{"id":21774,"date":"2020-06-28T11:20:13","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T11:20:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21774"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:34","slug":"leggete-questo-testo-quando-vi-sentite-come-un-relitto-emotivo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-testo-quando-vi-sentite-come-un-relitto-emotivo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi sentite un relitto emotivo? (E come fermarlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A sensitive heart can be a heavy burden. Your heart is so fragile, so gentle, and so delicate that even the smallest things can disrupt its balance. But that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>You are crying now and you can\u2019t focus your mind, right? I know the feeling.<\/p>\n<p>That feeling where you\u2019re choking on your own fears, emotions, and tears. It\u2019s like your own body can\u2019t handle itself. It&#8217;s an emotional state almost impossible to escape.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I feel like it\u2019s just anxiety playing with me, or that it\u2019s the people around me who are the only ones to blame for my emotions.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma alla fine dei conti, conta davvero la causa? O conta di pi\u00f9 il modo in cui si reagisce?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Can I just tell you: what I\u2019ve learned that helps the most in these moments is accepting that minute of feeling lost and out of your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Siete sempre cos\u00ec impegnati, volete ottenere qualcosa nella vostra vita e vi stressate per ogni cosa.<\/p>\n<p>Si fanno piani, si organizzano le cose e la sera ci si addormenta esausti per tutte le cose fatte quel giorno.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, you completely ignore your mental health and can&#8217;t understand that you&#8217;re under a lot of unnecessary stress.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But let me just tell you that being productive and following your dreams doesn\u2019t always mean that your heart is protected.<\/p>\n<p>Basta che una persona nella vostra vita dica qualcosa prima di pensare o faccia qualcosa che vi faccia chiedere se vi ha mai amato, perch\u00e9 cadiate in ginocchio e sentiate il cuore spezzarsi nel petto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ti ha fatto del male. Ti ha fatto questo. Quando ci ripensate, vi ricordate di quella volta che eravate l\u00ec per lui quando era cos\u00ec perso. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Vorresti che fosse accanto a te e che ti aiutasse a superare questa situazione. Ma non \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not there with you and you know that he won\u2019t even come.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be crying your eyes out for a while, but that is fine. You&#8217;ll feel that churning sensation like you&#8217;re about to throw up.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s all normal. You shouldn\u2019t be blaming yourself for this emotional moment.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92002\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Your mind is blank, isn\u2019t it? You feel everything so deeply that your mind has shut itself down, because there\u2019s nothing it can think at this moment to make you feel better.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quindi lasciate che sia io a dirvelo: Accettatevi per quello che siete in questo momento! <b>Lei \u00e8 un <\/b><b>naufragio emotivo<\/b><b>Quindi accettatelo!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pi\u00f9 si cerca di mettere a tacere le proprie emozioni, pi\u00f9 si cerca di nasconderle al mondo, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-potra-mai-rimediare-ai-danni-che-avete-fatto\/\">pi\u00f9 danni causeranno<\/a> sul corpo, sulla mente e sull'anima. La distruzione non \u00e8 una questione di secondi.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a matter of months, or even worse \u2013 years. It&#8217;s so slow that you don&#8217;t notice it coming!<\/p>\n<p>Il danno andr\u00e0 oltre le lacrime perch\u00e9 continuerete a portare con voi quelle emozioni ovunque andiate!<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t it better to just let it all go? It feels awful right now, but in the morning you will feel relieved! You\u2019ll feel lighter, like you have let go of a huge burden.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t be angry at yourself for feeling all of these things! You\u2019ll only be adding another emotion, and anger aimed at yourself isn\u2019t going to do you any good right now.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno ora \u00e8 incondizionato, <\/b><b>amore duraturo<\/b><b> per voi stessi! Ne avete bisogno ora pi\u00f9 che mai.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You need to realize that even though it\u2019s harder to breathe through all these tears, even though your face is swollen and blotchy, there\u2019s still no reason for you to not love yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Quando vi sveglierete la mattina, con quelle borse sotto gli occhi, ricorderete come vi siete sentiti e rispetterete voi stessi abbastanza da non permettere che vi succeda di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t let anyone treat you that way again, because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/anche-se-fa-male-come-linferno-sara-meglio-senza\/\">fa troppo male <\/a>di essere delusi da qualcuno che si amava nella sua interezza.<\/p>\n<p>But at this moment, it\u2019s better to let it all out than to&nbsp; drag it along with you, because you\u2019ll meet someone and want to give them everything, but you won\u2019t be able to due to your emotions being held inside for so long.<\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s why you have to let go of all of it. And this is how you&#8217;re going to achieve that <\/b><b>stato naturale di agio<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Come smettere di essere un relitto emotivo:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Distrarsi&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92005\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza carina che scrive al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nSappiamo tutti che quando non si ha nulla da fare, si pensa alle cose.<\/p>\n<p>Pi\u00f9 si pensa, pi\u00f9 ci si preoccupa. L'ansia si fa sentire e si inizia a pensare troppo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you&#8217;re determined to avoid becoming an emotional wreck, the smartest move you can pull is to distract yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Find something to do on social media \u2013 there are always interesting things on every platform.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Google things you&#8217;ve always been interested in, but never quite investigated. Try things for the first time \u2013 you never know what you might like.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe exactly that turns out to be your new hobby that will help to distract you and enable you to move on from the terrible emotional state you&#8217;re in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>2. Tenere lontana la negativit\u00e0&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92006\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Are you in a toxic relationship? Break up \u2013 it&#8217;s not as hard as you think. Get rid of all the things that are causing you pain in life. No one is forcing you to be unhappy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>La negativit\u00e0 di cui ti sei circondato non fa che trascinarti verso il fondo.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so dark there\u2026 when you hit rock bottom. Sadly, many never find their way back to the top. They get stuck in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Why you made certain choices is your secret to keep. You don&#8217;t have to justify yourself to anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine, dovete davvero spiegarvi perch\u00e9 volete che la vostra vita diventi meno miserabile?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>3. Incolpare chi deve essere incolpato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92007\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna riflessiva a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Although this doesn&#8217;t look quite healthy at first, in-depth it really is. By blaming someone, but only platonically blaming, you&#8217;re doing yourself a favor and you&#8217;re healing faster.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s always easier to point your finger at someone and blame them for your problems.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The end result of this is \u2013 you appear to become a victim because it&#8217;s not your fault, it&#8217;s someone else&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>Se si arriva a questo punto prima di rendersi conto di dover ammettere i propri errori, ci si trova potenzialmente in una situazione pericolosa di auto-illusione.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you have a close friend, you should use them now to snap you out of this while it&#8217;s still not too late.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>4. Analizzare la propria situazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92008\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa con i capelli legati che si appoggia sulle mani in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"550\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home-768x528.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>By analyzing what has happened to you, you&#8217;ll be able to find a solution to feel better.<\/p>\n<p>Succeeding in achieving that is called personal growth \u2013 when you finally realize by yourself what is best for you and which way you have to go to fulfill things you&#8217;ve dreamed of.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you&#8217;ve gone through something extremely painful. Now, you&#8217;re dealing with it, but instead of lying back and letting what happened to you disappear, you&#8217;re obsessing with it.<\/p>\n<p>You put so much pressure on yourself that at some point you become a loner. You refuse to hang out with anyone because you&#8217;re only stuck in your head.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re only thinking about what happened to you over and over again. Do you really think that things would be different if you knew about the betrayal or that person&#8217;s intentions towards you?<\/p>\n<p>Dovete decidere di stare meglio. Dovete uscire dal buco nero in cui vi sta trascinando quell'orribile stato emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 un giorno, quando incontrerete qualcuno che merita completamente ogni piccolo pezzo di voi, rimpiangerete di non essere riusciti a dargli tutto quello che siete.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92003\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It-Pinterest.png\" alt=\"Vi sentite un relitto emotivo? (E come fermarlo)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It-Pinterest.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It-Pinterest-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sensitive heart can be a heavy burden. Your heart is so fragile, so gentle, and so delicate that even the smallest things can disrupt its balance. But that\u2019s okay. You are crying now and you can\u2019t focus your mind, right? I know the feeling. That feeling where you\u2019re choking on your own fears, emotions,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":92004,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21774","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21774","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21774"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21774\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92004"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21774"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21774"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21774"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}