{"id":21932,"date":"2020-09-16T11:09:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T11:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21932"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:11:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:11:55","slug":"sulluomo-che-mi-ha-insegnato-ad-amare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sulluomo-che-mi-ha-insegnato-ad-amare\/","title":{"rendered":"A proposito del ragazzo che mi ha insegnato ad amare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Esco con gli uomini da quando ero adolescente. E in questo periodo di tempo ho conosciuto numerosi ragazzi.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been with fuckboys, nice boys, players, bad boys, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-reasons-many-toxic-guys-drawn\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ragazzi tossici<\/a>, men who friendzoned me and men whom I\u2019ve friendzoned.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been with some guys who just wanted to use me for sex and some who led me on and I\u2019ve been in a couple of serious relationships.<\/p>\n<p>C'erano ragazzi che amavo e altri che mi amavano.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, there were also some guys who never deserved a place in my life. There were some guys who mistreated me and who didn\u2019t love me enough, despite all the love I was giving them.<\/p>\n<p>Ma non sono qui per parlarvi di quegli uomini.<br \/>\nAs I\u2019ve already said, not one of them deserved a place in my life and that means they don\u2019t deserve to be remembered either.<\/p>\n<p>Non sono qui per parlarvi di tutti gli altri uomini della mia vita.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I am here to talk to you about this one guy who stands out from them all. He doesn\u2019t belong in any category because he\u2019s always been so special.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E dopo tutti questi anni, ha ancora un posto speciale nel mio cuore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E quando parlo di lui in questo modo, tutti voi potreste pensare che lo amo ancora. Potreste pensare che soffro per quest'uomo e che lo cerco ancora in ogni uomo che entra nella mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 ben diversa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121172 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"la donna si guarda allo specchio e ride\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che questo era l'uomo che amavo di pi\u00f9 nella mia vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And when I come to think of it, it is possible that he is the only man I really truly loved. Yes, I\u2019ve loved or I thought I loved other men but the truth is that my love for him always stood out.<\/p>\n<p>E la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che<strong> questo era l'uomo che mi amava di pi\u00f9.<\/strong> L'unico uomo che ha amato la vera me e che non mi ha mai chiesto di essere qualcun altro. L'unico <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/stare-con-qualcuno-che-non-ti-ama-nonostante-i-tuoi-difetti-ma-a-causa-di-essi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">uomo che mi ha amata non nonostante i miei difetti, ma per i miei difetti.<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 stato <strong>l'unico uomo che ha amato tutta me stessa<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>L'uomo che ha sempre cercato i miei lati positivi, anche quando non ce n'erano. L'uomo che mi ha amata allo stesso modo, al meglio e al peggio.<\/p>\n<p>The man who wasn\u2019t only my lover but also my best friend and my family. The man who took care of me and who knew the essence of my personality.<\/p>\n<p>L'unico uomo che \u00e8 riuscito a cambiarmi, senza mai cercare di farlo. \u00c8 stato l'uomo che mi ha aiutato a diventare la persona che sono oggi.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all\u2014<strong>questo \u00e8 stato <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-cosi-che-mi-hai-fatto-credere-di-nuovo-nel-per-sempre-2\/\">l'uomo che mi ha insegnato ad amare<\/a>.<\/strong> L'uomo che mi ha insegnato come dovrebbe essere l'amore e come dovrei essere amata.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L'uomo che mi ha insegnato <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-cant-miss-signs-youre-settling-less-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">non accontentarsi mai di poco<\/a>.<\/strong> Che ha innalzato i miei standard in fatto di uomini.<\/p>\n<p>L'uomo che mi ha mostrato come una donna dovrebbe essere trattata, rispettata, apprezzata e amata.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121173 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con lunghi capelli castani sta in strada e ride\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>This was the man who made me believe that there is such a thing as true love, even when it doesn\u2019t have a happy ending.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A man who showed me that I wasn\u2019t foolish for believing in fairy tales or in romance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And this is something I\u2019ll always be grateful for. This is something I\u2019ll always remember him for.<\/p>\n<p>Vi chiederete come mai quest'uomo non fa pi\u00f9 parte della mia vita. Vi chiederete come mai ho lasciato andare questo uomo meraviglioso.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che quest'uomo mi ha dato la massima felicit\u00e0 nella mia vita. Ma mi ha anche causato molto dolore ed \u00e8 anche l'uomo che mi ha ferito come nessun altro.<\/p>\n<p>Ma non \u00e8 una cosa che voglio ricordare.<\/p>\n<p>Because I don\u2019t want to think about the bad things when I think of him. I don\u2019t want to think of the things which happened after our fairy tale ended.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio solo ricordarlo per tutte le cose che mi ha dato e per tutto quello che mi ha insegnato.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 questo che \u00e8 veramente importante. Ed \u00e8 questo che ha lasciato un vero segno nella mia vita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-121171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A proposito del ragazzo che mi ha insegnato ad amare\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been dating men since I was a teenage girl. And in this period of time, I\u2019ve met numerous guys. I\u2019ve been with fuckboys, nice boys, players, bad boys, toxic guys, men who friendzoned me and men whom I\u2019ve friendzoned. I\u2019ve been with some guys who just wanted to use me for sex and some&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121169,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121169"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}