{"id":20876,"date":"2020-05-17T09:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T09:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20876"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:49:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:49:02","slug":"avere-a-che-fare-con-un-simpatico-scopatore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/avere-a-che-fare-con-un-simpatico-scopatore\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segnali d'allarme che indicano che avete a che fare con un \"bravo\" scopatore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Riconoscere i buoni dai cattivi \u00e8 diventata una missione impossibile al giorno d'oggi.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t tell them apart anymore. At least before, you knew that when a guy was a jerk, he acted like one so you knew he was one.<\/p>\n

Era davvero cos\u00ec semplice. Se si aveva la sensazione di poter camminare sul lato selvaggio per un po', si abboccava all'amo di proposito, solo per vedere com'era.<\/p>\n

E dopo che ti hanno spezzato il cuore, ok, non eri cos\u00ec triste perch\u00e9 in fondo sapevi che sarebbe successo.<\/p>\n

Era solo un'altra esperienza e un'altra lezione<\/a> hai dovuto imparare.<\/p>\n

But today, you can\u2019t afford that \u2018luxury\u2019. You can\u2019t willingly choose to date uno scopatore<\/a> just to see what it\u2019s like.<\/p>\n

Oggi gli scopatori sono travestiti da bravi ragazzi. Oggi le donne innocenti vengono prese in giro da idioti manipolatori<\/a> because they pretend to be something they aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Just read on and be careful because at least once in your life, you\u2019ll meet a \u2018nice\u2019 fuckboy:<\/p>\n

1. Finge di essere un bravo ragazzo<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo
\nNaturalmente, questo \u00e8 il primo indizio, ma probabilmente l'ultimo che capirete.<\/p>\n

Usually, they are so good at acting that you simply can\u2019t figure out what they are really like.<\/p>\n

They will do things your way and try to fulfill your every wish. They will be kind and considerate but on the other hand, they will play completely the opposite game when you\u2019re not looking.<\/p>\n

2. \u00c8 un amico troppo buono<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

I suoi amici lo adorano. Ai loro occhi \u00e8 il vero eroe. Perch\u00e9? Beh, non perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un amico altruista e premuroso, non perch\u00e9 \u00e8 sempre l\u00ec per loro quando ne hanno bisogno, ma perch\u00e9 sono uguali a lui.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il loro modello perch\u00e9 ha frequentato tante donne diverse, o perch\u00e9 \u00e8 riuscito a sedurre una che nessuno di loro ha fatto. Ma in sostanza, sono lo stesso tipo di stronzo che \u00e8 lui.<\/p>\n

3. \u00c8 completamente diverso quando \u00e8 vicino a voi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you are together, he is so considerate, caring. He is just too perfect. Well, that\u2019s a load of BS!<\/p>\n

Nel momento in cui gli si voltano le spalle, nel momento in cui si smette di guardare nella sua direzione, lui si trasforma in qualcosa di completamente diverso.<\/p>\n

Di solito le donne trovano conforto nel mentire a se stesse sul fatto che lui \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 il ragazzo che finge di essere quando \u00e8 con voi e non quello che \u00e8 quando \u00e8 con un'altra.<\/p>\n

Usually, we don\u2019t want to admit that we are uscire con un vero e proprio psicopatico<\/a>. Questo va a loro favore perch\u00e9 possono proseguire con il loro piano.<\/p>\n

4. He won\u2019t make you angry<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t irritate you or do anything directly to you to make you angry. You\u2019ll be happy with him but only for a certain amount of time.<\/p>\n

That period in the beginning when the promises are huge and while you\u2019re waiting for them to come true, your life will be more than perfect.<\/p>\n

Ma quando inizi lentamente a capire che nessuna delle cose che ti ha detto si avverer\u00e0, la tua bolla di sapone scoppia improvvisamente e ti rendi conto che \u00e8 solo un altro scopatore.<\/p>\n

5. Non vi rifiuter\u00e0 mai formalmente<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

He will stack things in his favor. Although he has never told you that he doesn\u2019t want anything serious but somehow his actions show you that and when he later on actually tells you that he never wanted anything serious, you can\u2019t be angry because you were expecting that and he just walks away with no guilt whatsoever.<\/p>\n

6. Maybe he won\u2019t hurt you on purpose<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Forse ha avuto un passato di merda, forse ha problemi di impegno, forse \u00e8 stato brutalmente ferito.<\/p>\n

Maybe all of these things are true but that doesn\u2019t give him an excuse for hurting you.<\/p>\n

Maybe he isn\u2019t doing it on purpose but that doesn\u2019t change the fact you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t know how to deal with his ghosts from the past, he shouldn\u2019t be with anyone in the first place because that is just acting selfishly.<\/p>\n

7. Ha dei soprannomi carini per te<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t this cute? He must be the right one. Well, he\u2019s not because these nicknames are generic, they are not special.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t call you that because you mean something more to him.<\/p>\n

He calls you that because he knows you want to hear it. It\u2019s a perfect solution for him.<\/p>\n

He calls you cute nicknames, you melt and he gets what he wants\u2014you thinking he loves you more than the world itself, when actually you\u2019re just a passing aggancio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Recognizing the good guys from the bad guys has become mission impossible nowadays. You can\u2019t tell them apart anymore. At least before, you knew that when a guy was a jerk, he acted like one so you knew he was one. It was really as simple as that. If you felt like you could walk…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20876","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20876"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20876\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20876"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20876"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20876"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}