{"id":21720,"date":"2020-06-08T11:02:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21720"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:19","slug":"lamore-della-tua-vita-di-solito-viene-dopo-lerrore-della-tua-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-della-tua-vita-di-solito-viene-dopo-lerrore-della-tua-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"L'amore della tua vita di solito arriva dopo l'errore della tua vita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A volte capita di confondere l'errore pi\u00f9 grande della propria vita per il proprio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/40-segni-che-indicano-una-persona-per-sempre\/\">persona per sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Hai riposto su di lui tutte le tue speranze e i tuoi sogni solo perch\u00e9 lui li calpestasse.<\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t imagine your life without him in it. However, he had other plans.<\/p>\n<p>Ha preso tutto quello che poteva da te e se n'\u00e8 andato per la sua strada, lasciandoti distrutta.<\/p>\n<p>And how wouldn\u2019t you be when you gave your best to someone who wasn\u2019t worth it, to someone who didn\u2019t deserve you?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97737\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ma cosa succede se essere gravemente danneggiati \u00e8 la cosa migliore che potesse capitarvi? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Maybe you would never have moved from a shitty relationship if you weren\u2019t forced out of it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A volte diventiamo cos\u00ec testardi, cos\u00ec ostinati nell'aggrapparci a qualcosa che crediamo sia amore, che alla fine ci fa solo pi\u00f9 male.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe there was no other way. This was the push you needed to move from something that wasn\u2019t meant for you.<\/p>\n<p>Forse era necessario rompervi, in modo che i vostri pezzi potessero essere messi insieme in modo diverso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97738\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta nel campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Forse avevi bisogno di trovare prima te stesso, in modo che qualcuno giusto potesse trovare il vero te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What we don\u2019t see is that our ex is there for a reason. He was the mistake you had to make, so you could learn something; so you could see what love should never be like.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be one-sided<\/b>. Per essere reale, deve andare in entrambe le direzioni. Tutti gli investimenti, i sentimenti e gli sforzi devono fluire tra due persone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-ho-bisogno-dellamore\/\"><b>implorato per<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b>The one who wants to be in your life will find the time\u2014no matter how busy he is.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 diverso da questo \u00e8 una scusa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97739\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria seduta alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be cold.<\/b> Dovrebbe tenervi al caldo in qualsiasi stagione. Non dovrebbe mai essere privato di tutte le coccole, gli abbracci e i baci che desidera.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be deaf to your problems.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You should always have somebody who is there for you, who will at least listen even if he can\u2019t help. You shouldn\u2019t feel so alone in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be torture.<\/b> It shouldn\u2019t make you cry more often than it makes you smile. It shouldn\u2019t be violent in a physical or emotional way.<\/p>\n<p>L'amore dovrebbe stringervi abbastanza da farvi sentire come se apparteneste a un altro essere umano, ma siete comunque liberi. Siete liberi di essere voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97740\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che si dondola sull&#039;altalena\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be grateful for the mistake of your life. It prepared you for what\u2019s yet to come. It prepared you for the real deal. It prepared you for the love of your life.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Your mistake enabled you to recognize \u201cthe one\u201d when he comes. And you will recognize him\u2014there is no doubt about it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vi brilleranno gli occhi perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 ricordato di inviare un semplice messaggio che migliorer\u00e0 la vostra giornata.<\/p>\n<p>Quando \u00e8 sopraffatto dal lavoro o dalla vita, si prender\u00e0 un minuto per chiamarvi, perch\u00e9 voi siete nei suoi pensieri, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n<p>Sentirete quella pace interiore che avete cercato a lungo, perch\u00e9 finalmente sarete con qualcuno che si prende cura di voi quanto voi di lui.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97741\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia felice in piedi nel campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La connessione e il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/15-powerful-signs-of-chemistry-between-two-people\/\">chimica<\/a> che condividerete sar\u00e0 magnetico. Vi avviciner\u00e0 sempre di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Sar\u00e0 facile fare programmi e passare del tempo insieme perch\u00e9 lui vorr\u00e0 vedervi tanto quanto voi volete vedere lui.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto sar\u00e0 ricambiato e vi sembrer\u00e0 di fluttuare al settimo cielo. Allo stesso tempo, quell'amore vi terr\u00e0 con i piedi per terra. Vi far\u00e0 sentire al sicuro.<\/p>\n<p>Vi sentirete come se aveste finalmente trovato la vostra casa e non avrete alcun dubbio al riguardo. Per la prima volta nella vostra vita, sarete sicuri.<\/p>\n<p><strong><i>Tutto questo sar\u00e0 merito dell'errore della vostra vita, quello che vi ha prosciugato emotivamente, abbandonato e spezzato completamente.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><i>Il vostro errore vi ha fatto raccogliere quei pezzi e li ha assemblati nel vostro stile unico, bello e forte.<\/i>\u2014a <i>stile che solo l'amore della vostra vita riconoscer\u00e0 e custodir\u00e0 per l'eternit\u00e0.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80230 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"L&#039;amore della tua vita di solito arriva dopo l&#039;errore della tua vita\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It happens at times that you confuse the biggest mistake of your life for your forever person. You lay all your hopes and dreams on him just so he could walk all over them. You couldn\u2019t imagine your life without him in it. However, he had other plans. He took as much as he could&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":97742,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21720"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163636,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21720\/revisions\/163636"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97742"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}