{"id":21214,"date":"2019-11-26T06:34:00","date_gmt":"2019-11-26T06:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21214"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:28:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:28:34","slug":"non-ha-bisogno-di-un-eroe-ha-solo-bisogno-di-qualcuno-che-la-ami","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ha-bisogno-di-un-eroe-ha-solo-bisogno-di-qualcuno-che-la-ami\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ha bisogno di un eroe. Ha solo bisogno di qualcuno che la ami."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don\u2019t have castles and fairies.<\/p>\n<p>That because we\u2019re not princesses.<\/p>\n<p>We are strong girls who don\u2019t need to be saved from anything. We are used to fighting for everything we want in life. And it\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>We never even asked to be saved. We like who we are and that\u2019s not going to change. We don\u2019t need a prince who\u2019s going to save us.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t need a hero. We are our own heroes. We just need to be loved.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/come-diventare-una-donna-alfa-una-guida-passo-dopo-passo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Essere una donna alfa<\/a> who has everything under control is not that easy. It\u2019s actually pretty exhausting. We need to rest from time to time.<\/p>\n<p>Without refueling, we couldn\u2019t function this well. But even when we\u2019re resting, our brains can\u2019t stop working.<\/p>\n<p>We constantly think of many things, such as reflecting on what we did in life or thinking about what to expect from it next. While imagining our future, it\u2019s really hard to imagine someone next to us.<\/p>\n<p>For some of us, it\u2019s even impossible. A lot of guys we meet are intimidated by our personalities.<\/p>\n<p>Vogliono semplicemente essere degli eroi per le loro fidanzate. Vogliono sentirsi come se fossero la soluzione a tutti i loro problemi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Beh, mi dispiace dirvelo, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che l'unica cosa di cui abbiamo bisogno \u00e8 l'amore.<\/strong> You see that we\u2019re not asking for much.<\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo solo bisogno di una bella spalla su cui piangere quando ci sentiamo sopraffatti da tutto. Abbiamo bisogno di qualcuno che ci prenda per mano e ci porti a mangiare una pizza.<\/p>\n<p>We need guys who are happy to have us in their lives. We just want to be looked at like we\u2019re masterpieces.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real\u2014that\u2019s every girl\u2019s dream.<\/p>\n<p>Truth to be told, we are really busy. We work on ourselves all the time, and we won\u2019t stop until we become what we truly want to be.<\/p>\n<p>Alcuni di noi vogliono diventare medici, altri magari aprire un negozio di fiori, altri ancora cercano semplicemente di essere pi\u00f9 felici nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what the goal is. If you\u2019re not ready to love your girlfriend and hold her hand through everything she\u2019s planning on doing, then you should take a step back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s ready to give you the support she expects from you.<\/strong> Ha bisogno che tu sia un vero uomo su cui poter contare.<\/p>\n<p>She needs someone who\u2019s going to laugh with her, cry with her, and take her places she\u2019s never been to.<\/p>\n<p>Ha bisogno di sentire quella scintilla d'amore di tanto in tanto. Ha bisogno di sentirsi viva.<\/p>\n<p>Even strong women are sometimes weak. Sometimes they get overwhelmed with everything and then forget why are they doing what they\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p>Quando la vostra ragazza arriva a questo punto, dovete sapere come comportarvi. Dovete abbracciarla e dirle che tutto andr\u00e0 bene.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s all she needs. Is she asking for too much? I don\u2019t think so. But sometimes it\u2019s hard for guys to give that to their girlfriends.<\/p>\n<p>All these women are asking for is to be loved, but their men would rather be their heroes and make some great gestures without any meaning\u2014not to mention that most of the guys would be the happiest if they got to play with girls\u2019 feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 nessuna donna al mondo che accetterebbe questo tipo di relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Il punto fondamentale \u00e8 che<strong> if you\u2019re not an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/11-modi-per-conquistare-il-cuore-del-maschio-alfa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">maschio alfa<\/a>, non hai niente a che fare con una donna alfa.<\/strong> Se non siete l'eroe di voi stessi, proprio come lo \u00e8 lei, allora potete dimenticarvi di lei.<\/p>\n<p>She will not settle for anything less than what she deserves. She\u2019s not going to be your mum; she can\u2019t take care of you like that.<\/p>\n<p>She will be your lover and your best friend only if you\u2019re willing to be hers.<\/p>\n<p>This combination will guarantee you a happy relationship. If she thinks you\u2019re not good enough for her, then you should respect her decision.<\/p>\n<p>Ma, se siete pronti ad amarla nel modo in cui ha bisogno di essere amata, allora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-motivi-per-cui-la-vita-di-relazione-sara-una-femmina-alfa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">preparatevi a vivere il momento pi\u00f9 bello della vostra vita con lei<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-57850\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER..jpg\" alt=\"NON HA BISOGNO DI UN EROE. HA SOLO BISOGNO DI QUALCUNO CHE LA AMI.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don\u2019t have castles and fairies. That because we\u2019re not princesses. We are strong girls who don\u2019t need to be saved&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21216,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/timothy.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21214"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21214\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21216"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}