{"id":21142,"date":"2020-07-25T06:34:05","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T06:34:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21142"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:34:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:34:16","slug":"una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-vuole-tornare-insieme-al-suo-ex-ragazzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-vuole-tornare-insieme-al-suo-ex-ragazzo\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza che vuole tornare con il suo ex fidanzato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Please, don\u2019t do that. You\u2019ve spent more than enough time on someone like him. He\u2019s not worth it, and you should\u2019ve realized that by now. If you get back together with someone who never respected your love, you\u2019ll lose <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/20-segnali-che-indicano-che-dovreste-amare-di-piu-voi-stessi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">il vostro rispetto per voi stessi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll give him a second chance to manipulate you and to break your heart.<\/strong> Don\u2019t trust him when he says he\u2019s changed. Change is something that takes a lot of time and effort.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who easily breaks another person\u2019s heart will need much more time to change. And above all, he needs to have the will to change.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 il tipo di persona che sarebbe disposta a cambiare mentalit\u00e0? Ne dubito. Una volta un rubacuori, sempre un rubacuori.<\/p>\n<p>E voi? <strong>Do you even care about yourself? Because if you do, you wouldn\u2019t be thinking about this now.<\/strong> Farete qualcosa che vi appaga e che vi d\u00e0 veramente beneficio.<\/p>\n<p>You would be taking care of yourself and having the time of your life now that you don\u2019t have anyone to tie you down. Not only that you\u2019re single, but you\u2019re truly free.<\/p>\n<p>Your soul is now free of any bad substance that his toxic love brought you. You should be proud of yourself because you survived. You survived something that could\u2019ve left you broken you for good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114422\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste nella natura\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t take you much to heal your heart and to be brand new again. Of course, that will happen when you stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>Un'altra cosa di cui bisogna essere consapevoli \u00e8 che<strong> someone who truly loves you wouldn\u2019t let anything bad happen to you, let alone do something bad to you himself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Was his love really true love? No, honey, it wasn\u2019t. And you\u2019re still thinking of him? He\u2019s not worth it. Someone who doesn\u2019t know what love is is definitely not worth your time.<\/p>\n<p>The one who is worth your time is the one who respects it. He respects your time, your love and your personality. Don\u2019t settle for less than that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c8 un dovere per te stesso rimanere single finch\u00e9 non troverai qualcuno che ti tratter\u00e0 nel modo in cui meriti di essere trattato.<\/strong> \u00c8 un dovere per voi stessi prendervi cura di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Let him go. Letting him go is part of your healing process and it\u2019s the only way you can move on with your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You might be lonely and hurting now, but that doesn\u2019t mean good things won\u2019t start happening tomorrow.<\/strong> <strong>Lo faranno, se davvero volete che si verifichino.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But if you want to be stuck with a guy like him, then good things will take time. You might be thinking how he\u2019s the only guy you love and the only one you will ever love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste e pensierosa seduta nella natura in autunno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-pensive-woman-sitting-in-nature-autumn-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sure, if your love for him was true, he will never be completely erased from your heart. But he will be forgotten some day. You won\u2019t be able to remember the way he made you feel when you meet someone who is ready to give you everything you need.<\/p>\n<p>Once you meet the love of your life, this guy you\u2019re thinking of right now will never cross your mind again. Maybe you\u2019re asking yourself if he\u2019s the love of your life.<\/p>\n<p>He might be. Seriously, it might be that he is, but you can\u2019t know that now. If he\u2019s the one you\u2019re meant to be with, your paths will cross again in the future.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not something you should worry about right now. Time will show you everything you need to know.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing you should do right now is find a way to relax. Spend some time with yourself and enjoy everything you didn\u2019t have a chance to do while you were with him. Live your life to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Questa \u00e8 l'occasione per un nuovo inizio, quindi \u00e8 meglio non sprecarla.<\/strong> It\u2019s time to enjoy everything you are and everything you have. It\u2019s time to focus on yourself and your own needs.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114420\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair.jpg\" alt=\"bella ragazza in natura capelli ventosi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/beautiful-girl-in-nature-windy-hair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Make yourself a priority and you\u2019ll see how much your life is going to change in a good way. <strong>Una volta che avrete guarito il vostro cuore e iniziato a immettere energia positiva nell'universo, quell'energia trover\u00e0 la strada per tornare a voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Good things happen to everyone. Sometimes they\u2019re so small that the majority of people choose not to see them. But if you give value to those little things, you\u2019ll know how to appreciate the big ones.<\/p>\n<p>Apprezzate tutto ci\u00f2 che entra nella vostra vita. <strong>Anche questa rottura \u00e8 una benedizione a modo suo.<\/strong> If there\u2019s one thing to learn out of this, it is to appreciate and love yourself.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ricordate-che-siete-voi-a-insegnare-alle-persone-come-trattarvi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ricordate: siete voi a insegnare alle persone come trattarvi<\/a>. Don\u2019t let anyone break your heart again. Love yourself in order to be loved by others. Those who see your true colors will love every shade of them.<\/p>\n<p>Show the world who you are and how strong you can be. It\u2019s your time to shine and his time to suffer when he realizes what kind of a woman he\u2019s lost.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114418\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Get-Back-Together-With-Her-Ex-Boyfriend-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lettera alla ragazza che vuole tornare con il suo ex fidanzato\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Please, don\u2019t do that. You\u2019ve spent more than enough time on someone like him. He\u2019s not worth it, and you should\u2019ve realized that by now. If you get back together with someone who never respected your love, you\u2019ll lose your self-respect. You\u2019ll give him a second chance to manipulate you and to break your heart&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":114417,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Wants-To-Get-Back-Together-With-Her-Ex-Boyfriend-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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