{"id":20642,"date":"2018-07-09T11:23:09","date_gmt":"2018-07-09T11:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20642"},"modified":"2022-04-27T12:16:39","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T12:16:39","slug":"7-argomenti-e-cose-di-cui-parlare-con-una-ragazza-che-si-sta-conoscendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-argomenti-e-cose-di-cui-parlare-con-una-ragazza-che-si-sta-conoscendo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 argomenti e cose di cui parlare con una ragazza da conoscere"},"content":{"rendered":"

State conoscendo una ragazza che vi piace molto, ma avete paura di mandare tutto all'aria fin dall'inizio. Avete paura che il vostro povero abilit\u00e0 di conversazione<\/a> will chase her away and that you won\u2019t have the chance to show this girl everything you have to offer.<\/p>\n

You are nervous because you feel like you won\u2019t have anything to talk about and you are scared that your date will be a complete disaster.<\/p>\n

Well, your troubles are about to end because you\u2019ve come to the right place. Here is some communication consiglio<\/a> e le cose di cui parlare con una ragazza che ti piace per aiutarti a concludere l'affare.<\/p>\n

1. Come sono andate le vostre giornate<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

When you are on a date with a girl you are just getting to know, especially if it\u2019s a primo appuntamento<\/a>Il consiglio migliore che si possa dare \u00e8 quello di iniziare con argomenti leggeri.<\/p>\n

After all, the two of you don\u2019t know each other very well just yet, so you don\u2019t want things to get awkward right from the start. That\u2019s why you need some ice breakers and some universal conversation topics you can talk about with everyone.<\/p>\n

Una delle cose migliori di cui parlare con una ragazza all'inizio \u00e8 chiederle come \u00e8 andata la sua giornata e, naturalmente, parlare anche della vostra giornata.<\/p>\n

You may think this topic is boring but trust me, it can turn into one of the most interesting conversations and it can help you learn a lot about the girl sitting next to you. This way, you\u2019ll get to know her daily routine, the things she enjoys doing and le cose che la infastidiscono<\/a>. Inoltre, le dimostra fin dall'inizio che siete interessati a qualcosa di pi\u00f9 del suo aspetto fisico. Questo significa che volete instaurare una comunicazione con lei e che il vostro unico obiettivo non \u00e8 quello di entrare nei suoi pantaloni.<\/p>\n

And trust me\u2014that is something every girl appreciates.<\/p>\n

Se avete problemi a iniziare una conversazione, potete provare a raccontarle una storia divertente della vostra giornata. Ricordate che gli spunti di conversazione che allentano un po' l'atmosfera sono sempre ben accetti, perch\u00e9 sono quelli che determinano se questa sar\u00e0 una grande conversazione in generale e l'inizio di qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

2. Tempo libero<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Una delle luci argomenti da trattare<\/a>\u2014and something that could help you get to know this person better\u2014is talking about free time.<\/p>\n

What are this girl\u2019s favorite hobbies? What relaxes her the most after a long and stressful day?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un tipo estroverso o preferisce stare in casa? Le piace trascorrere il tempo libero in luoghi affollati e con molte persone o preferisce trascorrere il tempo libero in luoghi pi\u00f9 tranquilli?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un tipo sportivo o un topo di biblioteca? Le piacciono le avventure e le piace viaggiare?
\nWhat are the places she\u2019s visited so far and where would she like to go in the future?<\/p>\n

Tutto questo pu\u00f2 aiutarvi a capire se \u00e8 una persona estroversa o un ragazza introversa<\/a> e pu\u00f2 aiutarvi a capire il modo migliore per affrontarla.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, queste sono tutte cose che dovreste dirle anche di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Quello che dovete capire \u00e8 che questo appuntamento pu\u00f2 essere l'inizio di qualcosa di nuovo che potrebbe durare. Per questo motivo dovete verificare se voi e questa ragazza siete compatibili quando si tratta di trascorrere il tempo libero. Dovete vedere se avete interessi simili e se la vostra definizione di divertimento \u00e8 la stessa.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, c'\u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 che passiate la maggior parte del vostro tempo libero con questa persona e dovete assicurarvi di volere entrambi le stesse cose, perch\u00e9 altrimenti potreste avere un problema.<\/p>\n

3. Interessi<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Oltre ai vostri hobby e al tempo libero, un'altra cosa di cui dovreste parlare con questa ragazza sono i suoi interessi e le sue preferenze. Parlate delle cose che questa ragazza ama. Ci sono cose che avete in comune?<\/p>\n

Fate il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba: chiedete a questa ragazza un po' di domande per esplorare la sua mente.<\/a><\/p>\n

What kind of art does she enjoy? What is this girl\u2019s favorite book and author? What is her favorite movie? Does she enjoy watching any TV shows and if so, which ones?<\/p>\n

Questa ragazza ama andare a musei e teatri o preferisce andare in discoteca? O combina le due cose?<\/p>\n

Avete interessi simili o siete completamente diversi?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014I\u2019m definitely not telling you that you should try and find the girl who likes exactly the same things you like. After all, that is practically impossible. And even if it were possible, it wouldn\u2019t be interesting.<\/p>\n

Ma quello che dovete decidere \u00e8 se voi due siete troppo diversi per quanto riguarda i vostri interessi e le vostre preferenze, e se queste differenze hanno un impatto negativo o positivo sulla vostra potenziale relazione.<\/p>\n

I know these are some things you probably don\u2019t want to think about from the start but trust me\u2014this is exactly the time when you should have these things in mind, before things go too far.<\/p>\n

4. Lavoro, carriera e scuola<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

If you\u2019ve gone out on a blind date with a girl, you probably don\u2019t know much about the person sitting next to you. The same thing happens if you guys met in a club or in similar circumstances.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, l'appuntamento \u00e8 un'ottima occasione per scoprire di pi\u00f9 sull'altro.<\/p>\n

Cosa fa questa ragazza per vivere? Le piace quello che fa? \u00c8 felice delle sue scelte professionali ed \u00e8 soddisfatta dei risultati ottenuti finora?<\/p>\n

Anche se i temi di lavoro possono sembrare noiosi all'inizio, in realt\u00e0 sono tutto fuorch\u00e9 tali.<\/p>\n

First of all, it will give you the chance to talk about each other\u2019s education and what you wanted to become when you were younger.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, vi dar\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0 di scoprire che tipo di persona \u00e8 questa ragazza. \u00c8 un tipo creativo? Le piace lavorare con le persone?<\/p>\n

Is she ambitious and is she looking for ways to progress or she is more than happy with her work position and she doesn\u2019t think of changing it?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 riuscita a realizzare i suoi sogni di carriera? \u00c8 al punto in cui voleva essere? Se non lo \u00e8, cosa sta facendo?<\/p>\n

Of course, you need to make sure not to turn this into a quiz and not to make this girl feel like she\u2019s being interrogated. Instead, these are just the things that will probably be mentioned through the conversation and the things she expects to find out about you as well.<\/p>\n

5. Speranze e sogni<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

So, you\u2019ve covered most of the light topics and you\u2019ve definitely broken the ice. Now, you are both relaxed and comfortable around each other and you are both ready to start to getting to know each other better.<\/p>\n

That means it might be a good idea to start tackling some deeper issues and to show her that you\u2019ve been paying attention to everything this girl told you.<\/p>\n

Uno di questi temi \u00e8 la conversazione sulle vostre speranze, sogni e aspirazioni.<\/p>\n

If you start this topic, you\u2019ll show this girl that you are way different than all the other guys out there. You don\u2019t want to get to know this girl shallowly. You want to get to know the core of her soul and personality.<\/p>\n

That means you\u2019ll want to know what this girl\u2019s deepest dreams and hopes are.<\/p>\n

Cosa vuole dalla vita? Cosa sognava di diventare? Ed \u00e8 la persona che ha sempre voluto essere?<\/p>\n

E soprattutto, volete cose simili dalla vita?<\/p>\n

If you talk to any girl about these topics, she\u2019ll see that you stand out from others and you\u2019ll definitely interest her in giving you a chance and to start something more serious with you. You\u2019ll show her that you are a mature man and not a boy.<\/p>\n

6. Le paure<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

A lot of guys are afraid of opening up to women, especially in the beginning. They are scared of tearing down their emotional walls because they think this will make them appear too vulnerable or less masculine. They also might be afraid of getting hurt if they show their real personality to the girl they\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 qui che dovete dimostrare a questa donna che non siete come tutti gli altri uomini l\u00e0 fuori e che amate parlare dei vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

You need to show her that you are just a human being made of flesh who doesn\u2019t pretend he is tougher than he actually is. You need to show her that you don\u2019t have any trouble whatsoever being in touch with your emotional and lato vulnerabile.<\/a><\/p>\n

Il modo migliore per farlo \u00e8 parlarle delle vostre paure e delusioni pi\u00f9 profonde.
\nNo, this won\u2019t make you weak and it definitely won\u2019t chase this girl away. Instead, she will just see that you are strong enough to get in touch with your emotions and that you don\u2019t have any problem talking about them.<\/p>\n

Of course, you opening up to this girl will probably inspire her to do the same thing. She\u2019ll realize that you trust her enough to be sincere around her and that will make her think you are also trustworthy, so she will feel like she can talk to you about the same things you\u2019ve been telling her about.<\/p>\n

Tutto questo \u00e8 un'ottima base per una grande relazione e questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno e che volete.<\/p>\n

7. Le relazioni<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

So you\u2019ve talked to this girl about work, about both of your hobbies and interests and you\u2019ve started tackling some more serious and deeper issues.<\/p>\n

Now is the right time to start talking about the thing that probably interests you the most\u2014relationships.<\/p>\n

I know you probably want to know as much as possible about this girl\u2019s relationship history, but you need to be aware of the fact that the of you are just getting to know each other and you can\u2019t expect her to tell you everything about her love life right away.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be too nosey and you definitely don\u2019t want to appear insecure. And that is exactly what she\u2019ll think of you if you start questioning her about every single detail of her romantic past.<\/p>\n

The thing you should never do is to ask a girl about the number of guys she\u2019s dated or about the number of men she slept with because that invades her privacy and has nothing to do with you anyway. Besides, it only shows that you are intimidated and insecure.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should be the first one to open up about your relationship past. I am not saying that you should tell her every single detail of it or that you should mention every girl you\u2019ve ever dated.<\/p>\n

But there is nothing wrong with mentioning the fact that you\u2019ve just gotten out of a serious relationship or something similar. Just make sure not to talk about your exes too much because that might seem you are still not over them completely, that you carry a lot of emotional baggage or that this girl is niente di pi\u00f9 che la tua ragazza di ripiego.<\/a><\/p>\n

After she sees you\u2019ve opened up, I\u2019m sure she\u2019ll follow.<\/p>\n

Un altro argomento che dovreste affrontare \u00e8 quello che entrambi volete e vi aspettate dalla vostra vita sentimentale. So che siete all'inizio e che sarebbe assurdo per voi due impegnarvi in qualcosa o farvi subito delle promesse.<\/p>\n

Ma sarebbe bello se entrambi foste onesti e vi diceste sinceramente cosa state cercando davvero. Volete solo divertirvi o state cercando qualcosa di pi\u00f9 serio? Questo vi aiuter\u00e0 a capire se siete sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda e vi aiuter\u00e0 a costruire il vostro potenziale futuro insieme. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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