{"id":20829,"date":"2020-05-16T08:04:32","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T08:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20829"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:37","slug":"15-motivi-brutalmente-onesti-per-cui-lei-ti-sta-abbandonando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-motivi-brutalmente-onesti-per-cui-lei-ti-sta-abbandonando\/","title":{"rendered":"15 motivi brutalmente onesti per cui sta rinunciando a te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ha cercato di dirvelo. Il suo corpo e la sua mente urlavano in agonia. Stava soffrendo e tu non lo vedevi. Non volevate vederlo.<\/p>\n<p>Ha cercato di attirare la vostra attenzione con le parole e il linguaggio del corpo, ma in qualche modo vi siete sempre girati dall'altra parte.<\/p>\n<p>Piangeva e gridava a squarciagola, ma nessuno la sentiva.<\/p>\n<p>You were so occupied with yourself that you ignored her completely. And she wasn\u2019t even that demanding.<\/p>\n<p>L'unica cosa che voleva era che tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-la-ami-smetti-di-romperla\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">smettere di spezzarle il cuore<\/a>. You didn\u2019t hear or see her, and yet you were surprised she decided to give up on you. Why did she do it?<\/p>\n<h3>1. Because she\u2019s done being treated like shit.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"ragazzo e ragazza risentiti che si comportano come una coppia che litiga e non si rivolgono la parola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s done being underestimated and used. It\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Voleva stare con te.<\/h3>\n<p>She wanted to spend time with you, but you didn\u2019t feel the same as she did.<\/p>\n<p>You went on doing your own business. You kept on thinking only about yourself. And she couldn\u2019t take that anymore, so she left.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Perch\u00e9 ti ha dato un milione di possibilit\u00e0 prima di quest'ultima.<\/h3>\n<p>She warned you. She tried to talk to you and you always promised you wouldn\u2019t do anything like that again.<\/p>\n<p>Inutile dire che lei ha sempre infranto la sua promessa e ha continuato a fare ci\u00f2 che voleva.<\/p>\n<h3>4. She left because she fought for your attention and when you are in a relationship, you aren\u2019t supposed to do that.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors.jpg\" alt=\"coppia triste seduta sul divano in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-couple-sitting-at-sofa-indoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You aren\u2019t supposed to beg for your partner\u2019s love. That should come naturally and with ease, but in your relationship, it never did.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Ha rinunciato a te perch\u00e9 per te tutto era pi\u00f9 importante di lei.<\/h3>\n<p>Era l'ultima della tua lista. Non hai mai avuto tempo per lei. Hai dato priorit\u00e0 a tutte le cose sbagliate e non te ne sei mai pentito.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 con voi non era pi\u00f9 al sicuro.<\/h3>\n<p>Actually, she didn\u2019t even have the feeling that you were there for her and she was right. You weren&#8217;t. She was all alone.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Because you took her for granted and you didn\u2019t have any respect for her whatsoever.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"Una donna pensierosa appoggia la testa sulla schiena di un uomo mentre si trova all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You ignored her feelings and you didn\u2019t want to see how she was, on purpose. Maybe you were afraid to see the truth.<\/p>\n<h3>8. She gave up on you because she couldn&#8217;t trust you.<\/h3>\n<p>Hai detto una cosa e ne hai fatta un'altra. Le tue parole erano vuote e le tue promesse erano fatte solo per farla tacere e farla calmare per un po'.<\/p>\n<p>E questo \u00e8 accaduto pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte. Ebbene, ora ne ha abbastanza.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 era sola nella relazione.<\/h3>\n<p>Viveva in uno scenario che non avrebbe mai pensato di vivere.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Perch\u00e9 siete diventati estranei.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata di mani di uomo e donna in piedi l&#039;uno accanto all&#039;altra\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/close-up-photo-of-hands-of-man-and-woman-standing-next-to-each-other-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t the person she met a long time ago. You weren\u2019t the man she fell in love with. She couldn\u2019t recognize you anymore.<\/p>\n<h3>11. She left because she couldn&#8217;t hide her tears anymore.<\/h3>\n<p>She couldn\u2019t stand that corner of her bed where she would crawl and hide from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n<p>Her life wasn\u2019t supposed to be marked by that lonely corner soaked with her tears. No!<\/p>\n<h3>12. She couldn\u2019t take it anymore because of your guilt-tripping.<\/h3>\n<p>She couldn\u2019t endure you blaming her for every single thing that happened, even when she was totally innocent and you knew it.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 non era pi\u00f9 felice.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85698\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia con difficolt\u00e0 relazionali all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il sorriso sul suo volto era falso. Il suo entusiasmo e la sua voglia di vivere scomparvero lentamente.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Perch\u00e9 si era stancata di combattere.<\/h3>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 cos\u00ec che dovrebbe essere una relazione.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 resa conto che il suo amore stava guidando in una strada a senso unico.<\/h3>\n<p>Non \u00e8 questo che vuole per s\u00e9. Non ora. N\u00e9 mai.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"15 motivi brutalmente onesti per cui sta rinunciando a te\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She tried to tell you. Her body and her mind screamed in agony. She was in pain and you didn\u2019t see it. You didn\u2019t want to see it. She tried to get your attention with her words and body language, but somehow you always turned to the other side. She cried and she shouted from&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":85691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20829","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/15-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Shes-Giving-Up-On-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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