{"id":20859,"date":"2020-07-16T12:18:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T12:18:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20859"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:58:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:58:59","slug":"15-persone-condividono-lultimo-messaggio-che-hanno-inviato-al-proprio-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-persone-condividono-lultimo-messaggio-che-hanno-inviato-al-proprio-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"15 persone condividono l'ultimo messaggio che hanno inviato al loro ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si tratta di incontri moderni<\/a>Gli ultimi messaggi sono come le ultime parole che vi scambiate con il vostro ex quando tutto \u00e8 gi\u00e0 andato in pezzi.<\/p>\n

Exes are usually left without a reply and maybe it\u2019s better that way\u2014there is not much you can say to soothe a broken heart.<\/p>\n

People are sometimes even unaware that their last text is actually their last because they didn’t anticipate that their ex will pull a disappearing act.<\/p>\n

Anche se il loro buon senso dice loro di non inviare nulla, lo fanno comunque. Ecco come apparivano alcuni di quei messaggi e perch\u00e9 li hanno inviati:<\/p>\n

\u201c Stop texting me!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 avvenuto subito dopo aver bloccato il mio ex sul telefono e su tutti i miei account di social media.<\/p>\n

Mi ha tradita e mi mandava continuamente messaggi o telefonate per dirmi che gli dispiaceva, che era stato un errore, una cosa di una volta, un lapsus.<\/p>\n

Yeah right, a slip? You don\u2019t just slip on top of somebody else.<\/p>\n

Kirsten (28)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201cI can\u2019t believe that the same man who cried as we were saying our goodbyes is the same man who forgot all about me as soon as his plane landed. You must be a really good actor to pull that off. Don\u2019t even try to justify yourself. I heard you are back with your ex. You know, the same one you labeled as manipulative and crazy. I hope you marry her. You two deserve each other.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Era un relazione a distanza<\/a> e lui \u00e8 venuto a trovarmi nella nuova citt\u00e0 in cui vivevo. Abbiamo trascorso insieme 7 giorni perfetti.<\/p>\n

Poco dopo, la mia amica mi ha inviato una foto di lui e della sua ex che si baciavano in discoteca proprio accanto a lei. Ammetto di essermi pentito di questo messaggio, ma dopo che lui mi ha risposto spiegandomi che doveva esserci stato un errore, ha dimostrato di non essere altro che un bastardo bugiardo e manipolatore. Non ho mai risposto a nessuno dei messaggi che mi ha mandato dopo. Ho smesso di sentire bugie.<\/p>\n

Kate (25)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201cI miss you.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Era un messaggio da ubriaco alle 3 del mattino alla mia ex ragazza. Ci eravamo lasciati un anno prima e per una buona ragione, quindi non era assolutamente necessario inviare quel messaggio.<\/p>\n

Ma credo che l'alcol renda emotivi.<\/p>\n

Davide (24)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201cYou really are a heartless bitch.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ha fatto le valigie e se n'\u00e8 andata. Nessuna spiegazione, nessun addio, nemmeno un biglietto. Tornai in un appartamento vuoto.<\/p>\n

And a few days after, I sent this. If she didn\u2019t want to say anything, she shouldn\u2019t deny me that right.<\/p>\n

Jack (27)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cDo you have a new girlfriend?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Sapevo gi\u00e0 che l'aveva fatto. Volevo solo sentirlo da lui. So che sembra stupido, ma \u00e8 andato avanti cos\u00ec in fretta dopo che ci siamo lasciati, che ho avuto difficolt\u00e0 ad affrontarlo.<\/p>\n

This was my way of saying, \u201cDo you know just how much you have hurt me?\u201d<\/p>\n

Angela (22)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cI need space. I hope you will understand and give me a chance to figure it all out.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

My ex-didn\u2019t understand. Instead of dandomi spazio<\/a>Ha mandato messaggi e telefonato fino a quando non le ho risposto.<\/p>\n

Litigavamo continuamente e io dovevo sopportare i suoi scatti di gelosia.<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e8 diventata pi\u00f9 ossessiva dopo questo messaggio, ho capito che dovevo uscire immediatamente da quella relazione.<\/p>\n

Aron (31)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cYou broke my heart. There\u2019s no going back after that.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Al mio ex per il suo messaggio di voler tornare insieme. Ci tenevo ancora, ma non avrei permesso che mi facesse di nuovo del male.<\/p>\n

La prima volta sono sopravvissuto a malapena.<\/p>\n

Mery (23)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201cCan I come over?\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Non ho ricevuto risposta. Era notte fonda e si trattava di una chiamata a vuoto. Immagino che mi abbia visto bene.<\/p>\n

A volte sono davvero un idiota.<\/p>\n

Matt (26)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cCan you just fucking reply? \u201c<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

She just wouldn\u2019t answer a simple question. I was frustrated and angry because it was her fault we broke up, not mine.<\/p>\n

I never sent her a text again. When I cooled down, I realized that I can\u2019t force her to talk to me. I let her go for good. Still, I don\u2019t get her at all.<\/p>\n

Ben (30)<\/em><\/p>\n

Vai a farti fottere.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Not really ladylike, but he had it coming. I don\u2019t want to go into details. Let\u2019s just leave it at that.<\/p>\n

Caroline (24)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201c I still care. It\u2019s still too fresh. We can\u2019t be friends right now.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

We weren’t friends after this text either. At that time, I was still in love with him and I didn\u2019t want to fake friendship.<\/p>\n

As time went by, I realized you can\u2019t be just friends with someone you once loved\u2014there is no point. We should have been more, but we weren’t. Let\u2019s just leave it at that.<\/p>\n

Meriam (24)<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Grazie per avermi spezzato<\/a>. Thank you for showing me that you were never the man I thought you were. Thank you for opening my eyes. Thank you for showing me that my life can be happy when you are not a part of it. Best of luck but as far away from me as possible. Goodbye forever.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I think it\u2019s all pretty clear.<\/p>\n

Kaylee (28)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201c I hope you are happier. Regardless of everything we have been through, I still want what\u2019s best for you.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I sent this to my ex when she found her current boyfriend. Maybe I shouldn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n

But she was still in my mind\u2014and probably in my heart back then. I couldn\u2019t help myself.<\/p>\n

Jackson(30)<\/em><\/p>\n

 \u201cWatch me!!!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

It was a reply to his text which, in a nutshell, claimed that I can\u2019t be happy without him.<\/p>\n

He kept on sending texts after that but it was pointless. I never replied. FYI\u2014I am happy now, and I couldn\u2019t care less if he knows it or not.<\/p>\n

Lin (27)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cLeave me the fuck alone!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata ossessivamente gelosa per tutto il tempo in cui siamo stati insieme. Dopo che ci siamo lasciati, ha molestato tutte le mie amiche, accusandole di essere venute a letto con me.<\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 presentata al lavoro e alla porta di casa mia. Mi chiamava in continuazione e mi mandava messaggi senza senso, anche se io non le rispondevo mai.<\/p>\n

This was after a 4 am call I didn’t answer. I blocked her everywhere. She completely lost it.<\/p>\n

Jason (28)<\/em><\/p>\n

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