{"id":21520,"date":"2019-08-02T11:32:15","date_gmt":"2019-08-02T11:32:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21520"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:29:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:29:11","slug":"leggete-questo-se-la-vostra-quasi-relazione-vi-ha-reso-incapaci-di-amare-di-nuovo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-se-la-vostra-quasi-relazione-vi-ha-reso-incapaci-di-amare-di-nuovo\/","title":{"rendered":"Leggi questo articolo se la tua quasi relazione ti ha reso incapace di amare di nuovo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 stato facile tornare da lui. Era come un fatto naturale. Mi rendeva la vita un inferno. Poi lo perdonavo e, prima di rendermene conto, eravamo di nuovo al punto di partenza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi \u00e8 sembrato naturale tornare da lui, visto che non avevo nessun altro a cui guardare. Era tutto ci\u00f2 che conoscevo e ho perso la capacit\u00e0 di vedere che l\u00e0 fuori ci sono altri uomini che mi tratterebbero come merito. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho perso la capacit\u00e0 di vedere me stessa e quanto fossi infelice in tutto questo. Ogni volta che tornavo tra le sue braccia mi faceva dimenticare tutto quello che non andava tra noi. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Non sono la vittima. Non mi sto giustificando. Sono rimasta in qualcosa quasi perch\u00e9 ero troppo<\/span> paura di essere soli<\/span><\/a>\u2014even though that almost made me lonelier than I have ever been. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was forcing something to work, even though it wasn\u2019t right for me. It was all messy with a lot of back and forths. And before I knew it, my subconscious was telling me that there is nothing better out there for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s incredible how something that doesn\u2019t seem so harmful like an almost relationship can do so much damage. It makes you lose your pride because you continuously forgive the unforgivable. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It makes you lose your sense of self and your confidence because you keep going back to someone who doesn\u2019t see you<\/i><\/b>\u2014n<\/b>o il vero voi. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

All he is interested in is your naked body and all the good you can do for him. He doesn\u2019t care how your day went. He doesn\u2019t know your dreams or hidden desires. He certainly has no idea about your problems. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is clueless about the fact that you couldn\u2019t sleep last night because he didn\u2019t text you back the entire day. He doesn\u2019t want to see that you love him so much that you put his needs before your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t mind that you worry about his troubles and that you are trying to make it easier on him. All he does is take your efforts for granted and play with your heart like it\u2019s not his business. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t know and it doesn\u2019t affect him in any way that he has made you think that you are unable to love again; that he has taken all your love and energy with him that day he chose to walk away for good.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Now, you are tired because the almost relationship exhausted you. It led you on this emotional roller coaster trip you weren’t prepared for. <\/span><\/p>\n

Rendeva ogni giorno o ogni settimana diversi. Uno sarebbe stato pieno di lacrime e l'altro di risate, a seconda della sua volont\u00e0 di entrare e uscire dalla vostra vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma quello che non riuscite a vedere \u00e8 che la fine di una quasi relazione<\/a> \u00e8 la cosa migliore che potesse capitarvi. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You can finally rest and recover all the energy it has taken from you. You don\u2019t have to wait around for him to call or text back. You don\u2019t have to ask for his time. You don\u2019t have to wait until he is ready to be in something more committed.  <\/span><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have to burden yourself with his problems. You will concentrate on you, on mending your heart and making your life better. You will learn to love yourself again. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are done waiting for anybody or anything, and it\u2019s the most liberating feeling ever. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

An almost relationship won\u2019t be something that\u2019s holding you away from love. It will be the exact thing that will help you recognize real love when it comes your way. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Saprete come non dovrebbe essere l'amore. Conoscerete the things that you won\u2019t settle for<\/a> o trascurati. Saprete che ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno e che volete in un uomo non \u00e8 affatto come quello che avete gi\u00e0 avuto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tornerete ad amare qualcuno con tutto il cuore e pi\u00f9 di quanto avreste mai creduto possibile. <\/span>You will know it\u2019s real<\/span><\/a> perch\u00e9 sarete ricambiati. <\/span><\/p>\n

La relazione che stavate vivendo non sar\u00e0 altro che un lontano ricordo e la migliore lezione di vita che avreste potuto ricevere.<\/p>\n

\"LEGGETE<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It was easy going back to him. It was like a natural occurrence. He would make my life a living hell. Then, I would forgive him, and before I knew it, we were right back at the start. It seemed natural to go back to him since I had nobody else to look forward to….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21521,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/vidar-nordli-mathisen-558121-unsplash-1.jpg",800,603,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21520"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21520\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}