{"id":20670,"date":"2019-07-10T08:33:16","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T08:33:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20670"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:41:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:41:52","slug":"avresti-potuto-averla-per-tutta-la-vita-ma-lhai-persa-per-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/avresti-potuto-averla-per-tutta-la-vita-ma-lhai-persa-per-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Avresti potuto averla per tutta la vita, ma l'hai persa per sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Era convinta che foste sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda. E chi pu\u00f2 biasimarla? Non hai mai detto nulla che potesse farle pensare il contrario. <\/span><\/p>\n

She remembers telling you that she was sure about you, that she was there to stay a lifetime. She remembers you telling her that you felt the same way. That\u2019s why nothing that happened later on made any sense to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see, she is totally unlike you. She doesn\u2019t have an insincere bone in her body. She meant every word she said. And for you, it was nothing more than just words. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era lei a dirle quello che voleva sentire, in modo che ogni volta che l'avrebbe delusa avrebbe avuto qualcosa a cui aggrapparsi. <\/span><\/p>\n

You lost her bit by bit. It didn\u2019t happen overnight. It wasn\u2019t one big thing that drove you apart, it was millions of little things that accumulated over time. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata una delusione dopo l'altra. L'ultima cosa che hai fatto era solo la punta dell'iceberg. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ti adorava. Avrebbe fatto qualsiasi cosa per il vostro amore, tranne chiedere l'elemosina. Si \u00e8 rifiutata di implorare apprezzamento. Si \u00e8 rifiutata di implorare rispetto. <\/span>Era stanca <\/span><\/a>di cercare la vostra attenzione. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si sentiva come se fosse con voi e allo stesso tempo sola. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'hai persa servendo le sue bugie quando lei non ti ha dato altro che la verit\u00e0.<\/b> Le avete fatto false promesse fino a quando non ha pi\u00f9 potuto ascoltare nulla. Avrebbe capito che qualsiasi cosa uscisse dalla tua bocca era una bugia. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'hai persa facendo leva solo su te stesso invece di guardare a voi due come a una squadra. <\/b>She felt left out. You made sure your needs were met and you didn\u2019t pay much attention to hers. <\/span><\/p>\n

Almeno non pi\u00f9. Prima lo facevi. Voleva tanto che tu cambiassi strada, ma non avrebbe mai immaginato che sarebbe stato in peggio. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'avete persa perch\u00e9 non vi riconosceva pi\u00f9. <\/b>You weren’t the man she fell for. That sweet and loving man who had all the time in the world for her was no longer there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le vostre visite erano pi\u00f9 brevi. Aspettavi sempre pi\u00f9 a lungo per rispondere ai suoi messaggi. Se si presentava qualcosa di meglio, saltavi i piani che avevi fatto con lei. Eri presente solo quando era <\/span>conveniente<\/span><\/a> e non un momento di pi\u00f9. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'avete persa perch\u00e9 le avete fatto credere di essere l'unica causa dei vostri problemi. <\/b>Le hai detto che non era poi cos\u00ec innocente in tutto questo. Che molti dei problemi che avevi erano con lei. <\/span><\/p>\n

She lacked understanding, she hadn\u2019t supported you enough and so on and so on. Your claims were unfounded because even though she admitted she knew she wasn\u2019t perfect, she knew that she had done her best for your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'hai persa perch\u00e9 ti sei scusato invano.<\/b> Saying, \u201cI am sorry,\u201d meant nothing to you. You would say the words and go ahead and do it again. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sapreste come tranquillizzarla e tornare ad avere un buon rapporto con lei. Ma lei ha iniziato a vedere attraverso di te. Ha visto che tutti i tuoi dispiaceri erano inutili. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'avete persa perch\u00e9 non l'avete mai valorizzata veramente. <\/b>You mistook her kindness for weakness. You took her for granted. You couldn\u2019t see how amazing she was just because she was so grounded and humble.<\/span><\/p>\n

She would always put herself in your shoes before making a decision. You couldn\u2019t recognize all the efforts she made to understand you better. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'hai persa trattandola come se fosse la tua rete di sicurezza.<\/b> Sapevi quanto ti amava, quindi hai pensato che potevi andare e venire a tuo piacimento. <\/span><\/p>\n

You thought no matter what you did, she would always forgive you, she would always take you back. She had done so before so why wouldn\u2019t she now? <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma lei ha raggiunto quel limite dentro di lei. Il limite che lei stessa non conosceva. A quel punto, ha capito che era abbastanza. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That if she kept on forgiving you it would be a lifetime all right but a lifetime of misery. And misery was one word and one feeling that she couldn\u2019t connect with love. She chose to make herself happy by refusing to let you continue making her <\/i><\/b>infelice<\/i><\/b><\/a>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why this time, her goodbye is final. She can\u2019t wait anymore. She can\u2019t be the one who understands and forgives anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even try to get back with her. She no longer has time to waste on you. <\/span>Questa volta l'hai persa davvero per sempre e non devi incolpare nessuno se non te stesso.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"AVRESTI<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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