{"id":21640,"date":"2018-08-07T08:22:34","date_gmt":"2018-08-07T08:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21640"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:51:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:51:11","slug":"perche-devi-essere-una-ragazza-a-cui-semplicemente-non-importa-un-fk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-devi-essere-una-ragazza-a-cui-semplicemente-non-importa-un-fk\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 devi essere una ragazza che semplicemente non se ne frega niente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siate egoisti. Sul serio. Siate egoisti. Da quando va bene ignorare completamente la propria vita e i propri bisogni per far sentire meglio qualcun altro? E voi? Che ne \u00e8 della vostra vita? La vostra vita conta?<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can\u2019t turn back time and if you don\u2019t take care of yourself, one day you’ll be sorry. One day you\u2019ll regret putting yourself last.<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on your goals and your dreams because if you don\u2019t try to make yourself happy, no one else will do it for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

So chi sei perch\u00e9 io sono te.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Siete la sola e unica spalla su cui gli altri possono piangere. Quando i tuoi amici si sentono <\/span>di merda<\/span><\/a>, they go to you because they know you\u2019ll make them feel better. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll tell them to put themselves first, to love themselves and do what makes them happy. But are you doing the same thing for yourself?<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me tell you the answer: You\u2019re not. When someone else is hurting, you know just the right thing to say but in the meantime, you don\u2019t even see that you\u2019re going through the same thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ignorate completamente il vostro dolore. \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even see that you are unhappy, that you put everyone else before you. Your dreams and your goals decay because you\u2019re too busy saving other people\u2019s lives. Just stop it!<\/span><\/p>\n

Seguite il vostro stesso consiglio e vivete la vostra vita al massimo!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Cambiate tutta la vostra vita, se necessario. Ricominciare tutto da capo. <\/span><\/p>\n

So che \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile a dirsi che a farsi, ma se volete che le cose migliorino, non avete altra scelta. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can pretend that you\u2019re happy and keep living the way you live but you\u2019ll reach your <\/span>punto di rottura<\/span><\/a> and you\u2019ll want to start all over. The thing is, it may happen too late. Maybe then you won\u2019t be able to do anything about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, fatelo subito!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Trasferitevi in un'altra citt\u00e0 se volete. Se vi alzate ogni mattina con una brutta sensazione allo stomaco perch\u00e9 dovete andare a un lavoro che odiate, cambiate carriera. Trovate qualcosa che vi faccia sentire meglio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a thought: If it\u2019s possible, do it. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry about other people. Don\u2019t worry about what they are going to say to you or how they are going to react. Think of your new decisions as a means of understanding who actually gives a damn about you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see; people who really care for you, people who love you, will support you. They will try to make your path easier and they won\u2019t judge you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Coloro che vi voltano le spalle sono quelli che assorbono la maggior parte delle vostre energie. Sono vampiri emotivi, persone che si nutrono di voi per sentirsi meglio.<\/b><\/p>\n

Life is not easy and this is the cheesiest sentence ever but it\u2019s true: You never know where it\u2019s going to take you. You never know what you are going to live through. <\/span><\/p>\n

All the roads you have taken, you chose to take for a reason. All the wrong choices you\u2019ve made led you to maturity and realization. Not giving a fuck is just one of the things you have to do.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Bisogna imparare dai propri errori e lavorare su se stessi. Dovete imparare a <\/span>amare se stessi <\/span><\/a>perch\u00e9 nessuno \u00e8 pi\u00f9 importante di voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared of the people who judge. They will always have a reason to say something, no matter what you do. Even if you give it everything you\u2019ve got, they will find a reason to say something bad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hang out with whomever you want to hang out with. Do whatever you want to do, even if you know it\u2019s wrong. You have to do it to make sure you won\u2019t do it ever again. Blow off some steam and never hold anything inside. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you do, it will explode eventually. You won\u2019t be able to hold it in any longer, and then you\u2019ll be screwed. Then you\u2019ll realize that every time you wanted to do something and you didn\u2019t, that was a time you destroyed yourself a little bit more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Indossate quello che volete e tenete la testa alta. Camminate per la strada come se fosse vostra, perch\u00e9 se lo voleste, potreste farlo. Nessuno pu\u00f2 farvi del male e lo sapete. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mostra il tuo rispetto per te stesso e risplendi di fiducia. Smettete semplicemente di fregarvene.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not supposed to live life unnoticed. You were born one of a kind, unique. Live your life that way. Don\u2019t let that beautiful interior of yours perish. Don\u2019t let it go unnoticed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Risplendete al massimo delle vostre possibilit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 avete solo questa occasione per farlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Oggi.<\/p>\n

Ora.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Be selfish. Seriously. Be selfish. Since when is it okay to completely ignore your life and your needs to make someone else feel better? What about you? What about your life? Does your life count? You\u2019re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can\u2019t turn back time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":21641,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/daryn-stumbaugh-433249-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21640"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21640\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}