{"id":21738,"date":"2020-06-08T11:50:51","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:50:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21738"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:34:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:34:14","slug":"ti-amo-cosi-tanto-che-voglio-che-tu-sia-felice-anche-senza-di-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-amo-cosi-tanto-che-voglio-che-tu-sia-felice-anche-senza-di-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti amo cos\u00ec tanto che voglio che tu sia felice anche senza di me"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you hear the words \u201c<\/span>amore incondizionato<\/span><\/a>\u201d, you automatically think of love which has no selfishness in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si pensa a un amore in cui si \u00e8 pronti a fare qualsiasi sacrificio per rendere felice l'altra persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensate all'amore che non ha condizioni e all'amore che non chiede nulla in cambio. <\/span><\/p>\n

You think about love in which you always put other people\u2019s needs in front of your own, even if that makes you unhappy.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you hear the words \u201cunconditional love\u201d, you think about loving someone so much that you want them to be happy, even without you. <\/b><\/p>\n

You want them to be happy even if that happiness doesn\u2019t include you. And sincerely, I thought I could never love someone that much.<\/b><\/p>\n

I thought I loved some men from my past. But I\u2019ve always wanted those men to be mine, and I wanted them all for myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna I have to admit that I didn\u2019t want all the best for those men when they walked away from me. Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I didn\u2019t wish for anything bad to happen to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che volevo che provassero lo stesso dolore che ho provato io quando se ne sono andati. Volevo che soffrissero per me, e volevo che fossero <\/span>perseguitato da tutto ci\u00f2 che mi hanno fatto<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I wanted them to spend the rest of their lives thinking about me and regretting the fact they\u2019d left me. I wanted for their hearts to be broken in the future in the same way they broke mine.<\/span><\/p>\n

But now I know that I never actually loved any of those men. I know that this was all my ego and my pride talking, and that I was hurt and humiliated by the fact that they\u2019d stopped loving me. <\/span>E poi sei entrata nella mia vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the moment I saw you, I knew you would be different for me. I knew I would love you in a way I\u2019d never loved anyone else. <\/b>E avevo ragione.<\/b><\/p>\n

But I am not going to talk to you about the love I felt for you while you were mine. Because, let\u2019s face it\u2014you saw that love, and you felt it. You knew very well how much I loved you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Felice<\/p>\n

But that didn\u2019t stop you from leaving me. That didn\u2019t stop you from breaking my heart and from walking away from me.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am going to talk to you about the love I still feel for you, even though you are no longer by my side. Because this is the love you know nothing about.<\/b><\/p>\n

You may even think that I\u2019ve stopped loving you, the same way you\u2019ve stopped loving me. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, I\u2019ve never tried to reach out to you. I\u2019ve never called you, and I\u2019ve never asked you to come back.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve never even confronted you for moving on with your life so fast. I\u2019ve never told you that I resent you for being with another girl just days after you walked away from me.<\/span><\/p>\n

E sapete perch\u00e9? <\/span>Perch\u00e9 vedo quanto sei felice. Vedo che sei esattamente dove e con chi vuoi essere. <\/b><\/p>\n

And I see that you don\u2019t need me to complete that happiness. <\/b>I\u2019m not going to lie to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s painful for me to see that you can be happy without me. It tears me apart to realize that you love some other woman the way I still love you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I\u2019m not jealous of it. And I\u2019m not jealous of her. <\/span>Invece, le sono grata perch\u00e9 \u00e8 riuscita a renderla felice come io non sono mai riuscita a fare. <\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

And for the first time ever, I don\u2019t want you to feel the pain you\u2019ve put me through. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to think of me and to feel bad about yourself because you left me. I don\u2019t want you to regret leaving me and to feel guilty for breaking my heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio solo dirti che ti perdono per tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because all of this is something you had to do to make yourself happy. And all I want is for you to be happy. Even if it\u2019s without me.<\/p>\n

\"Ti<\/p>\n

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