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<\/p>\nQuando si pensa all'ex fidanzata del proprio attuale ragazzo, si prova una gamma diversa di emozioni.<\/p>\n
Potreste essere gelosi di lei e di tutto ci\u00f2 che avevano loro due. Potreste persino odiarla, in un certo senso.<\/p>\n
You might compare yourself to your boyfriend\u2019s ex, thinking about the things she had and you don\u2019t have, wondering if he loved her more than he loves you.<\/p>\n
Oppure potreste non pensare nemmeno a lei.<\/p>\n
If their relationship ended a while ago before you met this guy, you\u2019ll probably be completely indifferent to this girl because her existence in his life doesn\u2019t affect you in any way.<\/p>\n
But it is rare for a woman to be grateful to her boyfriend\u2019s ex. And this is especially true if this girl caused him a lot of emotional pain and if she broke his heart.<\/b><\/p>\n
First of all, you hate her for doing harm to the person you love this much. You can\u2019t believe that someone could intentionally hurt this kind and loving man.<\/p>\n
You hate her for all the pain he\u2019s been through because you know he never deserved to go through something like that.<\/p>\n
Ma in un certo senso, siete anche gelosi.<\/p>\n
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Perch\u00e9 siete ben consapevoli dell'intensit\u00e0 dell'amore che deve aver provato per questa donna. Sapete che doveva amarla fino alle ossa perch\u00e9 le ha permesso di avere un impatto cos\u00ec grande sulla sua vita.<\/p>\n
Perch\u00e9 le uniche persone che ti spezzano sono di solito quelle che ami di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n
But I don\u2019t feel any of these things. Instead,<\/p>\n
Sono grata a te, la donna che ha spezzato l'uomo che amo.<\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am in no way happy for the pain he has been through. I am not glad that he had his heart broken and that he had to suffer with you.<\/p>\n
But I am grateful for your existence in his life because if it hadn\u2019t been for you, he and I would never be happily in love, the way we are today.<\/b><\/p>\n
you hadn\u2019t broken his heart, he would never have learned the difference between a toxic girl who will cause him pain and a loving girl who will give him everything he needs.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know the difference between real and toxic love and the difference between an almost and a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know the difference between a trustworthy girl and a girl whom he can never trust.<\/p>\n
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If you hadn\u2019t broken his heart, he wouldn\u2019t know the difference between a girl who sees his worth and a girl who makes him feel insecure and not enough.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know how to recognize the love he deserves. And he would never be persistent enough to look for that love.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t know that he should never settle for less and that he should never be with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve him because that could get him into a lot of trouble.<\/b><\/p>\n
If you hadn\u2019t treated him the way you did, he would never have known what a relationship shouldn\u2019t look like. And he would never have known how a person who doesn\u2019t love him enough treats him.<\/p>\n
Therefore, he wouldn\u2019t have recognized the love I felt for him from the beginning.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t have seen that I was different than you, and he wouldn\u2019t have seen the difference between the real love I was giving him and the love he thought you felt for him.<\/p>\n
If he hadn\u2019t begged for your love and attention, he wouldn\u2019t appreciate me giving myself completely to him.<\/p>\n
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If you hadn\u2019t made him go through all of this, he would be much weaker. He wouldn\u2019t face life\u2019s difficulties as easily as he is doing now.<\/b><\/p>\n
And most importantly, if he hadn\u2019t experienced the amount of pain he did, he wouldn\u2019t know how it feels to have your heart broken.<\/p>\n
He wouldn\u2019t have become this sensitive to other people\u2019s suffering, and he wouldn\u2019t be this careful when it comes to hurting me.<\/p>\n
La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che avete avuto un grande impatto sulla sua vita.<\/p>\n
The truth is that he would probably be a different man if he had never met you, and he would certainly have been different if you hadn\u2019t broken his heart.<\/p>\n
But trust me\u2014everything you did to him made him a better man. It made him a man who loves me and the man I love.<\/p>\n
E di questo non potr\u00f2 mai ringraziarvi abbastanza.<\/p>\n
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