{"id":2169,"date":"2020-04-05T09:29:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T09:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2169"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:08:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:08:01","slug":"comprendere-e-amare-una-persona-con-una-personalita-riservata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/comprendere-e-amare-una-persona-con-una-personalita-riservata\/","title":{"rendered":"Capire e amare una persona con una personalit\u00e0 riservata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La prima domanda che vi ponete quando vi imbattete in una persona con una personalit\u00e0 riservata potrebbe essere: \"Cosa c'\u00e8 di sbagliato in questa persona?\".<\/p>\n<p>May I share a little secret with you? There is nothing wrong with guarded people. It\u2019s just that their past has made them that way.<\/p>\n<p>Non sono diversi da voi e da me, solo che nascondono un cuore protetto che ha paura di essere ferito ancora una volta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Una persona con una personalit\u00e0 guardinga potrebbe essere a disagio nel mostrare affetto a voi o a chiunque altro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that (s)he doesn\u2019t really feel like hugging you nor being too close.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si abbraccia una persona, si promette intenzionalmente conforto e forse amicizia, e una persona guardinga ne \u00e8 consapevole.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87076\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta in un abbraccio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It might be the case that (s)he refuses to bond with you in such a way because she\u2019s running away from any close affection.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Inoltre, le persone considerate solitarie potrebbero essere solo persone con una personalit\u00e0 riservata.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vedete, sono selettivamente socievoli, possono frequentarvi, ma solo finch\u00e9 si sentono a loro agio con voi. Hanno bisogno di fidarsi di voi per aprirsi con voi.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is they don\u2019t really like to waste their energy nor time on people who don\u2019t matter that much to them.<\/p>\n<p>Scelgono i loro amici con saggezza e potrebbero essere percepiti come solitari sociali.<\/p>\n<p>Un po' paradossale, lo so.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that they are social, but only when they choose to be so.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, that is why they don&#8217;t have a big group of friends, but those who&#8217;ve earned a place in their lives are the best friends a person could wish for.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/yoganonymous.com\/the-secret-to-connecting-with-guarded-people\" rel=\"noopener\">Persone con una personalit\u00e0 riservata<\/a> sono spesso misteriosi, ma non intenzionalmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87078\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria in posa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t like sharing their privacy with anybody, and they rarely invite you into their worlds.<\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 una certa zona che non si pu\u00f2 mai oltrepassare perch\u00e9 a loro piace schermarsi.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, they don\u2019t want you to be interested in their lives; it\u2019s not the reason they behave the way they behave.<\/p>\n<p>You get as much cake as they let you. You\u2019ll probably have a rough time finding any info about them on social media, and don\u2019t even try bugging their friends to ask for any info.<\/p>\n<p>You will be denied it. Their personal information is theirs to keep. If you want to get close to them, you&#8217;ll have to earn it.<\/p>\n<p>Your only opportunity to know what\u2019s going on in their world will be when, and if, they decide to let you in.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il pi\u00f9 delle volte hanno paura delle proprie emozioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They perceive the world in a bit of a different way. They have incredibly intense emotions and often so many questions in their head that they\u2019re afraid of showing to others.<\/p>\n<p>Their trust has been tampered with, and they have been hurt. That&#8217;s the reason for the extra layer of protection around them.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It\u2019s like a small universe inside their heads.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87080\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna in piedi nel cappotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It even gets worse when they hide their feelings and stop them from getting out. Once their emotions find a way to come to light, it\u2019s like a volcanic eruption, and you\u2019ll probably get surprised by it.<\/p>\n<p>That will be the first time you\u2019ll see that human being acting strange and seemingly &#8216;out of order&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Le persone protette si sentono a proprio agio da sole.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the main reason you can\u2019t buy them with promises or sweet talk. They\u2019ve seen that one too many times in their lives, and it has always ended up in heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>What you can do is show in your actions all those things you\u2019ve promised, and you might even get a chance to be welcomed into their mysterious world.<\/p>\n<p>A causa dell'esperienza precedente con altre persone, i sorvegliati sono in grado di leggere facilmente le vostre intenzioni.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se avete in mente qualcosa di subdolo, \u00e8 meglio che ve ne andiate.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie al fallimento delle loro relazioni passate, sono addestrati a riconoscere le nuove relazioni sentimentali potenzialmente pericolose.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pointless to even try to sneak your way into their lives.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Questo tipo di personalit\u00e0 ha per\u00f2 un grosso problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87082\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata e pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t instantly see your good intentions, only the bad ones. Even if they notice your good emotions instantly, it\u2019s highly unlikely they\u2019ll react to them.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that the dose of distrust is always boiling in them, and it takes time for them to get used to other people. This is the personality trait that <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">descrive <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">introversi<\/span> all'osso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sono cos\u00ec perch\u00e9 sanno che non tutti hanno buone intenzioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned this a couple of times so far, but it&#8217;s the essential personality trait that makes them so unique and interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Prima di iniziare una nuova relazione, valutano cosa potrebbe accadere se aprissero il loro cuore a un perfetto sconosciuto.<\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;ve already said, first they will assume only the bad things and who are you to blame them?<\/p>\n<p>What they&#8217;re assuming about people, in general, is not that far from the truth. Some people are indeed out to get you.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s because they are jealous of you, or they simply don&#8217;t like you\u2014it doesn&#8217;t matter. Their goal is to hurt you in any way they know how.<\/p>\n<p>A guarded person is one step ahead of those people because they&#8217;ve already been through this unpleasant experience.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, this explains them being extra cautious and acting all &#8216;weird&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87084\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna in posa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quello che tutti non capiscono \u00e8 che le persone guardinghe non nascono cos\u00ec.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sono la conseguenza stessa del loro passato e di tutto ci\u00f2 che hanno passato.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a long process of betrayal and disappointment in others that has brought them to the spot they are to be found in today.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, they still have love for others. They are funny and extremely sociable, but only if you\u2019re worthy.<\/p>\n<p>If they get to know you and decide not to welcome you into their lives, it\u2019s because they see you for who you truly are.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, se siete tra i fortunati che vengono accolti nel loro mondo, avete l'opportunit\u00e0 di significare il mondo per loro, ma solo se lo meritate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ci\u00f2 che non sar\u00e0 mai perdonato \u00e8 il vostro tradimento nei loro confronti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you get to that spot of trust with them, then you\u2019re among the few privileged ones, and you shouldn\u2019t take advantage of it.<\/p>\n<p>Your kindness is more than welcomed, but don\u2019t push it. Let things fall into their places and be the backbone to a guarded person.<\/p>\n<p>Only then, you\u2019ll truly gain a companion for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Capire e amare una persona con una personalit\u00e0 riservata \" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your first question when you stumble onto somebody who has a guarded personality might be: \u201cWhat is wrong with this person?\u201d. May I share a little secret with you? There is nothing wrong with guarded people. It\u2019s just that their past has made them that way. They are not any different from you and me,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":87087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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