{"id":20955,"date":"2020-06-19T11:31:09","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T11:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20955"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:02:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:02:55","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-non-avete-bisogno-di-un-uomo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-non-avete-bisogno-di-un-uomo\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui non avete bisogno di un uomo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Molte persone pensano di aver bisogno di qualcuno nella loro vita per sentirsi complete.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che l'unica persona di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 voi stessi. Siete l'unico essere umano da cui non potete fuggire.<\/p>\n<p>Gli altri sono i benvenuti se contribuiscono con energia positiva alla vostra vita. Quelli che vi fanno stare male possono fare le valigie e andarsene.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need them. Just like you don\u2019t need a man to live your life. You can handle things well on your own.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t fool yourself by thinking you need a man. You really don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Potete vivere una vita molto felice senza di lui. <strong>Un uomo non risolver\u00e0 magicamente tutti i vostri problemi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anzi, un uomo sbagliato non far\u00e0 altro che crearvi ancora pi\u00f9 problemi.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi godetevi la vita, ricordatevi chi siete, rendetevi felici.<\/p>\n<p>E ogni volta che pensate di aver bisogno di un uomo nella vostra vita, leggete questi motivi per convincervi del contrario.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Siete l'eroe di voi stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91290\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day.jpg\" alt=\"Donna felice che sorride in spiaggia in una giornata di sole\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Happy-woman-smiling-at-the-beach-on-a-sunny-day-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is nothing a man can do that you can\u2019t. Maybe you\u2019ll find a different way, but you\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n<p>You can change the light bulb by yourself. You can change the tire by yourself. It\u2019s not that hard.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re healthy, you can do anything. Having a man in your life is not a fairytale.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not that Prince Charming who will keep you safe and protect you by all means.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s only human, too. He sometimes needs to be protected, as well.<\/p>\n<p>He has the same capabilities and needs as you. So don\u2019t sit around and wait for someone to change that freaking light bulb.<\/p>\n<p>Cambiatelo da soli. <strong>Se un uomo pu\u00f2 farlo, potete farlo anche voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>2. He\u2019s not perfect<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91291\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di bella ragazza al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As said before, men have the same needs as women. Don\u2019t think of him like he\u2019s the perfect example of life that will make everything better. Hercules doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, when you fall in love with someone you look at him like he\u2019s perfect, but always keep in mind the fact that he\u2019s only human.<\/p>\n<p>Definite il tipo di uomo di cui pensate di aver bisogno nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Poi, cercate di implementare nella vostra personalit\u00e0 tutti gli attributi che avete scelto per lui.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se pensi di aver bisogno di un uomo forte, significa che devi rendere te stessa pi\u00f9 forte.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se pensate di aver bisogno di un uomo divertente, significa che dovete guardare pi\u00f9 commedie.<\/p>\n<p>Bring into your life what you need and want. Don\u2019t wait for it to come. It won\u2019t come as easily as you think.<\/p>\n<p>Your life won\u2019t be perfect when some perfect man becomes a part of it. <strong>Diventer\u00e0 perfetto quando deciderete di farlo.<\/strong> It\u2019s all up to you.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Una relazione non \u00e8 uguale alla felicit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91292\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands.jpg\" alt=\"donna che gesticola senza cantare con le mani\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-gesturing-no-sing-with-hands-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The same way a man won\u2019t bring perfection into your life, he won\u2019t bring you happiness either.<\/p>\n<p>Di nuovo, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/felicita-non-sentire-la-scelta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">it\u2019s up to you to make yourself happy<\/a> e costruire una vita felice.<\/p>\n<p>Scommetto che potete nominare almeno tre coppie infelici che conoscete. La felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 cos\u00ec rara. Ci vogliono due genitori per fare un figlio.<\/p>\n<p>Love and understanding are happiness\u2019 parents. If they\u2019re not a part of your relationship, then neither is happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t take your smile for granted. Don\u2019t be in a relationship for the sake of being in one.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi rende felici, vi ama e vi capisce completamente, allora potete stare con lui.<\/p>\n<p>But if he\u2019s not, then you don\u2019t need him. Relationships are usually very stressful and full of drama.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel you need drama in your life, you can always re-watch &#8216;Titanic&#8217;.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ci sono altre persone nella tua vita che meritano il tuo tempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91293\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici che si scattano un selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/group-of-friends-taking-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La relazione di coppia richiede molto tempo ed energia. Ci si concentra solo su una persona e ci si dimentica degli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Ma ci sono altre persone nella vostra vita che meritano attenzione.<\/p>\n<p>Il primo \u00e8 se stessi. Dovreste sempre trovare il tempo per lavorare su voi stessi. Fate un viaggio, imparate nuove cose e abilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Conoscere la propria mente e il suo funzionamento. Attivatevi. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-lessons-i-learned-while-i-was-single-that-saved-my-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Non si pu\u00f2 mai essere troppo istruiti<\/a> o troppo sano.<\/p>\n<p>Chi merita attenzione sono anche gli amici e la famiglia. Sono le persone pi\u00f9 importanti della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Sono al vostro fianco in ogni situazione. Portateli fuori a pranzo.<\/p>\n<p>See what\u2019s going on in their lives. Maybe you could help them with something.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Time is the only thing that you can\u2019t get back in your life, so spend&nbsp;it wisely<\/strong>. Spendeteli per le persone che ne valgono la pena.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste it on thinking that you need a man or, even worse, on a relationship with a wrong one.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Avete il tempo di conoscere voi stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91294\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente appoggiata al muro di fiori\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/smiling-woman-leaning-on-flower-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non solo meritate di investire un po' di tempo in voi stessi, ma dovete anche farlo.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete conoscervi come persona. Conoscere le vostre esigenze, i vostri desideri e le vostre aspettative.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t define what you want from life, how can life know what to give you?<\/p>\n<p>If there was a man in your life right now, you wouldn\u2019t have time for that because you\u2019d be focusing on getting to know him. <strong>Don\u2019t get to know anyone before you get to know yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se avete bisogno di aiuto per conoscere voi stessi, ecco alcune domande a cui rispondere:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What is the one word that describes you?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What is your dream job?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What do you truly believe in?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Who is your best friend?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Who is the person that taught you the most things in your life?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What makes you angry?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; What makes you smile?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; When was the last time you cried?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; How do you think other people see you?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Do you like the way you think and the way you\u2019re presenting yourself to others?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; If not, why don\u2019t you change it?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91288 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui non avete bisogno di un uomo \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of people think that they need someone in their life to feel complete. The truth is that the only person you need is yourself. You are the only human being you can not escape from. Others are welcome to stay if they contribute positive energy to your life. Those who make you feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":91289,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Don\u2019t-Need-A-Man.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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