{"id":21022,"date":"2020-07-20T09:07:03","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T09:07:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21022"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:13:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:13:37","slug":"cose-il-duty-dating-e-perche-dovreste-provarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cose-il-duty-dating-e-perche-dovreste-provarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Che cos'\u00e8 il \"Duty Dating\" e perch\u00e9 dovreste provarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uscire per dovere significa sostanzialmente dire di s\u00ec a quasi tutti gli inviti che si ricevono. All'inizio sembra una follia, lo so, ma pu\u00f2 migliorare enormemente la vostra vita sentimentale e sociale.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 anche creare l'opportunit\u00e0 di trovare Mr. Right in un mare di torti.<\/p>\n<p>Duty dating is a term formed by Dr. Pat Allen, author of Getting to \u2018I Do\u2019 and she states that people engage in duty dating for various reasons.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe essere il loro modo di rimettersi in gioco dopo essere stati fuori dalla scena degli appuntamenti per un lungo periodo di tempo e stanno imparando a relazionarsi di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t even matter if you don\u2019t feel attraction to or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/15-powerful-signs-of-chemistry-between-two-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">chimica istantanea<\/a> with a person; what matters is that you go out with them three times and if your heart doesn\u2019t start beating more loudly, you can simply say your goodbyes.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Il punto principale \u00e8 dire di s\u00ec a un appuntamento anche se non c'\u00e8 chimica o connessione immediata.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che prende il caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-having-coffee12-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>To say, \u201cYes,\u201d even if you don\u2019t find somebody attractive or if he is not the type of guy you would usually go out with. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This doesn\u2019t mean you are settling for anything, it means that you are getting to know other people and in the process of doing that, you are getting to know yourself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>By dating multiple people at once, you are learning to differentiate between what you need and what you want and usually, it\u2019s not the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>Ti insegna che l'aspetto pu\u00f2 ingannare e che una persona che ti piace al primo appuntamento pu\u00f2 rivelarsi un perfetto idiota al terzo.<\/p>\n<p>But it can also prove that there is more to that other guy you didn\u2019t feel so attracted to the first time you saw him.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why three dates are mandatory before you decide whether you want to continue dating someone or stop seeing them.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Also, dating three people at the same time is a good idea too, so that you can see what\u2019s out there and not to move too fast with someone who hasn\u2019t said<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-motivi-per-cui-molti-uomini-soffrono-di-problemi-di-impegno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> se vuole impegnarsi con voi o meno<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"bella coppia giovane in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/beautiful-young-couple-in-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Con gli appuntamenti di servizio, si entra in contatto con le persone a livello emotivo, non fisico.<\/strong> Sex is not a good idea when duty dating and it shouldn\u2019t be a part of it.<\/p>\n<p>Non farebbe altro che creare confusione. Lasciate questo per la fine degli appuntamenti, quando sarete esclusivi con una sola persona.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gli appuntamenti di servizio dovrebbero essere divertenti.<\/strong> Non dovete caricarvi di grandi aspettative e di sapere se le cose stanno andando da qualche parte o meno.<\/p>\n<p>You are getting the practice you need to be less nervous about dating in general. If one date doesn\u2019t go as planned, you always have another one waiting around the corner.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Vale sicuramente la pena di fare un tentativo: non solo vi dar\u00e0 la pratica necessaria e vi rimetter\u00e0 in gioco, ma vi insegner\u00e0 anche molto.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Vi insegner\u00e0 a gestire meglio il rifiuto.<\/p>\n<p>When the tables are turned and you are the one deciding whether you are going to stay or leave, you will see that in most cases, it\u2019s nothing personal.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta in un caff\u00e8 che sorride e parla\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple-sitting-in-cafe-smiling-and-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t like everyone you meet, even if they are good and kind and perfect boyfriend material on paper. Something just won\u2019t add up and you will trust your instincts.<\/p>\n<p>You will realize that in the past, some of your relationships didn\u2019t work out because you were simply mismatched. It didn\u2019t have anything to do with you.<\/p>\n<p>Vi renderete conto di essere sempre stati pi\u00f9 che sufficienti, ma alcune persone non sono riuscite a vederlo in voi. La persona giusta lo far\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Un'altra buona ragione per provare gli appuntamenti di servizio \u00e8 che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/how-to-stop-obsessing-over-someone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">aiutarvi a non essere ossessionati<\/a> su una persona che vi piace gi\u00e0.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>They won\u2019t be your sole focus and you won\u2019t spend your days waiting for them to call or text.<\/p>\n<p>In questo modo manterrete aperte le vostre opzioni e avrete una prospettiva completamente nuova una volta tornati sulla scena degli appuntamenti. Quindi, perch\u00e9 non provarci?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Che cos&#039;\u00e8 il &quot;Duty Dating&quot; e perch\u00e9 dovreste provarlo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Duty dating basically means saying yes to almost every date invitation you get. Sounds crazy at first, I know, but it can improve your love life and social life tremendously. It can also create an opportunity for you to find Mr. Right in a sea of wrongs. Duty dating is a term formed by Dr&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":117972,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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