{"id":20805,"date":"2020-06-22T08:42:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T08:42:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20805"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:43:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:43:42","slug":"la-donna-che-state-diventando-vi-costera-molto-ma-sceglietela-lo-stesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-donna-che-state-diventando-vi-costera-molto-ma-sceglietela-lo-stesso\/","title":{"rendered":"La donna che stai diventando ti coster\u00e0 molto, ma sceglila comunque"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Diventate pi\u00f9 forti ogni giorno che passa. Siete pi\u00f9 indipendenti e autosufficienti che mai.<\/p>\n<p>You know who you are and what you deserve and you won\u2019t take shit from anybody. Don\u2019t let that frighten you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you are doing something wrong. Self-love is not selfish, it\u2019s necessary. Embrace the change you are experiencing. Love the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-motivi-per-cui-la-relazione-della-vostra-vita-sara-con-una-donna-fieramente-indipendente\/\"> donna feroce<\/a> state diventando.<\/p>\n<p>You are constantly learning. Life is making you learn, even when you don\u2019t want to. Some lessons will be hard to handle, some will go smoothly. Unfortunately, we get more from the tough ones.<\/p>\n<p>I vostri errori e le vostre scelte giuste, le vostre cadute e i vostri alti, il vostro dolore e la vostra felicit\u00e0 vi hanno trasformato nella donna che siete oggi.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who won\u2019t settle for anything half-assed.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95588\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"Una bella ragazza con i capelli lunghi e un bel vestito per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You learned that half-love, almost relationships, and fake friendships are nothing more than a waste of your time. You don\u2019t give endless chances to people anymore because you know they will end up disappointing you.<\/p>\n<p>Volete nella vostra vita persone che ci stiano dentro fino in fondo. Volete un fidanzato, non un quasi-fidanzato. Volete amicizie vere e genuine, non quelle create per convenienza.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who won\u2019t stay silent when something is bothering her. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I tuoi occhi sono doloranti per aver guardato attraverso le dita. Avete guardato oltre tante cose che vi chiedevano di reagire. Le vostre labbra ora si muovono senza sosta perch\u00e9 sono state sigillate in quei momenti in cui hanno sentito un incredibile bisogno di parlare.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavate di fare del bene alle vostre relazioni e amicizie tacendo le cose che vi davano fastidio o vi ferivano.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, hanno continuato a rimanere imbottigliati dentro di voi, finch\u00e9 non siete scoppiati. Ora sapete che la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 parlare e far uscire tutto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uomo guarda confuso mentre la donna parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>State diventando una donna che sa cosa vuole e cosa non vuole tollerare. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are slowly creating your own standards. You won\u2019t allow anyone to treat you poorly. You know your limits now. You know how many times you spent nights crying because somebody hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>You are tired of forgiving without hearing the actual words. You are tired of seeing the best in people who give you their worst. That\u2019s why you are slowly learning how to put a stop to all of that.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who doesn\u2019t chase anybody. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quelli che vogliono rimanere nella vostra vita faranno uno sforzo. Investiranno nella vostra relazione. Troveranno il tempo per farlo. Invieranno quel messaggio. Chiameranno. Faranno il possibile per essere presenti nella vostra vita. Non troveranno scuse o bugie.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You are becoming a woman who uses, &nbsp;\u201cNO!\u201d as her most powerful tool.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata di donna con occhiali da sole\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t even count how many times you have done something that you didn\u2019t really want to do just to make somebody else happy. You can\u2019t even count how many times you have put somebody else&#8217;s needs in front of your own.<\/p>\n<p>They have never appreciated it\u2014moreover, they took it for granted. That\u2019s why \u201cNo\u201d became your favorite word. &nbsp;You won\u2019t let anybody push you around.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>State diventando una donna che vuole le stesse cose che lei d\u00e0. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>In passato, lei \u00e8 sempre stata quella che amava, dava e faceva di pi\u00f9 per le persone che amava. Ora tutto questo \u00e8 alle spalle.<\/p>\n<p>Esigete uguaglianza e reciprocit\u00e0. Sapete di essere degni di amore, rispetto, tempo, attenzione, affetto e di tutte le altre cose che siete disposti a restituire. Sapete che non sarete mai felici se vi trovate in una situazione unilaterale, quindi non vi impegnate in questo senso.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>State diventando una donna che si ama ogni giorno di pi\u00f9.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>L'amore che avete per voi stessi cresce ogni giorno di pi\u00f9. Le persone tossiche della vostra vita vi hanno riempito di dubbi su voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95592\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di una giovane donna afroamericana sorridente all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hanno seriamente danneggiato la vostra immagine e la vostra fiducia in voi stessi. Ora cominciate a capire che stavano solo trasferendo su di voi le loro insicurezze e che non hanno mai avuto nulla a che fare con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Hai imparato a tue spese che devi amare te stesso con tutto il cuore e trattarti bene, in modo che gli altri possano imparare dal tuo esempio.<\/p>\n<p>Scegliete la donna che state diventando. Vi coster\u00e0 molto. Vi coster\u00e0 le persone della vostra vita. Ma il<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-che-proverete-quando-incontrerete-quella-giusta\/\"> giuste<\/a> rimarranno. Daranno il benvenuto alla nuova donna che stai diventando. Saranno contenti che vi siate tolti tutto quel peso dalle spalle. Avrete pi\u00f9 qualit\u00e0 in ogni aspetto della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t give up on the woman you are becoming even though it will get tough at times.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>You will stray to your old ways but just make sure you find your way back. You are on your way to creating a life you will be proud of. You are in the process of reinventing yourself and making yourself happy. Don\u2019t let anything or anyone stop you from doing that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La donna che state diventando vi coster\u00e0 molto, ma sceglietela lo stesso\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are getting stronger by the day. You are more independent and self-sufficient than you have ever been. You know who you are and what you deserve and you won\u2019t take shit from anybody. Don\u2019t let that frighten you. Don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you are doing something wrong. Self-love is not selfish, it\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":95587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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