{"id":20605,"date":"2020-07-06T09:16:09","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:16:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20605"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:13:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:13:17","slug":"ti-prego-dimmi-che-non-sono-cosi-dimenticabile-come-mi-fa-sentire-il-tuo-silenzio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-prego-dimmi-che-non-sono-cosi-dimenticabile-come-mi-fa-sentire-il-tuo-silenzio\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti prego, dimmi che non sono cos\u00ec dimenticabile come mi fa sentire il tuo silenzio."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L'altro giorno stavo scorrendo i social media e ho visto una citazione che mi ha spezzato il cuore in un istante.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t even know that it was possible for something so simple to open up wounds that never properly healed.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Please tell me that I am not as forgettable as your silence is making me feel\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Did you forget me? I see that you have a new life in which I don&#8217;t even have space. I don&#8217;t fit with the new you and this life that you have begun far away from me.<\/p>\n<p>But I can&#8217;t help but wonder if you still remember me. Of course, there are two possible answers and both of which are destructive to me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you don&#8217;t miss me, if you have forgotten about me, you never cared.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pensare che una persona cos\u00ec preziosa, cos\u00ec speciale per me, un giorno scompaia e non pensi pi\u00f9 a me, \u00e8 come se fosse un'idea. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/siete-tra-il-crepacuore-e-la-guarigione-7-modi-per-superare-il-limbo-emotivo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">facendomi a pezzi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116998\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste e seria seduta sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-serious-woman-sitting-on-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to believe that you never cared, because that would mean that every little thing that we went through was a lie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you do miss me, if you haven&#8217;t forgotten about me, then you still care.<\/strong> Dovrei cercare queste risposte?<\/p>\n<p>Voglio davvero sapere che tieni ancora a me? S\u00ec. Voglio sapere se... Voglio sapere se ti fa male ricordare quello che mi hai fatto.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio che tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/you-will-regret-losing-the-girl-who-just-wanted-to-be-yours\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rimpiangere di essersene andati<\/a> e di aver sempre pensato che l\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 qualcuno pi\u00f9 adatto a te di me. <strong>Penso ancora a te.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A volte, quando mi sveglio al mattino dopo un sogno su di te, immagino di girarmi dall'altra parte e di vederti sdraiato accanto a me, con gli occhi chiusi e il tuo respiro lento che sfiora la mia pelle.<\/p>\n<p>How pathetic can I get, you wonder? I can&#8217;t even put it into words.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ti ricorder\u00f2 per sempre.<\/strong> Sei stato il primo uomo che mi ha dimostrato che l'amore non \u00e8 solo giorni felici e tramonti.<\/p>\n<p>You showed me that I was able to love a man who didn\u2019t even know how to love me back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117000\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna che osserva dalla finestra di casa sua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-watching-through-her-home-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti ho amato pi\u00f9 di quanto tu possa mai sapere e forse ti amo ancora, ma non c'\u00e8 bisogno che tu lo sappia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sono sempre stato un amante delle mattine.<\/strong> Le mattine mi facevano sentire sempre cos\u00ec pura e amorevole.<\/p>\n<p>Forse perch\u00e9 mi svegliavo accanto a te, sapendo che il giorno sarebbe stato nostro, sapendo che avevo cos\u00ec tanto da aspettare e cos\u00ec tanti ricordi da fare con te.<\/p>\n<p>At that time I didn&#8217;t know that memories would be the only things that I would have from you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi restano i ricordi e la solitudine.<\/strong> It&#8217;s like my heart is still calling out your name and I try to shut it up but the emotions overwhelm me to the point where I can&#8217;t even control my tears.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s fine. I have been going through these outbursts of emotions since you&#8217;ve been gone.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We haven&#8217;t spoken since you left, have we?<\/strong> Non mi hai mai tolto l'amicizia e nemmeno io ho avuto il coraggio di farlo. Sapevo che ci sarebbero stati giorni in cui mi sarebbe piaciuto vederti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117001\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda seduta da sola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blond-woman-sitting-alone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At least in a picture. You never texted me to see how I was doing, so I assumed that you didn&#8217;t want me to write you either.<\/p>\n<p>How heartbreaking and sad it all must be looking in from the outside, knowing all the things that we&#8217;ve been through and now we&#8217;re strangers with nothing else except a few memories.<\/p>\n<p>Dimenticato. Silenzioso. Spezzato.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sono tutte queste cose e continuer\u00f2 a esserlo per chiss\u00e0 quanto tempo.<\/strong> But I won&#8217;t mourn in despair for too long. It&#8217;s 3am here and when the sun rises again <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/alla-ragazza-che-vuole-tornare-da-lui-non-hai-bisogno-di-lui\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ci torner\u00f2<\/a> alla mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>Forse non ricorder\u00f2 mai che ho pensato a te stasera. Forse andr\u00f2 anche a cercare qualcuno che ti assomiglia e mi chieder\u00f2 perch\u00e9 mi sembra cos\u00ec familiare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma per ora, buonanotte amore mio. Spero che un giorno anche tu ti ricordi di me, quando un estraneo fa qualcosa che ti ricorda di me o quando ti imbatti in un ricordo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117143\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti prego, dimmi che non sono cos\u00ec dimenticabile come mi fa sentire il tuo silenzio.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I was scrolling through social media and I saw a quote that broke my heart in an instant. I didn&#8217;t even know that it was possible for something so simple to open up wounds that never properly healed. \u2018Please tell me that I am not as forgettable as your silence is making&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116999,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20605","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Please-Tell-Me-That-I-Am-Not-As-Forgettable-As-Your-Silence-Makes-Me-Feel-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20605","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20605"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20605\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20605"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20605"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20605"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}