{"id":20752,"date":"2020-06-12T09:04:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T09:04:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20752"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:55:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:55:11","slug":"prima-di-innamorarsi-di-una-ragazza-ferocemente-indipendente-ma-ridicolmente-emotiva-sappiate-questo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/prima-di-innamorarsi-di-una-ragazza-ferocemente-indipendente-ma-ridicolmente-emotiva-sappiate-questo\/","title":{"rendered":"Prima di innamorarvi di una ragazza ferocemente indipendente ma ridicolmente emotiva, sappiate questo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 autosufficiente. Ha sempre saputo di cosa ha bisogno e cosa deve fare da sola. <\/span><\/p>\n

Niente le \u00e8 mai stato servito su un piatto d'argento. Ha dovuto guadagnarsi tutto nella sua vita con il duro lavoro e la sua testardaggine.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ha paura di andare a fare le cose da sola. Ha affrontato di tutto e questo le ha insegnato che l'unica persona di cui si pu\u00f2 fidare \u00e8 se stessa.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy for her to open up to someone and let them love her. She, who has learned to do everything by herself and never to depend on anyone,<\/span> non pu\u00f2 immaginare di perdersi in un nodo di sentimenti confusi verso un'altra persona. <\/span><\/p>\n

But believe it or not, she can love and her love is the same as she is\u2014fiercely <\/span>indipendente<\/span><\/a> e ridicolmente emotivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

When she falls in love, it\u2019s something that lasts for as long as you don\u2019t break it yourself by doing something selfish and stupid. She will never be the one who\u2019ll break her promise of loving you. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is tearing her apart because on the one hand, she wants to give all of herself to someone who deserves it, but she doesn\u2019t want to lose who she is. You see, it\u2019s so hard loving her, but it\u2019s also worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is afraid that she\u2019ll stumble upon someone who won\u2019t be able to understand her and give her the space she needs. She\u2019s afraid she\u2019ll have to become dependent and that she\u2019ll lose her true self, but at the same time, she wants to give that someone special all of her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vuole includerlo nella sua vita. Vuole che uniscano le loro strade e che combattano insieme. Anche se questo la terrorizza molto, lo vuole. <\/span><\/p>\n

Her mind is the biggest problem here. She\u2019s trying to shush it. She\u2019s  trying to fight with her reason which is telling her that she doesn\u2019t need anybody. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le dice che \u00e8 gi\u00e0 completa e che qualcun altro potrebbe solo rovinarla, mentre il suo cuore lotta anche per vincere. Il suo cuore, il suo lato emotivo che \u00e8 forte quanto quello ragionevole, vuole che lei ceda al piacere, che ceda all'amore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Poi si ritrova a stringerlo a s\u00e9, ad abbracciarlo, a baciarlo, a donargli completamente tutta se stessa. Nient'altro conta. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

La sua lotta tra la ragione e il cuore \u00e8 finita. Il cuore ha vinto. Ora dipende dal suo amore. Ora dipende dal suo tocco premuroso e dalle sue parole gentili. Ora \u00e8 innamorata.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s when she gets vulnerable. That\u2019s when she loses herself because she has nothing under control. She is exposed to you completely. She is suddenly aware of the situation she is in. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vi ha fatto entrare. Si \u00e8 fidata di voi e voi potete facilmente ferirla. Quindi, si tira indietro. <\/span>Costruisce questo enorme muro emotivo<\/span><\/a> perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 resa conto di essere completamente nuda, in mostra e alla vostra merc\u00e9. <\/span><\/p>\n

She is scared. Being just independent or just emotional is impossible for her. She can\u2019t choose to be just one thing and yet it\u2019s impossible to be just one. <\/span><\/p>\n

She has to find the balance. If she\u2019s independent, she craves love and when she is love, she misses her freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deve essere fedele a se stessa. Deve rimanere indipendente e fidarsi soprattutto di se stessa. Sa che le sue decisioni sono le migliori per lei. <\/span><\/p>\n

She knows her mind will never trick her, but she can\u2019t be afraid of love so much. You have to show her that there is a balance between the two. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to make her aware that even if she falls in love, she won\u2019t lose herself. She won\u2019t lose the ability to make her own decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Help her be who she is and help her embrace her emotional side because that is the part of her, too\u2014not only her reason and her mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 una donna forte. \u00c8 una donna emotiva. \u00c8 il mix perfetto di entrambe le cose. <\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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