{"id":21975,"date":"2020-08-28T09:50:57","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T09:50:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21975"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:36:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:36:53","slug":"allontanarsi-da-qualcuno-e-molto-piu-che-rompere-con-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/allontanarsi-da-qualcuno-e-molto-piu-che-rompere-con-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Allontanarsi da qualcuno \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 che rompere con lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Allontanarsi dalla persona a cui si tiene e da quella con cui si vuole stare \u00e8 senza dubbio una delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili e dolorose che a volte \u00e8 necessario fare.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ci-vuole-molto-coraggio-per-allontanarsi-da-una-persona-che-si-ama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Rompere con qualcuno che si ama ancora<\/a> non \u00e8 mai facile e richiede molta forza e coraggio.<\/p>\n<p>Ma a volte questa \u00e8 l'unica scelta che si ha, nonostante tutto l'amore che si pu\u00f2 provare per qualcuno. A volte, questa \u00e8 l'unica cosa da fare se si vuole essere felici.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, love is not enough and you simply can\u2019t make things work out, as much as you would like to.<\/p>\n<p>E a volte si prende la decisione di andarsene e si decide di non voltarsi mai indietro, per quanto faccia male.<\/p>\n<p>Ma siete sicuri di sapere cosa significhi veramente allontanarsi? Sapete cosa significa veramente e che \u00e8 molto di pi\u00f9 di una semplice rottura con qualcuno?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110295\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa che guarda in lontananza attraverso la finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle persone commette l'errore di pensare che il proprio lavoro sia finito nel momento in cui si allontana fisicamente dalla persona che le sta facendo del male.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And yes\u2014this is, without a doubt, the hardest step to make.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma devo deludervi e dirvi che la triste verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che il vostro viaggio di recupero e il vostro percorso per allontanarvi davvero \u00e8 solo all'inizio nel momento in cui vi lasciate con qualcuno.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 andarsene \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 di questo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s much more than physically removing yourself from someone. It\u2019s much more than not seeing this person, than not spending time with them and not talking to them.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s much more than not kissing this person and not sleeping with them. It\u2019s much more than officially not being in a relationship with them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Allontanarsi da qualcuno significa smettere di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/i-dont-expect-you-to-come-back-but-it-doesnt-mean-i-lost-hope-for-it-to-happen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">aspettandosi che tornino<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con la mente profonda seduta sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando finalmente smetterete di passare ogni momento di ogni giorno ad aspettare che questa persona bussi alla vostra porta o vi chiami.<\/p>\n<p>When you stop hoping that they\u2019ve come to their senses and that they\u2019ve finally realized that they made a mistake when they let you go.<\/p>\n<p>Quando smetterete di aspettare che vi inseguano, come avete fatto in passato.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Allontanarsi \u00e8 quando si smette di pensare a loro<\/strong> and what they\u2019ve been up to. It happens when this person stops being the first and the last thought you have every day.<\/p>\n<p>Succede quando smetti di chiederti se gli manchi come manchi a te e se ti pensano mai.<\/p>\n<p>Succede quando si smette di pensare a tutte le cose che sarebbero potute accadere tra voi due e a tutte le cose che sono successe tra di voi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che si tiene la mano sulla fronte\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Succede quando si smette di pedinarli e di cercarli sui social network,<\/strong> to see what they\u2019ve been up to. It\u2019s when you lose every interest in them and their life.<\/p>\n<p>Succede quando si smette di aspettare con ansia di vederli ogni volta che si esce.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s when you stop getting dressed up just in case you run into them. It happens when you stop going to places where you could see them.<\/p>\n<p>Walking away is when you stop spending time with this person\u2019s friends and family because you hope they\u2019ll tell you more about him and because this is a way for you to stay a part of his life.<\/p>\n<p>Succede quando si smette di voltarsi ogni volta che si vede qualcuno che cammina o sorride come loro.<\/p>\n<p>When your songs don\u2019t impact you anymore and when you remember your anniversary or their birthday after it\u2019s long gone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"donna piuttosto preoccupata seduta sul tetto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Walking away is when you forgive this person for all the harm they\u2019ve done to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Succede quando si desidera tutto il meglio per loro e quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ti-amo-cosi-tanto-che-voglio-che-tu-sia-felice-anche-senza-di-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you really want them to be happy, even if it\u2019s without you<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Allontanarsi da una persona \u00e8 il momento in cui questa smette di far parte della vostra vita per davvero.<\/p>\n<p>Quando smettono di esistere nella vostra mente e nel vostro cuore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando si smette di sentire la loro mancanza e quando finalmente si smette di amarli.<\/strong> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80821 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"ALLONTANARSI DA QUALCUNO \u00c8 MOLTO PI\u00d9 CHE ROMPERE CON LUI\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Walking away from the person you care about and from the person you want to stay with is without a doubt one of the hardest and the most painful things you sometimes need to do. Breaking up with someone you still love is never easy and it takes a lot of strength and courage. But&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":110299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21975","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Walking-Away-From-Someone-Is-More-Than-Just-Breaking-Up-With-Them-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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