{"id":21111,"date":"2019-07-24T07:12:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T07:12:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21111"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:26","slug":"quando-ti-ritrovi-con-quelluomo-irraggiungibile-leggi-questo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-ti-ritrovi-con-quelluomo-irraggiungibile-leggi-questo\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando vi accorgete di essere presi da quell'unico uomo irraggiungibile, leggete qui"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se potessi sbirciare nella sua mente e vedere cosa sta pensando. Sta pensando a me? Conosce il colore dei miei occhi e il modo in cui le mie lentiggini formano una Via Lattea sul mio naso? Perch\u00e9 si sente cos\u00ec vicino in un momento e cos\u00ec distante in quello successivo? \u00c8 combattere i suoi sentimenti<\/a> o \u00e8 solo mi sta prendendo per i fondelli<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Milioni di domande devono scorrere senza sosta nella vostra mente quando vi ritrovate con un uomo irraggiungibile. Per voi, non c'\u00e8 nessun altro come lui al mondo. Nessuno pu\u00f2 risvegliare i vostri sentimenti e farvi sentire vive come lui.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

D'altra parte, nessuno \u00e8 in grado di farvi sentire gi\u00f9 come lui.<\/strong> Tears roll down your face every time you are alone, waiting for him to show up when he said he would…when you fall asleep without that text goodnight because he forgot to send it…when you are left for too long without his hugs.<\/p>\n

Misurate il tempo in base ai momenti trascorsi con e senza di lui. Quando sei con lui, il tempo vola e il tuo cuore batte cos\u00ec forte che lui pu\u00f2 sentirlo. Sembra sempre un sogno che finisce troppo presto. Ma quando \u00e8 lontano, i minuti sembrano ore, le ore giorni e i giorni un'eternit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

But he doesn’t have your sense of time. He doesn\u2019t mind that you are waiting for him. He doesn\u2019t know that he is hurting you\u2014or he does but he doesn\u2019t care. He is not rushing to see you. He doesn\u2019t make time for you and everything else seems to come first. Everything else is more important and it\u2019s killing you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vi cercher\u00e0 quando voi smetterete di cercarlo. Ti mander\u00e0 un messaggio quando vedr\u00e0 che il tuo messaggio non arriva. Vi chieder\u00e0 di uscire quando smetterete di chiedergli tempo. Verr\u00e0 a trovarvi quando inizierete a pensare che non si far\u00e0 pi\u00f9 vedere. Gli mancherai<\/a> quando non siete pi\u00f9 disponibili. Vi rincorrer\u00e0 non appena sentir\u00e0 che gli state sfuggendo dalle mani, ma non appena vi prender\u00e0, perder\u00e0 interesse.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow him to catch you if he has no intention to stay. Don\u2019t allow it if he has no strength to hold on tight. You don\u2019t need a part-time lover and half-assed commitments. You don\u2019t need a man who is going to be there only when it\u2019s convenient…only when he feels lonely and in need of a woman\u2019s touch. You deserve more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You deserve so much more than he is giving you and it\u2019s time you admit it to yourself. You deserve someone who will be able to commit, someone who will be sure about his feelings and show them in words or actions.<\/p>\n

His unattainability might have been interesting at first. But you always hoped that he would change. The crumbs he was serving you might have been enough at first, but they are not now. You want more now\u2014more of his time, efforts, investments and reciprocity.<\/p>\n

Smettete di pensare che state chiedendo troppo. State solo chiedendo di riavere quello che gi\u00e0 avete. dandogli<\/a>\u2014nothing more and nothing less. You can\u2019t be the only one who makes all the efforts. You can\u2019t be the one who always loves more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vi meritate molto di pi\u00f9. Avrete molto di pi\u00f9. Ma non con lui. Devi lasciarlo andare e trovare la tua felicit\u00e0 altrove. Comincia a trovarla dentro di te e un giorno arriver\u00e0 qualcuno degno di questo nome ad accrescere la tua felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay somewhere where you are not appreciated. Don\u2019t let him come in and out of your life like you are a stop along the way. Don\u2019t waste your time on someone who has one foot out of the door at all times. Break the spell he has on you and see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t chase someone unattainable. Guard your heart for the man who is going to be all in. The man who won\u2019t play games and be only partially involved. The man who will never make you feel like you are alone in all of this. The one you can trust. The one who is ready to be all that you need.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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If I could just peek into his mind and see what he is thinking. Is he thinking about me at all? Does he know the color of my eyes and the way in which my freckles form a Milky Way on my nose? Why does he feel so close at one moment and so distant…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blake-cheek-663682-unsplash.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21111"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21111\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}