{"id":21954,"date":"2020-07-17T06:42:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T06:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21954"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:51:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:51:23","slug":"alla-ragazza-che-continua-a-costruire-muri-intorno-al-suo-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-continua-a-costruire-muri-intorno-al-suo-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che continua a costruire muri intorno al suo cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey beautiful, I just wanted to tell you that it’s OK.<\/p>\n

It’s fine that you are shutting yourself off. The way you don’t want to let anyone inside and the way you decided to not form an emotional connection with anyone is understandable.<\/p>\n

It’s fine that you want to give yourself time. They say that il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite<\/a> e sono davvero d'accordo con questo!<\/p>\n

Il tempo \u00e8 il nostro unico guaritore in questo mondo caotico, perch\u00e9 ci d\u00e0 spazio per pensare e rivalutare le nostre emozioni.<\/p>\n

It’s like time is telling all of us to take a break from the whole world and get back to ourself where we will have nothing except the understanding of our conversations and reflections.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s fine that you want to be selfish. People have made us believe that there is nothing worse than being selfish.<\/p>\n

Ma hai dato via te stesso troppo e troppo a lungo che non \u00e8 rimasto nulla di te!<\/p>\n

Siete arrivati al punto in cui non sapete nemmeno come fare per tornare a essere una priorit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 c'\u00e8 sempre stato qualcuno pi\u00f9 importante per voi.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Guardate cosa avete passato! Quante volte avete dovuto sentire quelle parole uscire dalla sua bocca?<\/p>\n

He kept on telling you that you were missing ‘something’. He told you how unworthy of love and appreciation you were, he told you that loving you was a mistake.<\/p>\n

Beh, lasciatemi dire che siete coraggiosi anche solo per essere qui con noi oggi!<\/p>\n

Avete il vero coraggio e la forza di un combattente, quindi non dubitate pi\u00f9 di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

That’s why it’s completely fine to build those walls around your heart to protect yourself. You have been through enough to know that wearing your heart on your sleeve can only cause damage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have learned it the hard way that men don’t have limits when it comes to the words they use to offend you.<\/p>\n

Avete visto come l'uomo che amavate di pi\u00f9 si \u00e8 trasformato in un mostro proprio davanti a voi e avete continuato ad amarlo.<\/p>\n

Sei stato tu a trovare tutto il coraggio necessario per alzarti in piedi e allontanarsi da lui<\/a>!<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You are truly an amazing woman, so don’t beat yourself up when people tell you that you are tense.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Queste persone hanno passato lo stesso inferno che avete passato voi? Hanno visto quello che avete visto voi?<\/p>\n

Siete solo prudenti. Volete custodisci il tuo cuore<\/a> e questo \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che comprensibile.<\/p>\n

Il vostro cuore che vi tiene in vita \u00e8 pieno di lividi e cicatrici perch\u00e9 \u00e8 stato spezzato troppe volte.<\/p>\n

Il tuo petto ha fatto cos\u00ec male, urlando il nome dell'uomo che si \u00e8 solo approfittato di te, che oggi sembra solo intorpidito.<\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 quindi giudicare la scelta di rimanere da soli, costruendo muri intorno al proprio cuore?<\/p>\n

Queste mura vi proteggeranno da tutti quegli uomini che cercano di entrare con la forza e che poi vi deluderanno.<\/p>\n

I vostri muri crolleranno solo per l'unico uomo che vi perseguir\u00e0, l'uomo che ci andr\u00e0 piano con voi perch\u00e9 sa che deve essere prudente con voi.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

At one point, those walls around your heart won’t have a reason to stand strong anymore because someone will come into your life who will guard your heart instead of those walls.<\/p>\n

Until then, it’s OK that you are feeling this way. It’s OK that you want to escape from men who don’t know how to show you love.<\/p>\n

It’s OK that you are afraid to love. It’s OK that avete paura di fidarvi<\/a>. Le persone hanno questa strana voglia di andarsene una volta ottenuto qualcosa o qualcuno, quindi passano alla prossima vittima.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to be just one of those women who they won’t even remember.<\/p>\n

You will stick inside their mind as the only woman whose walls were so high and hard that they couldn’t get through and they will forever wonder what would have happened if they had.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 nessuno, tranne l'uomo giusto, sapr\u00e0 che dietro quelle mura si nasconde una donna veramente empatica, dolce e gentile.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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