{"id":20996,"date":"2020-07-19T13:01:05","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T13:01:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20996"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:00:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:00:34","slug":"la-persona-piu-difficile-da-lasciar-andare-e-quella-che-non-hai-mai-avuto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-persona-piu-difficile-da-lasciar-andare-e-quella-che-non-hai-mai-avuto\/","title":{"rendered":"La persona pi\u00f9 difficile da abbandonare \u00e8 quella che non si \u00e8 mai avuta"},"content":{"rendered":"

There was something but you aren’t really sure what to call it anymore. There was this skipped heartbeat and this slight touch of his face.<\/p>\n

Lo avete avuto per un momento, avete avuto un fidanzato, una relazione, un futuro e il sogno di qualcuno che vi fosse accanto in tutti quei momenti difficili.<\/p>\n

Se ci ripensate ora, avete mai avuto davvero tutte queste cose?<\/b> But why does it hurt this bad if you didn’t?<\/p>\n

You are torn apart from the inside out and you can’t even remember the last morning when you woke up without your chest screaming his name and begging for him to tornare nella vostra vita<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec difficile Lasciare andare qualcuno che non si \u00e8 mai avuto<\/a>perch\u00e9 non avete davvero qualcosa da lasciare andare.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have the memories and the feeling of his hands brushing your skin but how does a person erase their memories? Are you even able to move on if you didn’t have anywhere to go now that he’s out of your life?<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Pensavate di fare le cose con calma.<\/b> La vostra mente vi diceva che doveva avere il cuore spezzato dalla sua ultima relazione, vi diceva che l'amore lo spaventava e che aveva bisogno di tempo per capire cosa stava succedendo tra voi due.<\/p>\n

What is left right now is a picture of you two, frozen in a moment where you are wondering what the hell is going on between the two of you and if you’ll ever move on past that one picture frame.<\/p>\n

C'era cos\u00ec tanto potenziale in voi due!<\/b> Vi ha trattato con amore e cura, vi ha trattato come se non ci fosse nessuno al mondo che valesse pi\u00f9 di voi e vi ha trattato come se non ci fosse nessuno al mondo che valesse pi\u00f9 di voi. quello che \u00e8 successo \u00e8 stato cos\u00ec devastante<\/a> perch\u00e9 ora non avete pi\u00f9 nulla di tutto ci\u00f2.<\/p>\n

Instead, you go back in time, recalling those memories that are telling you that it isn’t over, trying to convince you that you are wrong for letting everything slip away.<\/p>\n

But it’s not you letting everything slip out of your hands! <\/b>Voleva che fosse cos\u00ec, voleva che tutto finisse cos\u00ec, senza chiudere, senza avere mai qualcosa di vero a cui aggrapparsi.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You never got to saving his number with a cute nickname that’s actually an inside joke.<\/p>\n

Non ha mai avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di presentarlo alla sua famiglia come ‘the one’<\/a> and you never got the chance to one day stand by his side while you make important decisions in life. It’s so devastating, so sad and so miserable.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter that it wasn’t real for him, it was for you. <\/b>Le sue intenzioni, fin dall'inizio, devono essere state pessime.<\/p>\n

Non ha mai voluto che voi due arrivaste al punto di dire quanto foste felici di stare insieme.<\/p>\n

Non ha mai voluto che vi svegliaste accanto a lui, vedendo il vostro futuro nei suoi occhi assonnati, non ha mai voluto amarvi per sempre. Voleva solo qualcosa di temporaneo.<\/p>\n

Anche se \u00e8 stato temporaneo, fa comunque male. <\/b>It hurts like hell and you aren’t even able to find a way to get past this stage of despair where you wake up in the morning, wishing that he was there with you.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Vi svegliate desiderando che vi accolga con un sorriso caloroso e volete vestirvi in modo elegante e uscire con lui.<\/p>\n

Rendersi conto che tutte quelle cose erano solo sogni \u00e8 come ricevere una pallottola dritta al cuore.<\/p>\n

Now you’re bleeding and you feel like it’s taking your breath away, because it’s hurting so much.<\/p>\n

I know that this pain is unbearable but believe me, it won’t last forever!<\/b> One day there will be no trace of this almost relationship left in your life and you will be grateful that you weren’t stuck in it for much longer, because it could have been going on for years without any trace of an ending.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, il vostro cuore si rafforzer\u00e0 e la prossima volta sarete in grado di vedere i primi segnali e di allontanarvi immediatamente.<\/p>\n

For now, give yourself time. Forgive yourself. Give yourself all the time you need to recover from what has happened and don’t beat yourself up about it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ora avete un posto libero nella vostra vita che pu\u00f2 essere occupato da qualcuno che vuole voi e solo voi!<\/b><\/p>\n

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