{"id":20923,"date":"2020-07-18T08:55:04","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T08:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20923"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:01","slug":"e-ora-che-lo-vediate-per-quello-che-e-veramente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-ora-che-lo-vediate-per-quello-che-e-veramente\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 ora che lo vediate per quello che \u00e8 veramente"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 cambiato. Non \u00e8 lo stesso uomo di cui ti sei innamorata e per questo non sei pi\u00f9 te stessa.<\/p>\n

Un tempo eri piena di vita, radiosa e sorridente, e ora conservi solo il ricordo di quanto eri felice, di quanto eri felice grazie a lui.<\/p>\n

Ora siete stanchi. Siete stanchi del rapporto con lui, di pensare, sperare, investire, piangere, perdonare e aspettare qualcosa che rimetta tutto a posto.<\/p>\n

You are tired, but you are still putting up a fight because you can\u2019t imagine giving up on love. <\/strong><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t see is that it wouldn\u2019t be giving up on love. It would be letting go of something that\u2019s not right for you, of something not meant for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He is not what you deserve. He is far from it. He doesn\u2019t see all your efforts.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see that candlelight dinner you made because something came up and he couldn\u2019t come. He doesn\u2019t respond to that sweet goodnight text you sent him.<\/p>\n

He ignores any attempt at you having a heart-to-heart conversation. He is there and he isn\u2019t there at the same time.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t ask about the things that make you feel down and upset. He doesn\u2019t feel happy when something good happens to you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even remember to ask how your day, went let alone anything else. You feel like you don\u2019t exist and like your feelings don\u2019t matter to him, and it\u2019s tearing you apart.<\/p>\n

Gli interessa solo se stesso e che i suoi bisogni siano soddisfatti. Tutto ci\u00f2 che dite o fate lo d\u00e0 per scontato, come se avesse diritto a tutto ci\u00f2 che riceve da voi.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see the need to reciprocate because he is not missing anything.<\/p>\n

He has your full attention at all times. You listen to everything he has to say even if it\u2019s not something that you find interesting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to him and that makes it important to you, too. You make sure he knows he has your support.<\/p>\n

Ricambiate la sua freddezza con calore e dolcezza. Abbracciate le sue distanze. Fate del vostro meglio per dimostrargli quanto sia importante e lui, come sempre, non fa assolutamente nulla.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aprire gli occhi e vedere l'egoista lui<\/a>.<\/strong> Quello che si aspetta che tu sia ai suoi ordini ogni volta che ne ha voglia e lo trova conveniente.<\/p>\n

\"triste<\/p>\n

Quello che si limita a prendere senza dare nulla in cambio. Quello che non vi apprezzer\u00e0 mai e non vi apprezzer\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

Trust that little voice inside of you screaming that he can\u2019t be trusted.<\/strong> Che i suoi baci sono freddi. Che i suoi abbracci non sono pi\u00f9 stretti come un tempo.<\/p>\n

That he doesn\u2019t show affection in the way that he used to. That his mind is elsewhere when he is with you.<\/p>\n

A woman always knows, you know, when something is off. It\u2019s just a matter of time until you\u2019ll be ready to face the truth.<\/p>\n

Remove that blindfold and see that he doesn\u2019t love you in the way you deserve to be loved.<\/strong> It\u2019s preventing you from loving yourself.<\/p>\n

He is building up your insecurities. He is making you question whether you are the real reason things aren\u2019t working out.<\/p>\n

Vi sta facendo credere che siete difficili da amare, mentre dovrebbe ringraziare il cielo per il vostro amore.<\/p>\n

Smettete di aggrapparvi a quell'inizio magico che avete avuto.<\/strong> Era l'uomo dei vostri sogni. La vostra felicit\u00e0 significava il mondo per lui.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

His texts were never late. His free time was all yours. You had his full attention. Unfortunately, that\u2019s not the man you have standing before you now. He changed or he showed his real face.<\/p>\n

Smettetela di andare avanti velocemente verso quel luogo del futuro in cui voi due sarete felici.<\/strong> Dove sar\u00e0 pronto a fare il passo successivo.<\/p>\n

Dove smetter\u00e0 di trattarvi male. Dove tutta la bont\u00e0 che vedete in lui verr\u00e0 a galla. Dove ti amer\u00e0 come dovresti essere amata.<\/p>\n

Vedetelo per quello che \u00e8 veramente e non per quello che volete che sia.<\/strong> Cerca di capire la tua forza e allontanati da lui.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared to walk alone into the unknown when what you do know is failing you in every aspect.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay because things won\u2019t change for the better. They will only get worse.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay where you feel unloved, unnoticed, betrayed and underappreciated. Be brave! Be your own hero! Love yourself! Make yourself happy!<\/p>\n

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