{"id":21079,"date":"2020-09-23T07:37:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T07:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21079"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:44:04","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:44:04","slug":"nella-mente-di-una-ragazza-che-pensa-di-non-poter-andare-avanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nella-mente-di-una-ragazza-che-pensa-di-non-poter-andare-avanti\/","title":{"rendered":"Dentro la mente di una ragazza che pensa di non poter andare avanti"},"content":{"rendered":"

C'\u00e8 una ragazza che conosco. Quando la si guarda, sembra una ragazza come tutte le altre, nella media.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si alza ogni mattina con il sorriso sulle labbra, va al lavoro e fa del suo meglio per essere il pi\u00f9 gentile possibile con tutti quelli che la circondano.<\/p>\n

Ha amici e una vita sociale. Esce e ha un ottimo rapporto con la sua famiglia. Le persone la amano e alcune la ammirano.<\/p>\n

Questo la ragazza sembra sempre felice<\/a> e ha sempre un grande sorriso sul viso. La gente ammira la sua forza e il modo in cui affronta ogni cosa nella vita.<\/p>\n

When they look at her, they assume that her life is perfect and that she doesn\u2019t have a single worry on her mind.<\/p>\n

Tutti intorno a lei pensano che sia la la ragazza pi\u00f9 forte <\/a> mai. Anche quando ha qualche inconveniente nella vita, lo gestisce con incredibile facilit\u00e0 e pazienza.<\/p>\n

Ma nessuno conosce la vera lei. Nessuno sa che non \u00e8 affatto come si comporta.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nessuno conosce le sue lotte e il dolore emotivo che nasconde dentro di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, tutti i suoi amici e la sua famiglia sanno che ha avuto una relazione seria. Sanno che esisteva un uomo che lei amava pi\u00f9 di se stessa.<\/p>\n

E sanno che quest'uomo l'ha abbandonata quando aveva pi\u00f9 bisogno di lui. Sanno che le ha causato molto dolore e che lei \u00e8 stata ferita.<\/p>\n

Ma si presume che quel periodo della sua vita sia passato da tempo. Si suppone che lei abbia lasciato questo ragazzo nel passato, al suo posto, e che lo abbia dimenticato da tempo.<\/p>\n

After all, she never mentions him to anyone. She doesn\u2019t look sad.<\/p>\n

When they wonder why she hadn\u2019t had a relazione seria <\/a> ever since the two of them broke up, they justify her by thinking that she hasn\u2019t found the right guy just yet. Besides, she works a lot and she always looks so busy\u2014maybe she doesn\u2019t have time for a relationship.<\/p>\n

E non hanno idea di quanto siano effettivamente sprovveduti.<\/p>\n

Non hanno idea del fatto che questa ragazza soffra di un dolore emotivo costante. Questo fatica ad alzarsi dal letto tutte le mattine<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, sono consapevoli che quest'uomo le ha fatto del male, ma non sanno fino a che punto.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know he changed her, although on the outside, she looks the same.<\/b><\/p>\n

They have no idea all of her smiles are fake and that she is constantly fighting not to cry. And she does it because she is embarrassed and because she is afraid she\u2019ll appear to be weak.<\/p>\n

But when she\u2019s alone, everything that this guy has done to her is the only thing she can think about.<\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know she cries herself to sleep almost every night.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that she breaks all over again whenever she sees someone looking like her ex or hears a voice similar to his.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that she doesn\u2019t mention him to anyone because she is scared that she would burst into tears the moment she saya his name out loud.<\/p>\n

But most importantly, they don\u2019t know she can\u2019t move on and that <\/b>andare avanti<\/b><\/a> is the scariest thing for her.  They don\u2019t know that living her life without this guy existing in the back of her head is the thing she wants the most. <\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that he is still blocking her somehow, although he is not present in her life. That this guy is the only reason she is still single.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

All think that she has moved on with her life a while ago, but actually, she hasn\u2019t moved a single inch.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 lei combatte. Combatte per dimostrare al mondo che pu\u00f2 vivere senza di lui e combatte per dimostrare a lui lo stesso. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto, combatte ogni giorno con se stessa e con i suoi sentimenti. <\/b><\/p>\n

She thinks she can\u2019t move on because she expects that every guy she meets next will be just like her ex. She is certain that the next guy will break the pieces of her already broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that fear paralyzes her. It cages her and she feels like she\u2019ll never free herself from all the pain and misery this man has put her through.<\/p>\n

The only truth is that she hasn\u2019t moved on and that she hasn\u2019t gotten over everything that she went through.<\/p>\n

Ma tiene tutto questo nascosto dentro di s\u00e9 perch\u00e9 sa che nessuno capirebbe la sua sofferenza e la sua debolezza.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente vi chiederete come faccio a sapere tutto questo. Beh, lasciate che vi dica una cosa: io sono questa ragazza.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t wish for any other woman to be me.<\/p>\n

\"Dentro<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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