{"id":20461,"date":"2020-08-04T06:52:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T06:52:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20461"},"modified":"2022-01-09T18:49:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T18:49:42","slug":"7-cose-che-dovete-assolutamente-sapere-prima-di-iniziare-a-fare-sesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-che-dovete-assolutamente-sapere-prima-di-iniziare-a-fare-sesso\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose che dovete assolutamente sapere prima di iniziare a fare sesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

You think you\u2019re ready to have sex? You think this is the perfect time for that? Maybe you should think twice about it. There are some things you must know if you\u2019ve decided to take that step in your life, and here they are:<\/p>\n

1. Imparare a dire NO<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

If you feel like it\u2019s time for you to lose your virginity, then do it. But, in case he\u2019s pressuring you, it means it\u2019s time to dirgli addio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not able to wait and respect your wishes, it means you definitely picked the wrong guy. Sure, your first time won\u2019t be perfect. In fact, it could be extremely awkward, but if there\u2019s one thing it shouldn’t be – it\u2019s pressured.<\/p>\n

2. Educare se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

A lot of girls don\u2019t educate themselves about their bodies and anatomy in general. They just let the guy lead. It is actually strange how girls, nowadays, assume that guys know everything about sex and that they\u2019re experts even if they\u2019re also virgins.<\/p>\n

Take your time and explore. You have access to the Internet, medical books and magazines, which means you don\u2019t have an excuse to be uneducated.<\/p>\n

But, don\u2019t trust the Internet too much. If you grab a chance, go see a doctor and ask him\/her whatever\u2019s on your mind.<\/p>\n

If you explore and educate yourself, not only will you get smarter (obviously), you will know what works best for you and maybe losing your virginity won\u2019t be that awkward after all. If you educate yourself, you will be prepared for anything.<\/p>\n

I bet you\u2019ve already heard that knowledge is power. Well, in this case, it\u2019s pleasure, and per favore, per il bene della vostra salute, prendete sul serio i vostri piaceri.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t confuse sex with love making<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

In order to make love to someone, you have to truly love that person. And, you can not love someone you\u2019ve been dating for two weeks.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se vai a letto con quel ragazzo con cui hai appena iniziato ad uscire, significa che hai fatto sesso con lui<\/a>. Fare l'amore<\/a> \u00e8 un altro livello<\/strong> e vedrete la differenza solo dopo essere andati a letto con qualcuno che amate con tutto il cuore e l'anima.<\/p>\n

If you lost your virginity to some guy, it doesn\u2019t make him \u2018the one\u2019 and \u2018the love of your life\u2019, so don\u2019t get too attached.<\/p>\n

Maybe he was the one for the job or maybe he will end up being the love of your life. Time will give you the answer, so you don\u2019t have to think about it. Simply enjoy the moment.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t ever feel ashamed because you\u2019re a virgin<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Non importa cosa vi abbiano detto: It\u2019s okay to be a virgin<\/strong>. Don\u2019t try to hide it and don\u2019t lie about it. If you lie to your partner, it could only make your first time worse.<\/p>\n

Essere vergini non \u00e8 qualcosa di cui vergognarsi. It\u2019s your body, your choice and your needs.<\/strong> Non siete obbligati a giustificarvi con nessuno, tanto meno con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t understand, you then you picked the wrong guy.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t make yourself regret anything<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

A lot of people don\u2019t lose their virginity to someone they love. They just chose to get it over with with their friend or maybe with someone they don\u2019t even know.<\/p>\n

And, they usually regret it. If it\u2019s a guy you\u2019ve been dating for some time and you truly care about, then you probably won\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9, anche se alla fine vi lascerete, saprete sempre che quella persona \u00e8 stata una parte importante della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

But choosing a random guy to sleep with is very risky. Not only you you remember his name, but you could get some disease. (Seriously!) And, not matter who\u2019s the guy you\u2019re losing your virginity to – utilizzare sempre una protezione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Ridurre le aspettative<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Your first time won\u2019t be magical.<\/strong> The majority of girls don\u2019t sperimentare l'orgasmo<\/a> the first time they have sex, so don\u2019t expect too much.<\/p>\n

Yes, it could be a bit painful, but that\u2019s perfectly normal. Some surveys showed that girls actually start having orgasms and feeling pleasure during sex after their third or fourth time. It takes some time for your body to understand what\u2019s going on, so be patient.<\/p>\n

7. La pressione dei coetanei non \u00e8 un fattore che dovrebbe influenzare la vostra decisione.<\/h2>\n

\"gli<\/p>\n

Tutti i vostri amici hanno perso la verginit\u00e0? Ne parlano continuamente? Continuano a dirti che dovresti perderla il prima possibile?<\/p>\n

They make you feel like an outsider because you\u2019re a virgin? If you think that this means it\u2019s time for you to have sex, you\u2019re wrong. It means it\u2019s time for you to find some new friends. If they slept with someone, it doesn\u2019t mean you have to.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them get to you. You are the owner of your body and you are the only one who knows your needs. It is immature of them to pressure you like that.<\/p>\n

They should be understanding and be there for you in case you need something about sex explained. And after all, that\u2019s not even something they should be bothering with. It\u2019s your intimate thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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