight for the person you love and care for, just go for it. Don\u2019t think of the consequences and give it a shot. After all, what is there to lose?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 nulla di imbarazzante nel dire a qualcuno come ci si sente e non c'\u00e8 nulla di umiliante nel mettere impegno in una relazione che conta per voi.<\/p>\n<p><b>And no, it doesn\u2019t make you weak. <\/b>Vi rende abbastanza forti da affrontare le vostre emozioni e ancora pi\u00f9 forti e coraggiosi per ammettere questi sentimenti all'altra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Ti rende abbastanza forte da mettere in gioco il tuo cuore e da metterti in gioco senza sapere cosa potrebbe accadere.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92611\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/courage-woman-raising-hands-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna coraggiosa che alza le mani all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/courage-woman-raising-hands-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/courage-woman-raising-hands-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/courage-woman-raising-hands-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Vi rende abbastanza forti da volare, anche se esiste il rischio di fallire.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And no, I am not here to guarantee that you\u2019ll win all of your battles and I am not going to tell you that all of your fights will be worth it.<\/p>\n<p><b>The truth is that you\u2019ll lose some wars and that some people <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segni-che-non-vale-la-pena-di-impegnarsi-per-lui\/\"><b>won\u2019t be worthy of the effort<\/b><\/a><b> che ci mettete dentro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But at least, you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Whenever you look back at things, you\u2019ll know you gave your best and that there was nothing more you could have done to make things work.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll be guilt-free. You won\u2019t spend the rest of your life thinking how things could have turned out with someone and thinking about all the could haves, might haves or should haves.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se c'\u00e8 qualcuno che amate e se pensate che ci sia qualcosa che potreste fare per far funzionare al meglio le cose tra voi due, siate abbastanza coraggiosi da uscire dalla vostra zona di comfort e da fare un salto nell'ignoto.<\/p>\n<p>Se si dimostrano indegni del vostro tempo e della vostra energia, ci rimettono loro e non voi.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-Fight-For-The-One-You-Love-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco perch\u00e9 dovreste lottare per la persona che amate \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-Fight-For-The-One-You-Love-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-Fight-For-The-One-You-Love-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since you can remember, people kept telling you that you are a woman and that you deserved to be chased. That means you shouldn\u2019t be the one to take the first step and that you shouldn\u2019t be the one chasing your man. They\u2019ve also been telling you that you should keep your dignity, no&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":92552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-Fight-For-The-One-You-Love.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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