{"id":20615,"date":"2020-04-09T08:07:41","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T08:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20615"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:40","slug":"come-prendere-le-distanze-da-lui-in-modo-che-senta-la-sua-mancanza-e-torni-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-prendere-le-distanze-da-lui-in-modo-che-senta-la-sua-mancanza-e-torni-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"Come prendere le distanze da lui per far s\u00ec che senta la sua mancanza e torni indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se si comporta in modo distante, non inseguitelo. Questo piano non funzioner\u00e0 perch\u00e9 lui si sentir\u00e0 solo pi\u00f9 importante.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see that you let him behave the way he wants and that won\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see that you care about him and that you don\u2019t want to lose him.<\/p>\n

For as long as he sees that, he\u2019ll keep on messing with you because he knows he can.<\/p>\n

He can do whatever he wants and you\u2019ll come back to him.<\/p>\n

Cambiate l'approccio! Fregate un po' la sua testa, perch\u00e9 di sicuro lui sta facendo lo stesso con la vostra.<\/p>\n

He is taking advantage of your love and you’re buying it. It\u2019s time for you to change your game. Become more like him. Let him have a taste of his own medicine. You\u2019ll see how things will work differently.<\/p>\n

Usually men distance themselves because they want some space. They have issues they have to solve and by chasing them, you\u2019ll only make things worse. If he wants space, let him have it.<\/p>\n

Leave him alone and don\u2019t bother calling him or asking where he\u2019s been.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to pretend you\u2019re totally cold-blooded, but it\u2019s a win-win situation.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 se gli lasciate un po' di spazio, ci sono due possibili scenari che possono verificarsi.<\/p>\n

Il primo \u00e8 che risolver\u00e0 da solo qualsiasi cosa lo preoccupi e tornare<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And the second one is, he\u2019ll see that you’re ignoring him and if he cares about you even a bit, he won\u2019t be able to take it, so he\u2019ll chase you.<\/p>\n

You see, you can\u2019t lose in this situation. You just have to play it smart.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying you should play mind games and use him. You should just teach him a lesson and show him what you\u2019ll tolerate and what not.<\/p>\n

L'errore da non commettere mai?<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so natural that you feel abandoned and hurt if he wants some space, if he wants to get away from you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll feel rejected and who wants that in a relationship? A lot of women make this mistake because their instinct kicks in.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve hurt me and now I want revenge. If you really want him to come back to you, don\u2019t try to punish him for asking some space, don\u2019t try to get even with him because you\u2019ll push him away.<\/p>\n

Come fargli sentire la tua mancanza dopo che hai preso le distanze?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Prendetevi il tempo necessario<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get ahead of yourself because you might do something reckless, something you\u2019ll regret later on. Try to be alone for a while and let the passion withdraw.<\/p>\n

Take some time to feel hurt. Absorb your pain and let it go away. After it\u2019s gone, you can make plans on how to let him know he needs you and can\u2019t live without you.<\/p>\n

Lasciatelo andare<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Se ha bisogno di spazio, daglielo. In pratica devi smettere di preoccuparti per lui.<\/p>\n

Of course, you\u2019re not be able to do that, but you can pretend you\u2019ve ha perso interesse.<\/a> Fai finta di non essere pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec presa da lui.<\/p>\n

Show him that if he doesn\u2019t care and if he is doing this on purpose just to see what your reaction will be, he will see that you\u2019re indifferent.<\/p>\n

E se ha davvero bisogno di spazio per risolvere le cose, fatelo comunque, perch\u00e9 gli dimostrerete che lo avete ascoltato e lo avete lasciato in pace per affrontare qualsiasi cosa lo preoccupi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t post everything on your social media<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I social media possono essere una delle vostre armi pi\u00f9 potenti. Quello che non dovreste mai fare \u00e8 postare canzoni strazianti e aggiornamenti di stato.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do that because it will make you look needy and clingy. You don\u2019t want him to see you as a loser but as a fighter.<\/p>\n

Potete postare foto con altri uomini, ma anche questo non \u00e8 un modo corretto di procedere.<\/p>\n

Questo provocher\u00e0 una gelosia malsana e, ad essere onesti, questi metodi di manipolazione non sono cos\u00ec salutari, qualunque sia la situazione.<\/p>\n

Se volete postare qualcosa, postate la vostra serata con gli amici. Postate un selfie con un bel sorriso.<\/p>\n

Keep your wall positive because after all, after your plan is f+done, you\u2019re going to feel like it.<\/p>\n

Show him that you\u2019re not devastated and that your life moves on even when he is not in it.<\/p>\n

Questa vostra mossa lo toccher\u00e0 e provocher\u00e0 quei sentimenti che volete fargli provare.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll miss you and he\u2019ll realize what a stupid mistake he has made.<\/p>\n

Trascorrere pi\u00f9 tempo con gli amici<\/h2>\n

\"amiche<\/p>\n

Esci con i tuoi amici. Divertitevi e cercate di non pensare a lui. Cercate di cancellarlo dalla vostra memoria per eliminare la pressione.<\/p>\n

Rilassati e dimenticati di lui per qualche ora. Dovresti andare a bere un paio di drink.<\/p>\n

Go to a concert\u2014you should go wild. Show him you can have fun and enjoy life without him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the center of your universe (at least he shouldn\u2019t be) and you have to make him aware of that.<\/p>\n

Mettetevi d'accordo quando vi imbattete in lui<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

You have to be aware that you can\u2019t plan when you\u2019ll see him\u2014and you definitely will.<\/p>\n

Prepare yourself for seeing him probably when you\u2019re at your worst. Like coming home in the morning from a wild party still hungover or with your glasses on and greasy hair tied up in a messy bun (not the good messy, but bad messy).<\/p>\n

Get your act together. Don\u2019t panic. Act cool about it. Don’t panic because you look like shit, but try to show him that you don\u2019t give a damn how you look and that you can rock every look possible because let\u2019s face it, you would look amazing wearing a garbage bag.<\/p>\n

Act friendly and show him that you\u2019re glad you bumped into him because you haven\u2019t seen him in a while.<\/p>\n

Just stay cool and altogether. Chat a bit with him and ask him how he\u2019s been?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let his presence affect you because he\u2019ll see it and then you achieved nothing.<\/p>\n

\"Come<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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