{"id":2086,"date":"2020-07-03T11:33:42","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T11:33:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2086"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:36:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:36:27","slug":"smettere-di-aspettare-indecisione-decisione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-aspettare-indecisione-decisione\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di aspettarlo: la sua indecisione \u00e8 una decisione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>E la storia va avanti cos\u00ec...<\/p>\n<p>Sei tu a volere una relazione seria, ma lui \u00e8 molto sospettoso al riguardo.<\/p>\n<p>Non si sa mai cosa intenda veramente e il suo linguaggio del corpo \u00e8 cos\u00ec confuso.<\/p>\n<p>Non siete sicuri di cosa possiate costruire insieme e mentre voi vi preoccupate della vostra bella testolina per la vostra relazione, lui \u00e8 totalmente rilassato.<\/p>\n<p>You are ready, but he isn&#8217;t bothered to take a step forward. You want more and he&#8217;s stuck&#8230; unsure&#8230; indecisive&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Cut the crap\u2014his indecision is a decision.<\/p>\n<p>Se volesse stare con te, starebbe con te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know we&#8217;d all love to receive the love we&#8217;re giving, but if he is making a fool of you, it is time to say goodbye.<\/p>\n<p>You need to check whether there are any red flags telling you that he is just having fun. I know you can\u2019t think wisely when being in love but give it a shot.<\/p>\n<p>Avr\u00e0 un enorme impatto sulla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Controllate le sue azioni. Risolve i problemi non appena si presentano? Oppure lascia che sia tu a occuparti di questo enorme lavoro?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him lead you on. Be smart and use your common sense.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve that kind of treatment. You don&#8217;t need a man who&#8217;s unsure of you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"Una donna pensierosa che beve un caff\u00e8 vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/outersparkle.com\/2013\/09\/25\/i-am-awesome-who-you-are-a-message-to-all-women\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Siete unici e degni<\/a> and don\u2019t let anyone convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>I ragazzi vanno e vengono. Ma \u00e8 lei che deve rispettare se stessa.<\/p>\n<p>Because, darling, if you don\u2019t do that, nobody else will. So, stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Burn the bridges between you and him. Stop caring about people who don&#8217;t care about you. And stop waiting for those who&#8217;ll probably never be ready for you.<\/p>\n<p>Si sentir\u00e0 dispiaciuto per tutto. Si sentir\u00e0 in colpa perch\u00e9 vi dava per scontate. Credetemi, alla fine il karma busser\u00e0 alla sua porta.<\/p>\n<p>He will feel bad because he didn\u2019t show up for your meeting. He will be sorry for letting you down. He will regret not choosing you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"giovane triste che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 gli avete dato tante possibilit\u00e0 e ora siete esausti.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t that old sparkle between the two of you anymore. Your day is all about fighting and competing.<\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;re the only one now holding the last string together.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not what a real relationship should look like. God, you deserve so much more.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure you figured this out and that you will give yourself another chance&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>With someone who is worthy and doesn\u2019t take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sull&#039;altalena in spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Con un ragazzo amorevole e premuroso.<\/p>\n<p>With someone who will love you just the way you are, someone who&#8217;ll make choosing you look as easy as breathing.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t need to be perfect but he has to be perfect for YOU.<\/p>\n<p>Because that\u2019s what counts most in the end.<\/p>\n<p>And Mr. Wrong? Buy him a one-way ticket to \u2018gone\u2019 and say goodbye forever!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Smettete di aspettarlo: la sua indecisione \u00e8 una decisione\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And the story goes like this\u2026 You are the one that wants a serious relationship but he is very suspicious about that. You never know what he really means and his body language is so confusing. You are not sure what the two of you can build together and while you are bothering your pretty,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":103975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2086","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2086"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2086\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2086"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2086"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2086"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}