{"id":21425,"date":"2020-07-01T07:29:26","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T07:29:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21425"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:07:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:07:14","slug":"aveva-bisogno-di-qualcuno-su-cui-fare-affidamento-cosi-e-diventata-la-sua-stessa-roccia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/aveva-bisogno-di-qualcuno-su-cui-fare-affidamento-cosi-e-diventata-la-sua-stessa-roccia\/","title":{"rendered":"Aveva bisogno di qualcuno su cui contare, cos\u00ec \u00e8 diventata la sua stessa roccia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sapeva fin dall'inizio che \u00e8 e sar\u00e0 da sola. Sapeva che, per quanti amici avesse, avrebbe dovuto affrontare i suoi problemi da sola.<\/p>\r\n<p>She knew that those problems won\u2019t just go away. She just didn&#8217;t want to admit that to herself because she wasn\u2019t ready to act on it.<\/p>\r\n<p>She knew she couldn&#8217;t trust anyone because trust is almost always taken for granted.<\/p>\r\n<p>People break it so easily without looking back. She knew from a very young age that she\u2019ll have to rely only on herself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ha capito che le persone mentono e ingannano. Ha imparato che non tutti sono onesti e che non tutti si preoccupano del tuo interesse.<\/p>\r\n<p>She learned to understand that people care only for themselves and as long as they are happy, all\u2019s good.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She saw that hearts get broken and promises don\u2019t mean anything. She learned that she can only trust herself.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Ha imparato che deve proteggere il suo cuore, soprattutto dalle persone che significano di pi\u00f9 per lei, perch\u00e9 sono quelle che possono ferirti di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s how she fell out of love with love. Yes, with love. She didn\u2019t trust it anymore because all she has ever got was heartache and a ton of spilled tears.<\/p>\r\n<p>Every time she trusted someone and leaned on them, she would fall. Every time she closed her eyes and let herself be at someone\u2019s mercy, she would cry all by herself later.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She learned that life isn\u2019t fair. She learned that destiny can crap all over you with no remorse.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Non si \u00e8 mai arresa. Nonostante le difficolt\u00e0, non ha mai smesso di provarci.<\/p>\r\n<p>Everytime she found another solution, she hit the wall. She had no way out. She couldn\u2019t escape her life because all the doors to the exit were sealed.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ha imparato che tutti vengono usati. Ha imparato che le persone che dovrebbero interessarsi a te raramente lo fanno.<\/p>\r\n<p>She learned that people get walked over by others, even though they didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\r\n<p>She is a proud girl. She is strong and she never asked for help because she thought others didn\u2019t care for her problems.<\/p>\r\n<p>She knew that everyone has something that bugs them and she thought it wasn\u2019t right to lay all of her burdens on someone else.<\/p>\r\n<p>She found herself alone in this big world. She received blows every day, but she didn\u2019t fall, and she didn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quando la sua vita and\u00f2 completamente in pezzi, and\u00f2 a fare una passeggiata e si sedette in un luogo solitario dove nessuno poteva vederla. Ingoi\u00f2 le lacrime e mise a tacere le urla che sentiva dentro di s\u00e9.<\/p>\r\n<p>She didn&#8217;t want anyone to see or hear them.<\/p>\r\n<p>Even though, at that point, she didn\u2019t have anything to live for, she didn\u2019t want to give up. She found every ounce of strength left in her and she put it together.<\/p>\r\n<p>She didn\u2019t want to be destroyed.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma, con tutta la sua forza, desiderava che qualcuno venisse a salvarla. Desiderava che qualcuno la ascoltasse, che si prendesse cura di lei.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Cos\u00ec ha trovato quel qualcuno. Era lei stessa.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>She was sick of depending on others. It\u2019s only too bad that it took her so long to understand that the only hero she needs in her life is herself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Non ci saranno pi\u00f9 promesse non mantenute, non ci saranno pi\u00f9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-segnali-di-problemi-di-fiducia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">problemi di fiducia<\/a> e non pi\u00f9 delusioni da parte di chi meno te lo aspetti.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ha preso in mano la sua vita ed \u00e8 diventata la sua eroina. \u00c8 diventata la persona su cui pu\u00f2 contare di pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>She stopped serving others and taking everything in. She stopped being someone else\u2019s punching bag just because life works that way, and you have to shut up and take it.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, she won\u2019t take it, and she won\u2019t keep her mouth shut. She is now in complete control of herself. It\u2019s her against the rough world she lives in.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s her time to put a stop to everything bad that\u2019s happening to her. Because she can. Because she wants to.<\/p>\r\n<p>She will never again settle for something she doesn\u2019t deserve just because it has to happen. It doesn\u2019t, and she has the power to change whatever she doesn\u2019t like.<\/p>\r\n<p>She no longer let\u2019s destiny define her life. She never liked that and now she has changed for the better.<\/p>\r\n<p>Non ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di proteggere il suo fragile cuore. Non ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di mettere la guardia.<\/p>\r\n<p>Il suo cuore non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 sensibile e morbido. Il suo cuore \u00e8 diventato tosto come lei. Non ha pi\u00f9 paura di nulla perch\u00e9 \u00e8 una combattente, pronta ad affrontare ogni prossima battaglia che la attende.<\/p>\r\n<p>Lei \u00e8 la sua persona, la sua eroina, la sua persona su cui contare e di cui fidarsi. Lo ha deciso lei e lo ha reso vero.<\/p>\r\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-101179\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She knew from the beginning that she is and will be by herself. She knew that no matter how many friends she has, she will have to deal with her problems alone. She knew that those problems won\u2019t just go away. She just didn&#8217;t want to admit that to herself because she wasn\u2019t ready to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":21426,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/allison-heine-759753-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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