{"id":21095,"date":"2018-07-23T10:34:04","date_gmt":"2018-07-23T10:34:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21095"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:12:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:12:19","slug":"ricordate-che-siete-voi-a-insegnare-alle-persone-come-trattarvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ricordate-che-siete-voi-a-insegnare-alle-persone-come-trattarvi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ricordate che siete voi a insegnare alle persone come trattarvi."},"content":{"rendered":"

Relationships are hard work. That is a statement everyone agrees on. We have to figure out how to function as a couple, how to find compromises, how to pick our words without insulting our partners. To handle these things gets very hard sometimes, especially if you’ve fallen in love with someone who doesn’t know how to handle their and your emotions well. They don’t know how to treat you. They don’t know <\/span>come rispettarvi<\/span><\/a> and at this point, relationships aren’t hard work anymore\u2014they have turned into a battlefield.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because of relationships like these, we have forgotten what we want. We have forgotten what we deserve. What happens here is that we settle for relationships that in the end, break us to the core because we weren’t able to tell someone how we wanted to be treated. That’s why we always have to keep in mind that no one else, but ourselves, has the power to teach someone how to treat us.<\/b><\/p>\n

Our wants, needs and emotions are different in every occasion. That’s why the way <\/span>I<\/span><\/i> want to be treated doesn’t have to correlate to the way <\/span>voi<\/span><\/i> vogliono essere trattati<\/span><\/a>. We are individuals who have been through too much. We have been hurt. We have been broken and maybe even abused to the point where we don’t even give ourselves permission to talk about how we want to be treated, but at the end of the day, if we want happy relationships, happy friendships, we have to teach them how to treat us right.<\/span><\/p>\n

Solo voi potete insegnare a qualcuno che amate il caff\u00e8 nero, che amate l'odore della pioggia e che a volte dovete lasciarvi soli per essere sicuri di avere un senso di individualit\u00e0 nella vostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siete gli unici a poter mostrare loro come combattere per voi. <\/b>A volte basta un battito di ciglia perch\u00e9 un uomo conquisti una donna. <\/span>Ma tu vuoi essere combattuto<\/span><\/a>! You want to be pursued! Show him that you won’t settle so easily. Show him that one blink, one look and one kind word isn’t enough to obtain your heart. You have gone through too much to fall for such lame tricks again, so teach him how to pursue you by showing him that those methods won’t work on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siete voi a insegnare loro come parlare con voi.<\/b> Everything that you do your partner will find to be normal and he’ll do it as well. If you yell and shout, he will do it as well, thinking that this is the way you want to have a conversation. But, sometimes, all you need is a kind word with a soft voice. Don’t let him think that he can talk to you with a raised voice, but don’t do it yourself either. S<\/span>come vuole comunicare<\/span><\/a> parlando nel modo in cui volete che vi si parli!<\/span><\/p>\n

Only you can show people that without the right treatment you won’t stick around too long. We get so caught up in our emotions and our dependency on other people that in the end, we continue to sit around and wait for them to change on their own, when instead, all we have to do is show them how easily we might leave. I know that leaving always hurts. I know that leaving someone isn’t easy. The thing here is that you won’t stick around if you see that you will be mistreated.<\/span><\/p>\n

With tears streaming down your face, walk away. Only you know all the ways you can teach someone how to treat you the way you want to be treated. Only you can make them see what your needs are. But also, it’s in their power to respect those needs or not. You are not obligated to spend your entire life next to someone, trying to make them learn the basics of human interaction. That is not your job.<\/b><\/p>\n

A broken heart hurts and it continues to make you bound to your bed, stuffing down ice cream. Why would you want to spend your days like this, in a relationship that is not giving you what you deserve, when you could be going out and having the time of your life? Don’t do this to yourself. Have some respect for the only person who knows how to treat you right \u2013 yourself! Once you break, walk away. Respect yourself enough to walk away.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Relationships are hard work. That is a statement everyone agrees on. We have to figure out how to function as a couple, how to find compromises, how to pick our words without insulting our partners. To handle these things gets very hard sometimes, especially if you’ve fallen in love with someone who doesn’t know how…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21096,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21095","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/kaitlin-shelby-114272-unsplash-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21095","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21095"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21095\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21096"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21095"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21095"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21095"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}