{"id":20758,"date":"2019-07-12T10:50:55","date_gmt":"2019-07-12T10:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20758"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:34:36","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:34:36","slug":"se-ti-guardi-intorno-ti-accorgerai-che-non-ci-sono-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-ti-guardi-intorno-ti-accorgerai-che-non-ci-sono-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ti guardi intorno, noterai che non ci sono pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Se vi guardate intorno, noterete che non aspetto pi\u00f9 i vostri messaggi. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non sto inviando nulla nemmeno io.  Non sto cercando di connettermi mentalmente con te per farti rispondere. Non invier\u00f2 il secondo messaggio quando non hai avuto la decenza di rispondere al primo. Ho smesso di guardare un<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/meritano-di-fissare-lo-schermo-vuoto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> schermo vuoto.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I have a lot going on and don\u2019t have the time to worry about why you are acting stupidly. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not waiting for you to make time for me.<\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am not there so you can cancel on me or serve me your lame excuses. I am not bending over backward and ignoring my own plans just so I can see you when it\u2019s convenient. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice you are not getting anything from me, not anymore.<\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi sono stancata di dare e non ricevere nulla in cambio. Mi sono stancata di sentirmi cos\u00ec sola e cos\u00ec poco apprezzata quando ero con te. Mi sono stancata di non sapere qual \u00e8 la mia posizione. Mi sono stancata di fare due passi indietro ogni volta che ne facevamo uno avanti.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice that you miss this smile of mine. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ti ricordi quante volte ho sfoderato quel sorriso, anche se mi avevi fatto piangere la sera prima? Ricordi con quanta facilit\u00e0 ho perdonato e superato tutto perch\u00e9 ho sempre messo noi davanti a qualsiasi problema? Non lo far\u00f2 mai pi\u00f9. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not there to listen anymore. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am not there to support you no matter what. I am not there to understand you when nobody else can. I am not there to read between the lines and guess the things you refuse to say. I can\u2019t be there anymore because I never got those things from you. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am no longer there to boost your ego. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Per innalzare te sul piedistallo mentre tu mi abbassi e risvegli le mie insicurezze. Voglio circondarmi di persone che <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">potenziamento<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e rendermi pi\u00f9 forte di quanto non lo sia gi\u00e0. Mi hai solo fatto sentire come se fossi debole e indegna.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not waiting anymore. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not waiting and I am not expecting anything from you anymore. You drowned my hopes of a better life together a long time ago. I finally realize life is too short to be strong for someone who uses the fact that they are your weakness to manipulate you. Life is to short to spend it on somebody who is never sure about anything. Life&#8217;s too short to settle for less than I deserve. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/hai-dimenticato-di-amarla-ed-e-per-questo-che-se-ne-andata\/\">Me ne sono andato<\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am gone for good this time. I know you don\u2019t believe me because I went and I came back so many times before. I gave you<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/hai-sprecato-tutte-le-tue-possibilita-di-stare-con-me\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> infinite possibilit\u00e0<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you misused them all. &nbsp;I know you don\u2019t believe me and I don\u2019t care because this time, I believe it myself. <\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41397\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/herway.net-7-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you look around, you\u2019ll notice I am not waiting for your texts anymore. I am not sending any either. &nbsp;I am not trying to mentally connect with you and make you answer. I am not sending that second text when you had no decency to reply on the first one. I am done looking&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20759,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jessica-felicio-463231-unsplash-4.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20758","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20758"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20758\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20758"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20758"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20758"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}