{"id":21712,"date":"2020-06-08T09:54:41","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T09:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21712"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:46","slug":"7-segni-che-ti-sta-usando-solo-per-dimenticare-la-sua-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-che-ti-sta-usando-solo-per-dimenticare-la-sua-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni che ti sta solo usando per dimenticare la sua ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, we can&#8217;t just shake off someone who was in our life and who meant so much to us as an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>But when you get back on the dating scene, it&#8217;s expected for you to at least have gotten over your ex just enough that it won&#8217;t affect your future relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Many men and women out there don&#8217;t even know when the right time is to start a new relationship, so they just jump from one to another.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 la cosa pi\u00f9 malsana che possiate fare per la vostra relazione, perch\u00e9 in questo modo vi portate dietro tutto quel bagaglio inutile e alla fine finite per ferire qualcuno nel modo in cui eravate. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/una-lettera-alla-ragazza-che-vuole-tornare-insieme-al-suo-ex-ragazzo\/\">ferito dal suo ex.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re in a relationship and things seem to be just a little bit off, there could be a possibility that he is just using you to get over his ex.<\/p>\n<p>So, in order to find out if that is truly the case, let&#8217;s go through these 7 signs that say he is still trying to forget about his ex:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mandano messaggi frequenti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza curiosa che spia l&#039;amico con lo smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non solo ha conservato tutti i messaggi di lei sul suo telefono ma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/if-he-does-these-8-things-dont-even-bother-to-text-him-back\/\">lo vedi mandare un messaggio<\/a> con lei molto spesso.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you two are out on a date he tells you that he just has to read this message &#8216;really quick&#8217; and then tells you how hilarious that joke she told him was.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 ancora molto vicino ai suoi amici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94299\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"amici che si divertono seduti in un caff\u00e8 di strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando ci si lascia con qualcuno, di solito ci si disinteressa di tutta la sua famiglia e dei suoi amici, ma per qualche motivo questo tizio continua a frequentare il fratello di lei e tutti i loro amici comuni.<\/p>\n<p>Lui dice che non ha intenzione di dividere un'amicizia cos\u00ec bella e, anche se lei continua a frequentarli, le dice che non ha nulla di cui preoccuparsi.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, sorella, hai tante cose di cui preoccuparti.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t seem to make any plans for your future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94300\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti sul molo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando gli chiedete di parlare di un futuro insieme, vi risponde che dovreste preoccuparvi del presente e non del futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se questo \u00e8 sicuramente un modo carino di vivere, devi fare almeno dei piani, come ad esempio, ha intenzione di rimanere per un periodo di tempo pi\u00f9 lungo o \u00e8 solo un visitatore della tua vita e se ne andr\u00e0 entro la mattina?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi paragona spesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94301\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"Donna confusa che guarda un uomo in un caff\u00e8 di strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you do something sweet for him he goes, \u201cYou see, my ex did the same thing once,\u201d or, \u201cMy ex did it this way\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No matter how hard you try, he is constantly comparing you to his ex. Every little thing reminds him of her and it&#8217;s so freaking creepy.<\/p>\n<p>La nomina almeno durante il sesso? Perch\u00e9 potrebbe succedere.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> \u00c8 la prima a sentire la notizia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna gelosa che guarda il telefono di un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you might be sitting right next to him while he&#8217;s getting an email that said he got into college, he will still text her the news first and then tell you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s clear that he hasn&#8217;t gotten over her and that she is more important to him than you are.<br \/>\nMi dispiace molto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He didn&#8217;t throw away the gifts<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo disperato sdraiato sul letto e guardando la foto con la fidanzata\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be real, do you keep the stuff you got from a man who ruthlessly broke your heart? Of course you don&#8217;t because it reminds you of that awful time with an abuser who didn&#8217;t know his place.<\/p>\n<p>Ma cosa fa il suo ragazzo? Beh, tiene tutto quello che ha ricevuto da lei, chiuso al sicuro nella sua stanza.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe anche indossare le camicie e i gioielli che lei ha comprato per lui e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si spinge agli estremi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna turbata con braccia incrociate in piedi con un uomo all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci sono solo due possibilit\u00e0: o lui parla sempre di lei o tiene segreto tutto quello che hanno passato.<\/p>\n<p>You know, in normal relationships, people discuss their pasts, simply because they don&#8217;t want to repeat the same mistakes they made before and they want to make sure that their partner knows what happened.<\/p>\n<p>But in these two extreme situations, either he can&#8217;t stop talking about her to the point where you know her favorite cereal or you don&#8217;t even know why they even broke up.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s really frustrating in either of these scenarios.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94293\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni che ti sta solo usando per dimenticare la sua ex\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, we can&#8217;t just shake off someone who was in our life and who meant so much to us as an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. But when you get back on the dating scene, it&#8217;s expected for you to at least have gotten over your ex just enough that it won&#8217;t affect your future&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94294,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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