{"id":21631,"date":"2020-07-07T08:04:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-07T08:04:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21631"},"modified":"2022-08-12T07:44:37","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T07:44:37","slug":"7-enormi-segnali-di-allarme-mascherati-da-cose-carine-che-lui-fa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-enormi-segnali-di-allarme-mascherati-da-cose-carine-che-lui-fa\/","title":{"rendered":"7 enormi segnali di allarme mascherati da cose \"carine\" che lui fa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avere un fidanzato che \u00e8 sempre l\u00ec per te, che \u00e8 sempre presente nella tua vita, che si interessa a ci\u00f2 che fai, \u00e8 praticamente come colpire il jackpot<\/a> in una relazione, giusto?<\/p>\n

Wrong! It\u2019s not always as beautiful and innocent as it sounds. Did you ever stop and think that your boyfriend, instead of being caring and honest, is actually a controlling and manipulative bastard?<\/p>\n

He spends a lot of time with you but not because he can\u2019t be without you for that long but because he can\u2019t stand letting you go anywhere by yourself. It\u2019s because he\u2019s jealous and he doesn\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n

Often, women see this but they don’t want to admit it. They keep lying to themselves and I don\u2019t blame them, because they seek that real, true love.<\/p>\n

They want to seal the deal and live their life as they\u2019ve dreamed it.<\/p>\n

Pay attention to those \u2018cute\u2019 things they do for you because sometimes they turn out to be anything but that. Don\u2019t lie to yourself because that D-bag doesn\u2019t deserve your love anyway.<\/p>\n

What are the red flags they disguise as \u2018cute\u2019?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Ti manda continuamente messaggi<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Cute? Hell no! In the beginning, you think he\u2019s being super adorable and careful. He shows interest in you and he wants to know what you\u2019re up to.<\/p>\n

But this can easily turn out to be a huge red flag. This attention can grow into something really unhealthy. The truth is, he is probably just trying to control you and see what you\u2019re doing and with whom.<\/p>\n

Also, the people you\u2019re surrounded with will call you less and less as time goes by because they don\u2019t want to spend their time with someone who can\u2019t take their eyes off their phone. And your boyfriend won\u2019t leave you any other choice than to stare at the screen.<\/p>\n

2. Finge di sapere come vi sentite quando avete un problema.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Non \u00e8 sinceramente preoccupato per te. Te lo dice solo per liberarsi di te.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll pretend he knows how you\u2019re feeling because he doesn’t want you to bother him with your problems.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to live with someone faking concern, you want to live with someone who\u2019ll really hear you out and try to help you work on your issues, for real.<\/p>\n

3. \u00c8 sempre in relazione<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Usually, people think that only those who are single all the time have some kind of a problem. Actually, it\u2019s the other way around.<\/p>\n

Those who are single know what they want and they don’t want to end up in a relationship just to be in one, just to avoid loneliness.<\/p>\n

Ma coloro che hanno sempre una relazione sono un potenziale segnale di allarme. Probabilmente queste persone hanno paura di stare da sole e sopportano praticamente tutto pur di avere compagnia.<\/p>\n

Di solito queste persone non sono oneste con voi. Fingono di amare le stesse cose che amate voi.<\/p>\n

Fanno finta di essere come voi. In pratica, mentono in continuazione solo per tenervi nella loro vita.<\/p>\n

Correlato: 35 bandiere rosse dei social media nelle relazioni di coppia da cui stare attenti<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

4. He compares you to other women in a \u2018good way\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Pensate che sia carino e adorabile. Pensate che lui veda solo voi e nessun altro. Ma c'\u00e8 un altro lato di questa storia.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe trattarsi di psicologia inversa. Potrebbe facilmente dirle questo per farle inconsciamente pressione.<\/p>\n

Because if you loosen up and relax, if you gain a few pounds, you\u2019ll always remember the time when he told you that you\u2019re the prettiest one.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not telling you that now. Why? Because he\u2019s obviously bothered by the way you look or because of the fact that you\u2019ve gained a few pounds.<\/p>\n

5. Sceglie voi al posto dei suoi amici<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Friends are for life. Even when you\u2019re in a relationship, you should never give up on your friends.<\/p>\n

Certo, ci sono momenti in cui la vostra relazione \u00e8 una priorit\u00e0<\/a> but if your partner chooses to be with you every time over his friends, it\u2019s a red flag.<\/p>\n

Imagine if you want to hang out with your friends for a while. He\u2019s not going to be happy about it and he will guilt you into staying at home with him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that he blows his friends off all the time for you, so why can\u2019t you do it at least once. You see? This is only another method of manipulation.<\/p>\n

6. Parla sempre delle sue ex<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s great if you’re able to talk to your boyfriend about both of your past relationships but there is no need to go over every single detail.<\/p>\n

Well, he seems passionate while he\u2019s telling you about his adventures. You can think, okay, he\u2019s so cute because after all this time, he still remembers some things that happened.<\/p>\n

But did you ever stop to think that maybe this is a red flag? Maybe he isn\u2019t over his ex yet. Maybe you\u2019re just a rebound or a piano di backup<\/a> finch\u00e9 non trover\u00e0 qualcosa di meglio.<\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s jealous of other people in your life<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You know that jealousy is completely normal and a natural thing. When someone cares about you, he won\u2019t be indifferent if you talk to some random guy you\u2019ve met on the street. He\u2019ll get a bit protective.<\/p>\n

Ma se questo accade di continuo, pu\u00f2 diventare seriamente pericoloso. Questa piccola e innocente gelosia pu\u00f2 trasformarsi in possessivit\u00e0 e bisogno.<\/p>\n

You can easily find yourself in situations where you won\u2019t be able to go out with your friends without him because of his jealousy.\"7<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Having a boyfriend who is always there for you, who is always present in your life, who takes interest in what you do, is pretty much like hitting the jackpot in a relationship, right? Wrong! It\u2019s not always as beautiful and innocent as it sounds. Did you ever stop and think that your boyfriend, instead…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/alex-jones-8205-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21631\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}