{"id":21403,"date":"2018-07-31T11:01:33","date_gmt":"2018-07-31T11:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21403"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:58:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:58:47","slug":"5-cose-che-ogni-ragazza-che-e-stata-ferita-fa-per-proteggersi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-ogni-ragazza-che-e-stata-ferita-fa-per-proteggersi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose che ogni ragazza che \u00e8 stata ferita fa per proteggersi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni ragazza che \u00e8 stata ferita in passato in qualche modo porta con s\u00e9 il suo dolore e la sua rottura, non importa quanto tempo sia passato da quando ha avuto il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 paura di amare di nuovo<\/a> and she is scared that she\u2019ll be hurt again. That is why she does some things to protect herself from potential emotional pain, even though she is not often aware of doing them.<\/p>\n

1. \u00c8 attenta a scegliere chi le piace<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve been hurt in the past, you won\u2019t give your heart away to just anyone who walks into your life.<\/p>\n

Therefore, a girl who has been through a lot will never fall for someone that easily. Instead, she will always question her feelings and she won\u2019t give some guy a chance just like that. This girl won\u2019t go out on dates often because she knows better than to give her heart and attention to some random fuckboy who\u2019ll hurt her the same way her ex did.<\/p>\n

Questa ragazza sar\u00e0 attenta a tutto e prester\u00e0 particolare attenzione alla prima impressione lasciata da ogni ragazzo che la avvicina.<\/p>\n

You might think this is funny but she knows she can\u2019t control herself when she loves someone, so she\u2019ll do everything in her power to prevent that from happening.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn\u2019t let her heart guide her<\/span><\/h2>\n

Questa \u00e8 una ragazza che ha sempre seguito il suo cuore. E purtroppo questo le ha portato pi\u00f9 guai che cose belle.<\/p>\n

So she decided not to allow her heart to guide her anymore. Even if she feels butterflies for a guy, she will always let her reason decide what\u2019s best for her. She will think her every move through carefully before she acts on her feelings.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean she is heartless. It\u2019s just that this girl simply doesn\u2019t believe her heart anymore and she\u2019ll rarely put it in front of her reason, even when it comes to love matters, because she believes following her emotions is what got her heart broken in the first place.<\/p>\n

3. She doesn\u2019t show her feelings<\/span><\/h2>\n

When a girl who has been hurt in the past grows to love you or even if she starts falling in love with you, she won\u2019t show you this easily.
\nAnzi, probabilmente cercher\u00e0 di nascondere le sue vere emozioni anche a se stessa. Si tratta di una ragazza che ha deciso di rinunciare completamente all'amore e non \u00e8 pronta a perdere nuovamente il controllo su se stessa.<\/p>\n

So even when she starts noticing she has some feelings for a man, she\u2019ll try to run away from them or ignore them, thinking they\u2019ll go away.<\/p>\n

And if she finally accepts that she cares for a man again, she\u2019ll do everything in her power for the object of her affection not to notice it.<\/p>\n

Dovete capire che \u00e8 stata ferita ogni volta che ha abbassato la guardia e ogni volta che ha mostrato le sue vere emozioni e questo non \u00e8 qualcosa che vuole ripetere.<\/p>\n

4. She doesn\u2019t believe just anyone<\/span><\/h2>\n

When someone has been betrayed and disappointed by the person they\u2019ve shared their life with, it is natural for them to have serious abandonment and problemi di fiducia.<\/a><\/p>\n

Therefore, even when this girl meets a man who is worthy of her love and trust, she won\u2019t believe him at first. It will take a lot of time and patience from this man to convince her that he is not like her ex.<\/p>\n

Pensa semplicemente che tutti gli uomini siano uguali e che questo ragazzo le stia mentendo solo per poter entrare nelle sue mutande o per poterle fare del male pi\u00f9 facilmente.<\/p>\n

5. Mette se stessa al primo posto<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you meet a girl who has been through a lot in the past, at first glance she might appear to be too selfish. But trust me\u2014that is not the case.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che in passato ha dato il suo cuore e se stessa a molte persone sbagliate. E nessuna di queste persone ha apprezzato le cose che ha fatto per loro.
\nE nessuno di loro le dava la priorit\u00e0, anche se lei metteva sempre i loro bisogni davanti ai propri.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec decise che doveva mettere se stessa al primo posto, se voleva essere felice. Si rese conto che doveva iniziare a rispettare e ad amare se stessa, prima di poterlo pretendere da chiunque altro. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every girl who\u2019s been hurt in the past in some way carries her pain and brokenness with her, no matter how much time has passed since she had her heart broken. She is scared to love again and she is scared that she\u2019ll be hurt again. That is why she does some things to protect…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":21405,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21403","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/allef-vinicius-156194-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21403","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21403"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21403\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21405"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21403"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21403"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21403"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}